Nelekt ndi amodzi mwa mitundu ya nkhanza kwambiri ya nkhanza zamaganizidwe. Choyamba, zimakhala zovuta kuzindikira, kachiwiri, kupezeka kokha, komwe kumakhala kokha momwe zinthu ziliri kokwanira kwa wozunzidwayo, kotero kudikirira kuti thandizo lake likhalepo.
M'malo mwake, kusakhazikika kumakhala kovuta kwambiri, pomwe nexlemper amawoneka modzipereka kwathunthu komanso chifukwa chodzipereka kwambiri. Womuzunza ali ndi chidaliro kuti ndikofunikira kusamalira chitonthozo ndikukwaniritsa zosowa zanu ndikuchita izi pothana ndi ena.
Tsoka ilo, monga machitidwe amasonyezera, amuna ambiri amakhala mopanda ulemu kwa anzawo ndi atsikana, osakwanitsa kuchita zinthu monyanyira, koma kuwadyetsanso kudziona kuti ndi mphamvu pa mkazi. Palibe chomwe chimafanana ndi chisamaliro chenicheni kapena kudekha kulibe.
Kumbukirani kuti mwina mwamvapo mobwerezabwereza kwa mwamuna wanga kapena chibwenzi choona mtima mobwerezabwereza: "Sindinadziwe ...", "Sindinamvetsetse ..." Munthawi ya izi, pamene inu Anali pachiwopsezo chachikulu ndipo amadalira, mwachitsanzo, wodwala, ali ndi njala kapena wopanda ndalama. Palibe umboni wachindunji wa kudziimba mlandu, kotero kuti ziphunzitsozo ndizosavuta kuchoka paudindo komanso kufunika koyankha zochita. M'malo mwake, ndinayiwala kugwira ntchito, ndipo ndinayambanso amayi anga, mnzake anapempha kuti aponyere mu eyapoti ... ndipo maso ndi owona mtima.
Chimodzi mwazowoneka zowoneka bwino kwambiri zopanda wamwamuna - kusowa kwa chakudya. Pankhaniyi, munthu amapanga mkazi yemwe adzalamulira mkaziyo, nasankha ndani, ndi liti, nadzadya chiyani, adzagula chiyani m'sitolo ndi zomwe sichoncho. Kenako mawuwo adayamba kulira: "Sitikufuna," ngati simukufuna - sizitanthauza kuti sizakunjana kwambiri, "Ndiokwera mtengo kwambiri" (mogwirizana ndi zinthu zosavuta), "asayansi aku Britain adatsimikizira kuti Ndi chakudya choyipa komanso mavitamini, "sitinalandiridwe." "Ndikumva kuti ndadwala chakudya chanu", "Ndakupezani zomwe mumakonda" ndi zina zambiri.
Nthawi zambiri, osakhala owoneka amawonekera panthawi yomwe mkazi ali pa kuchoka kwa ana. Ndiye kuti simungamulole kuti apite kwa madotolo ("muli athanzi, mukufunira chiyani"), osagula mankhwala ("Ndayiwala" Kupumula Kwanyumba Kuyambira Ubwenzi ("Ndine Zinthu zofunika kwambiri, sindingakuthandizeni "), musamasamalire zaumoyo wake, mwachitsanzo, zomwe zimafuna kuyanjana mwachangu kapena gawo la Cesarean pakagonana sizingapweteketse.
Tiyenera kudziwa kuti imodzi mwazizindikiro zokhala ndi zolipiritsa ndi zomwe zimasungidwa ndi mkazi wa mayina onse paubwenzi ndi zinthu zina. Mwamunayo amafunsa kuti atanthauze ntchito yosavuta, pafupi ndi nyumbayo kuti athe kupereka nthawi yochulukirapo kwa banja lake, wokondedwa wake nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito njira zonyansa kwambiri zachiwerewere, ndipo ngakhale kumayendetsa konse ku mzinda wina, kutsimikizira gawo ili pa zokonda ndi ziyembekezo za payekha.
Kenako chingatsatire kufalikira kolingalira kwa mkazi wowongolera ndi mphamvu: "Ndimapatsa mkazi wanga malipiro onse!", Koma makamaka, munthu amene ali pa mlanduwo, chifukwa amatenga maudindo akuluakulu kuti ndi kukakamizidwa kuti asavulaze banja. Zabwino zonse - ana ndi amuna, nthawi zambiri amamuvulaza. Akazi, pamapewa omwe amawongolera kwambiri mu gawo la chilichonse padziko lapansi, monga banja, anzawo, ana, nthawi zambiri samamvetsetsa kuti kutopa kotheratu kumachokera. - Koma ndatopa kwambiri watopa). Chifukwa chake, ulamuliro ndi udindo - umawononga mphamvuyo, ndikuwotcha. Ndipo kwa akazi, udindo ndi kuwongolera sizipereka mphamvu, uwu ndi udindo wa kapolo, osati bwana.
Choyipa chachikulu sichosatheka kusiyanitsa pakati. Mwamuna wosamala - amalola kuti asagwire ntchito, amakhala kunyumba, komabe, chinthu chomwe chimadwala nthawi zambiri, koma kwa munthu wotere chidzapita ku kusinthaku. Wobwezera samawonetsa kuti ndi wakunja wa nkhope yake yeniyeni, ndipo nthawi zambiri kumafuna kuyang'ana nthawi zambiri momwe angathere komanso kuda nkhawa.
Komabe, ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti moopsa kwambiri, zomwe zimatha, pomwe ma nelekletter amawoneka ngati mkazi wamasiye wokhulupirika, koma zaka zingapo zapitazo amakhala ndi moyo watsopano mozungulira.
Momwe Mungadziwire
Njiru
Muyenera kuwona, penyani, kodi amasangalala ndi mtima wonse zomwe anthu ena anachita? Kodi ndizotheka kujambula mphamvu ya chisangalalo chenicheni kapena chosangalatsa kukwaniritsa "chakudya cha chakudya" chokha?Mbiri Yabanja
Ngati pali mwayi, ndiye kuti muyenera kudziwa momwe zinthu ziliri ndi banjali ngati mukukayikira chifukwa cha kusakhulupirira. Ngati pali zovuta zachikazi, zachilendo, zosagwirizana kapena zomiza pazipembedzo kapena zamatsenga, ndiye kuti ndioyenera.
Kusakonda
Kodi ndimverera kuti ndimverere mtima ndi mtima wonse, fotokozerani zowawa za munthu wina, kapena kodi amakhalabe osagwirizana ndi mavuto a ena? Amuna ambiri amafotokoza kusagwirizana kwawo pankhani ya masclilby, koma palibe kulimba mtima kosamalira kuvutika. Pankhaniyi, izi ndizachiwawa chomwechi.Kukayikitsa
Mwachitsanzo: "Gulu la anthu litalowa m'mphepete mwa nyanja, wotsogolerayo akuti: Nayi nyanja yamkuntho yomwe inamiza mkazi wokalambayo." Abuyuser anati: "Mkaziyo anamwalira chifukwa nzika zake zimafuna kulandira cholowa." Monga akunena, m'ma nthabwala iliyonse pali nthabwala zina. Kukayikitsa ndi Bechizonion, powona kuti, muyenera kuthamanga.
Kodi Mungapulumuke Bwanji?
- Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti mwamunayo ndi wabwinobwino ndipo pang'onopang'ono amawuma kwa inu anzanu komanso atsikana, atemberera abale ndi makolo, amalimbikira kudzipereka kwanu padziko lapansi, "mutha kutetezedwa."
- Popanda msuzi sasiya kulankhulana ndi makolo komanso abwenzi apamtima. Asiyeni azidziwa ntchito zanu, malingaliro anu ndi zida mu banja.
- Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti mkhalidwe womwe munthu amagwiritsa ntchito pachiwopsezo chanu ndikuwopseza kuti mubwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza.
- Kumbukirani kuti muli nokha, ndipo moyo wanu uli ndekha. Ntchito yanu yayikulu ndikukhala ndi moyo komanso kukhala wathanzi komanso wokondwa. Kupitilira ndi kwakukulu, kumakusamalirani kupatula inu zanso. Ngati mukuwona kuti simuli bwino, kapena mukuwona kuti mukuwopseza thanzi lanu komanso thanzi lanu, angathe.
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