Monga mukudziwa, ziwava zongoyambika zamunthu mwanjira ina, poyerekeza ndi zina. Amatha kumva maonekedwe amkati mwa anthu ena, pafupifupi iwo eni. Izi zimawathandiza kuti azikonda ndi moyo wonse, kuti asulire chisalungamo, komanso kuthetsa ena chifukwa cha kuzunzidwa. Koma chifukwa cha malingaliro awo obadwa nawo achifundo ndi chisamaliro, kukhudzana nthawi zambiri kumagwiritsidwa ntchito pofuna zawo. Chifukwa chake, mavuto 8 omwe ali ndi vuto lililonse amakhala nthawi ndi nthawi.
1. Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti alankhule
Zokhudza kusungulumwa, nthawi yayitali yosungulumwa ndi kumiza kungakhudze luso lawo kufotokozera zakukhosi kwawo momveka bwino ngati angafune. "Zokambirana zazing'ono" zazing'ono "zopanda pake" - mwachionekere siwopuma.2. Amatha kuchita mantha
Chifundo chowoneka bwino nthawi zambiri chimakhala ndi zovuta kuti athe kusefa kapena kukankha malingaliro a ena, komanso iwo amasavuta kuchotsa phokoso lalikulu kuchokera ku equilibrium kapena sing'anga. Ndipo ngati muphatikiza zinthu ziwiri izi palimodzi, sizosadabwitsa kuti chisoni chimakhudzidwa ndi mantha, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi malingaliro omwe ndizovuta kuwongolera.
3. Amamvetsetsa malingaliro a ena, koma nthawi zambiri samamvetsetsa
Nthawi zambiri, zingakhale kuti anthu otere amadziwa amene amakonda bwenzi lawo, koma osamvetsetsa kuti munthu amawakonda. Mutha kuwerengera malingaliro a anthu ena kuti azingokhalira okha, koma kudziwa chisokonezo chamkati chakuda chitha kukhala chovuta kwambiri chotsekedwa. Kwa iwo, chikhalidwe chamunthu monga kudzikayikira chingakhale chovuta kwambiri kuposa anthu ambiri. Amamva komanso kumvetsetsa kwambiri zomwe zimalekanitsa malingaliro awo omwe ndi malingaliro ena atha kukhala ntchito yovuta, ngakhale ngati pangafunike.4. Ndizovuta kulola ena m'miyoyo yawo.
Chifundo Chofunika Kwambiri ndi Chidwi ndi Kusamalira Ena, ndi abwenzi odabwitsa komanso okonda okonda. Komabe, chifukwa cha kuzindikira kwake kwakukulu, amawopa kulola anthu ena m'miyoyo yawo.
Amasamala kwambiri zikafika pachikondi, ndipo sangathe kukonda "basi" chifukwa cha mantha kuti angavutike.
5. Amakonda kukopa anthu oyipa
Chimodzi mwazinthu zodetsedwa kwambiri za khutu la chidwi sichitha kukopa anthu osavomerezeka. Amatha kukhala "maginitsi" enieni chifukwa cha kusagwirizana chifukwa chokhoza kulimba mtima kumvetsetsa malingaliro ndi malingaliro a anthu ena.Ichi ndichifukwa chake anthu olakwika nthawi zambiri amakonda kuwamangirira okha ndikusangalala ndi chikhalidwe chawo chabwino.
6. Amakhala pachiwopsezo cha kudalira.
Chifukwa cha chidwi chachikulu cha momwe akumvera ndi mphamvu za anthu ena, maulosi osokonekera amakonda mitundu yonse. Nthawi zambiri amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, zogonana mwachizolowezi kapena mowa, kuti muchepetse momwe akumvera ndi ena.
Kudalira kumabweretsa chitetezo chodzitchinjiriza kuti chitetezeke ku malingaliro ochokera kunja ndi mphamvu.
7. Amakonda kukhumudwa.
Ngakhale khumbidwire lomwe lingathe kubisala m'maganizo awo owona, nawonso ali osokonekera. Akatenga mphamvu yoyipa yayikulu, amatha kukhala osazindikira, opanda nkhawa komanso mwakuthupi.8. Akuyang'ana, koma nthawi zambiri sazindikira
Mukamalakalaka ndi zomwe anthu anena, chisamaliro choona mtima komanso ochepa ali ndi chidwi chokhala pakati pa chisamaliro, anthu ndi zovuta zawo zidakuthamangitsani kwa inu. Zilibe kanthu ngati anthu akangodziwa kuti sakudziwa zonena, koma kodi chimapangitsa anthu kuti aulule mizimu yawo kwa iye. Ndipo sizosadabwitsa kuti izi zikuchitika ngati mukuwona momwe otsimikizidwira amatha kumvetsetsa ena.
Izi zigamulo zimasamala kwambiri ndi moyo wa anthu ena, chifukwa chake amatha kumvetsera momwe anthu amalumbira pa zinthu zomwezi. Komabe. Malingaliro amafunika kudziwa za ubale womwewo akapatse onse ndipo sapeza chilichonse chotere.