Ulemu ndi, mwatsoka, osati zokhala ndi pakati pa anthu, kumvetsetsa kwake komanso maphunziro m'mabanja osiyanasiyana amapezeka mosiyana. Poyesera kulera bwino mwana mwaulemu komanso mwaulemu, timamanga zenizeni zomvera, zikuwongolera zomwe zalembedwako.
Osasunthira ntchito zina
Mwana akamawonetsa kuti ali ndi vuto lalikulu, atagona pansi pa malo ogulitsira kapena amaponyera miyala yodutsa, makolo nthawi zambiri samazindikira kulakwa kwawo ndikuwasiya pa aphunzitsi, aphunzitsi, komanso chikhalidwe cha mwana mwiniwakeyo. Komabe, kulera mwaulemu ndiko ntchito ya makolo okhaokha.Pulofesa Freerick Ruviyua, Wolemba Buku "Mbiri Yabwino Kwambiri Kusamala: Kuyambiranso, makolo ayenera kuphunzitsa mwaulemu kwa banjali, ndi anansi awo Chitsanzo, chifukwa chiphunzitsocho sichichita chochita chidzabweretsa zotsatira zake. "
Ndiwe dziko lapansi kuzungulira dziko lapansi, chilengedwe chake. Zomwe mumamuwonetsa kuchokera ku kubadwa zidzafalitsidwa kudzera mu moyo wake wonse.
Ulemu = ulemu
Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani mwana anganene kuti "azakhali okongola awa" ndipo ndizosatheka "Auvu ndi zoopsa"? Chifukwa chiyani simunganene kuti "sizopanda vuto", koma muyenera "sindimakonda"? Ulemu ndi, kuthekera koyeneranso kusamalira anthu ena ndipo wachiwiri kuti asinthidwe kudziko lapansi. Kuyankhula "Osawopsa" sikoyenera chifukwa kumakhumudwitsa Ace. Mwana angaganize choncho, koma ndikofunikira kuyankhula mokweza - uku ndi nkhani yakuleredwa ndi kusamala.
Anthu onse ndi osiyana
Kwa anthu osiyanasiyana omwe timawakonda mosiyanasiyana. Chifukwa chake, pamene mwana amalankhula ndi abwenzi, ndizosatheka kuyankhula ndi aphunzitsi. Njira yomwe amalandila mnansi sioyenera kwambiri chifukwa cha mayi wa mnansi. Mfundo yofunika yolumikizirana imadzilemekeza nokha komanso yothandizira.Chilango: Osakana
Ana onse nthawi zina amangokhala m'manja mwa manja. Nthawi zonse pamakhala chiyeso chododometsa mawu oti "Woyipa" kapena munthu wamkulu moona mtima ndipo amawona zomwe zikuchitikazo. Ichi ndi njira ina yosonyezera chidwi.
Akatswiri azamisala: ngati mwana walumbira kapena wowoneka bwino, ayenera kudzudzula, pofotokozera zomwe anachita molakwika.
Palibe mndandanda womveka bwino wamaphunziro a maphunziro aulemu, nthawi zambiri ndi nkhani yodziwika bwino; Ndikofunikira kufotokoza chifukwa chake malamulowo amayenera kulangidwa chifukwa chosagwirizana. Inde, vuto lalikulu ndi ulamuliro. Popanda ulamuliro wa makolo, ndizosatheka kuchita maphunziro - atero aja deiar, katswiri wa zamaganizo a pabanja.
Matamando nthawi zambiri
Ngakhale mwana akakhala wopanda manyazi, akapitirize kukhala chitsanzo cha kumuchitira ulemu, ndipo akadzabweranso chifukwa cha moyo wake modekha, musaiwale kumutamanda. Anakhala ndi khomo la amayi - kuthokoza ndi matamando ndi matamando. Katsabola osowa pokhala, ngakhale kudabwitsidwa kwambiri - fotokozani chifukwa chake zingachitike ndi kutamanda ulemu. Ali ndi zaka 2-4, ndikofunikira kutamanda ngakhale aliyense "Zikomo" - ndipo zikhala mu chizolowezichi. Osati mu chisonyezo chotchulira kuti "zikomo", ndithokoze.
Masiku ano, ulemu kwenikweni ukusowa nthawi: lembani kalata yothokoza, kufunsa zaumoyo - izi ndi zofunika kwambiri. Komabe, ulemu wabwino umafunikirabe pa moyo wanu, akatswiri. Nthawi zambiri timamva "chonde", ndimayamikira kwambiri. Mwana waulemu amakula ndi bambo yemwe amayamikiridwa ndi kudzilemekeza yekha ndi ena, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti nthawiyo ndi yongoyambira, koma ulemu - moyo wabwino.