Mkazi wa 40: Sangayike Bwanji mtanda pa moyo wanu

Pambuyo pa zaka 40, azimayi amakonda kwambiri moyo wawo. Kukwatiwa ndi kusakwatirana, pamodzi ndi ana komanso popanda, monga ubale waulesi komanso wopanda ubale uliwonse. Akazi anzeru kwambiri, owoneka bwino, okwanira omwe amapereka mtanda wawo ndikuwasamalira, kuyesera kudzisamalira, kukhala mayi, komanso kudera lina, komwe kumakhala kolakwika.

Kodi nchiyani chimalepheretsa akazi kwa 40 kuti akhale achimwemwe m'moyo wake?

• Tsankho.
• Mantha ndi zovuta.
• Zoyembekeza Zowopsa.
• Kusowa kwa nthawi.

Momwe mungathanirane nawo

Lingaliro loti ena lingathe kutsutsa kupezeka / kusowa kwa moyo wanu sikuyenera kupita kumutu wanu wopepuka. Inu nokha mutasankha - ndi ndani komanso kuti akwaniritse. Ngati mumvera malingaliro a munthu wina, posakhalitsa muphunzira kumva. Mantha akukakanidwa, kusiyidwa, kupukutidwa sikukulolani kuti muwulule ndi kukhulupirira munthu wina.

Chifukwa cha zovuta za ana ndi kuvulala kwa akulu, mumayembekezera kupweteka, osakhulupirira kuti mukhale achibale. Ndikosavuta kutuluka mkhalidwe wotere. Ngati mungathe kutanthauza katswiri, gwiritsani ntchito. Ngati sichoncho - mverani magwiritsidwe, yikani ma sharies ndi maulendo aulere, onjezerani kudzidalira. Chitani zonse zomwe muli nazo!

Akalonga achichepere atatulutsidwa, amuna oyenera adangokhala.

Apatseni mwayi wokusamalirani ndipo, mwina mudzapeza zolakwika zina zazing'ono ngakhale ndi zabwino. Musataye nthawi pazinthu zopanda pake komanso zopanda pake, koma nthawi zonse perekani mwayi kwa iwo omwe, mwa njira zina, kunalibe kuponyedwapo pa dzanja ndi mtima wanu. Mwamuna amatsika pang'ono kuposa kukula, sikuti anapemphedwa monga momwe mumafunira, ndi zosangalatsa zosangalatsa kwa inu, ukhoza kukhala mwamuna ndi bambo wabwino kwa ana anu. Kufunafuna mnzanu wangwiro ndi njira yopanda tanthauzo komanso yosabala. Palibe amuna abwino, komanso azimayi.

Mukuganiza kuti ndinu otanganidwa kwambiri, ndipo mulibe nthawi yokonza moyo wanu. Koma ngati simukupeza nthawi yotenga moyo wanu, kodi ndizofunikira kwa inu? Kodi mukufuna chibwenzi? Ngati yankho lanu moona mtima ndi "ayi", chotsani mavidiyo ndi tsankho ndikusiya kudandaula za kusowa kwa moyo wamunthu. Sikuti karma kapena mwangozi. Uku ndiye chisankho chanu - mumangokhala nokha.

Momwe Mungapangire Moyo Wanu: Malangizo Ochepa Ochepa

Tayang'anani pa owazungulira: Mwina mnzake wokongola, yemwe motsimikiza motsimikiza amakusokonezani ku sinema kwa theka la chaka, ndipo pali kalonga wa nthawi yayitali?

Khalani ochenjera. Lowani mu malo otchuka ochezera a pa Intaneti, sinthani chidziwitso, ikani chithunzi chokongola. Onani magulu osangalatsa ndikuyang'ana olumikiza. Mwina amuna anu mwa iwo?

Lembani mawebusayiti angapo. Sonyezani njira zofunika kwa inu ndi kusefa kwa onse omwe sioyenera. Lolani kuti mukhale ndi masiku ambiri komanso misonkhano. Mwina mmodzi wa iwo adzatha ndi Wasalsa Mendelsson.

Osakhala kunyumba. Ngati muli ndi mwayi woyenda - onetsetsani kuti mukugwiritsa ntchito. Tsopano ambiri a amuna ndi akazi azaka zosiyanasiyana akuyang'ana alendo omwe amakhala m'malo osiyanasiyana ndi ntchito. Ngati simukupeza mwamuna, mudzakumana ndi zinthu zosangalatsa, ndipo zidzakhala zozizwitsa kwambiri zomwe sipangakhale nthawi yachisoni. Ngati palibe mwayi wokwera ndalama zotsika mtengo, pitani ku ziwonetsero ndi makalasi a Caster, pitani ku maphunziro a Maphunziro kuvina kapena kukwera. Gulani njinga ndipo phunzirani ngodya zokongola kwambiri za mzinda wanu.

Lowani mu masewera olimbitsa thupi. Amuna ambiri atayamba kudzisamalira. Tengani chitsanzo kwa iwo. Zachidziwikire, palibe chitsimikizo kuti zili mu masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti mudzakumana ndi munthu wamaloto anu, koma ingowonjezereni mwayi, kukonza chiwerengerocho, kukokoka kwa kunjaku ndikuyamba kudzidalira.

Kumwetulira! Osanena pachabe: "Izi zimakopa ngati". Pofunafuna bwenzi labwino, lanzeru ndi nthabwala zabwino kwambiri, khalani omasuka kudziko lapansi, anthu, chidziwitso chatsopano ndi luso.

Tiyeni tiwone mwachidule

Ngati muli pachibwenzi chomwe mwakhutira, koma ndikufuna kusintha kena kake, - achite. Lankhulani ndi mnzanu, ndi chitsanzo chanu, musonyezeni momwe mungakhalire pachibwenzi, mwanzeru, koma mosalekeza amateteza malingaliro anu.

Ngati muli pachibwenzi kuti simumakukwanirani, ndi nthawi yoti mumalize. Mnzanu wosayenera kukukokerani pansi, kukuwonongerani inu ngati munthu, sikukulolani kuti mumange ubale ndi munthu amene angakuyamikani ndi ulemu.

Ngati muli nokha, koma sizikuyenera kuyenera kuzisintha, kuyesa kusintha zinthu.

Osayika mtanda chifukwa cha zaka, kulemera kapena zifukwa zina. M'dziko lapansi, mazana aanthu omwe ali oyenera inu.

Dzikondeni nokha, landirani momwe muliri, khalani, pitani patsogolo, yang'anani makalasi posamba ndi njira zomwe angagwiritse ntchito, kukulitsa gulu la abwenzi ndi abwenzi, amayang'ana anthu okonda anzawo. Mwina wina waiwo adzaposa bwenzi kapena munthu wapafupi ndi mzimu. Osatsitsa manja anu! Kuthandizira kwanu kwa inu ndi chitukuko chanu ndi ndalama zolondola kwambiri.

Ngati muli nokha, koma osangalala, khalani mu dziko ili motalikirapo momwe mungathere. Muzisamalire mwakudzipumira. Kumbukirani kuti muyenera kukhala osangalala ndipo zaka za izi sizolepheretsa.