Amakhulupirira kuti pali mitundu iwiri ya daffodils: yowonetsera komanso yobisika. Mtundu woyamba ndi wosavuta kudziwa, popeza anthu oterowo amawonetsa chabe, kugwiritsa ntchito mwankhanza komanso mwankhanza, nthawi zambiri amagwirizanitsidwa ndi narcissism. Narcisyu yobisika, komabe, sadziwika kwenikweni. Zikuwoneka zofatsa komanso zowoneka bwino, koma mkati mwake "zikopa" kudzidalira kwambiri.
Nthawi zambiri darfodils obisika amatengedwa ngati otsekeka komanso omvera. Nthawi yomweyo, mikhalidwe yawo yapadera imasokonezedwa ndi misonkho. Ngakhale Narcisyus yoonetsayo imavomereza kuti ukulu wake ndi njira zowonekeratu komanso njira zobisika, daffodil yobisika kuti iwone zovuta.1. Amachita zachiwerewere komanso chizolowezi chopumira
Narcissus wokhazikika, amene akufuna kuzindikira ndikusilirabwi nkhawa zake, amatha kukwiya chifukwa cha zomwe mukufuna. Mukafuna kuyamikira, adzati "Inde" ndikukutsimikizirani kuti muthane ndi vutoli, ndipo sayenera kuda nkhawa. Kenako ndi thovu "yekha, chifukwa nthawi yake ndi mphamvu zake zimawonongedwa.
Tidzapewa kuchita zomwe zinalonjeza, kenako imayesa kutenga foni mukamayesa kulumikizana naye. Ndipo mukamaganizira izi, amayamba kulumbira komanso kukangana kuchuluka kwa ntchito ndipo mumatha kupereka zopusa za nthawi yake yokhudza nthawi yake. Ndipo ngakhale atachita zomwe mudamufunsa, musakayikire kuti adzauza aliyense momwe mumandidziwira komanso kudzipulumutsa.
Narcissists ena amakhalanso ndi mavuto omwe ali ndi chinyengo, amapangitsa kudziimba mlandu. Amagwiritsa ntchito kupusitsa kuti apeze zomwe akufuna. Mwachitsanzo, ngati akufuna kuti mukhale naye kunyumba, akhoza kulengeza kuti akumva bwino. Akamuuza kuti mu ola limodzi palibe chomwe chimachitika kwa iye, Narcissus ayankha zoterezi: "Zabwino, zimayenda ndikukhala nthawi yabwino. Kungoti mukudziwa, ndili ndi vuto la kupuma, ndiye nditha kufa chifukwa cha vuto la mphumu nthawi iliyonse. "
2. Amasowa chisoni
DIVETERHILT ndipo dafoodils yobisika imayamba chimodzimodzi komanso kungofunika kwambiri kwa ena. Pankhani ya daffodil, izi zitha kuonekera poti sizimveranso, komanso momveka bwino sizimasonyeza chidwi mwa munthu kapena chilichonse chomwe sichimamukhudza mwachindunji. Nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito zosowa za anthu ena, ngakhale amatha kumangonamizira kusamalira. Chowonadi ndi chakuti chimakhumudwitsidwa ndi ena omwe akuyesera kuwalemetsa ndi mavuto awo.3. Amakhala omvera kwambiri
Tchesi imalumikizana ndi nthawi zambiri imakhala yovuta kwambiri komanso osatha kuthana ndi mtundu uliwonse wotsutsa. Atakumana ndi ziganizo zosatsimikizika za iwo eni, adzatetezedwa, adzatetezedwa ndi malingaliro omveka bwino komanso osiya kunyalanyaza mikangano), ngakhale komwe "munthu wamba" adasokoneza zomwe zili. Nthawi zambiri akuyesera kubisa kuti amadandaula bwanji kuti amanyoza kutsutsidwa, ndipo m'malo mwake amanamizira kuti alibe chidwi.
4. Sangapange ubale woyenera.
Daffodils imakumana ndi nkhawa zambiri pakupanga maubale ndi ena chifukwa cha kudzidalira kwawo. Amatha kupewa kuyanjana chifukwa cha mantha kuti zomwe zingalepheretso kwambiri. Maukwati a Narcissaian Asrocisy amayesedwa ndi kusakhutitsidwa kwamuyaya komanso kusokoneza chinthu (mosiyana ndi daffodils, omwe amatchedwa amphamvu, ankhanza, akulimbana).5. Amatsutsa ena, osati okha
Daffodils yolimba imayesa kuimba mlandu munthu aliyense modzikuza chifukwa cholephera pamoyo wawo, osavomereza udindo kuti "adalakwitsa."
Adzaimba mlandu makolo awo kuti sanawapatse mipata yokwanira ya m'mabanja, ndipo abwana awo ndiye kuti amawalipira ndalama zokwanira. Adzaneneza anzawo kuti sanawathandize kukwaniritsa zofunika za anthu ofunikira, komanso okwatirana achikondi kuti ale nawo.
Ngati zikupezeka kuti mukuchita ndi daffodil pafupi ndi inu, nthawi zonse muyenera kukumbukira kuti ndikofunika kukhala osagwirizana nthawi zonse osachitanso chimodzimodzi. Ndikofunikanso kumvetsetsa kudzidalira kwanu ndipo musadziyese nokha.