Sikuti nthawi zambiri ku Russia, mabuku akulankhula mzimayi wina akunena za zosokoneza kwambiri, zamunthu - sizinamasuliridwe ku chilankhulo china chakunja (ndipo sichimatanthawuza pansi pa mtima wofunitsitsa kukwatiwa). Chifukwa chake ndife okondwa kupereka zatsopano za kuchoka mu 2017 - "thupi, chakudya, zogonana ndi nkhawa. Zomwe zimakhudza mayi wamakono "Wochokera kwa wamaphunziro Yulia Lapina.
Tiyenera kuvomereza ndikukonda thupi lanu. Dziko lidayamba kupenga panthaka yoonda. Lekani kutaya kwathunthu, chabwino, ndi achipongwe chiti. Malingaliro omwe amakono aku Russia kale ali kale, moyenera, adakumana m'magazini a akazi. Koma m'malo mwake kuwululidwa kwawo kunaperekedwa pang'ono kuti muganize.
M'mbuyomu, azimayi sanaliwope cellulite, koma amavala owopsa. Tsopano sakuvala ma corsets, koma akumenyana ndi cellulite. Mkazi wamba amazindikira kuti ali ndi moyo wamuyaya. Ena, chifukwa cholankhula, tanthauzo siliri chifukwa cha zomwe mkangano ndi kuswana.
Julia sikuti azifotokoza mwatsatanetsatane kuchokera ku mbiri yokongola. Imatsogolera data yasayansi, ndikundikakamiza kuti ndiyang'ane vutoli pansi pa ngodya yatsopano. Mwachitsanzo, dysmorphophophbia (kuopa kuikidwa ngati Freak) anali kuzindikira zosowa zilizonse, zomwe zidapangidwa pamaziko a zowawa zopweteka kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, zipsera zitayaka. Tsopano mkazi amene sazindikira thupi lake loyipa (ngati iye, sakuwoneka ngati tsamba la magazini yosangalatsa), limawonedwa kuti ndi zachilendo, mwina chuma chokha kapena chopusa . Popeza kudana ndi thupi lake kunachitika liti, ndipo kusapezeka kwake ndi kanthu kena kochokera? Zikuwoneka kuti mu middle muno zokha, oyeserera oyeserera kuwononga matupi awo, ndikuziyesa mitundu yovuta pazakudya, ndipo amadziona ngati akuda kwambiri chifukwa cha moyo wawo zoyeserera. Komabe, za Middle Ages m'bukuli sizinalembedwe. Iwonso amakumbukira mukamawerenga kuti ndi makonzedwe ati omwe akhazikitsidwa, matendawa ochokera ku malingaliro apamwamba kwambiri.
Mfundo ina yosangalatsa - wolemba safuna kusinthitsa "chithunzi cha mdani", ndikulemba zonse za neurosis pachimake chifukwa cha mafashoni opanga mafashoni. Sakufuna piritsi yamatsenga, yomwe idzachiritsa zonse, ndipo nthawi yomweyo, "tiyeni tingolekani, ndipo zonse zidzagweramo." Inde, nkovuta kukhulupirira kuti anorexia inapereka magazini a akazi, ngati matenda adziwika ndipo matendawa atchulidwa kuyambira nthawi ya Mfumukazi Victoria, ndipo iwo ankawachitira umboni kuti kuphatikiza madokotala a Soviet. Izi sizitanthauza kuti matenda a anorexia kulibe. Izi zikutanthauza kuti psyche yamunthu ndiyovuta kukonza.
Nthambo ina yotchuka yomwe Julia amalingalira zoopsa - kusalabadira kwa makolo, kuwaimba mlandu pamavuto amisala, kuphatikizapo omwe amachititsa kuti azigwirizana ndi thupi lawo, chakudya komanso kugonana. Chifukwa chake, pankhani ya aropeus anousx yemweyo, yemwe amanenetsa amalepheretsa kuchita mankhwalawa.
Kulemera komanso njala - kulemera komanso njala komanso njala - ndi mphamvu, komanso zowawa komanso zolemetsa - ndi zosowa za munthu padziko lonse lapansi zoletsa. A Psylogist amayang'ana mbali iliyonse yomwe imakhudza mkhalidwe wachikazi wa mzimayi ndi malingaliro ake, komanso chilichonse cha zotsatirapo zake zambiri za kupembedza kwamakono kwa zakudya zamakono za chakudya chodalirika chamakono. Zomwe simukuganiza, kusintha kapena kumva mawu oti "masewera owonda ndi ntchito, uku ndi ntchito yokhayo," pamapeto pake chikuwunikira mwachindunji.
Koma, zomwe ndizofunika kwambiri, wolemba sangonena za masewera ndi mavuto. Zimapereka chizindikiro, kufotokoza momwe maubale abwino omwe ali ndi chakudya amawoneka, ndipo amangofunsa, ndipo amangofika poti ubale uli wathanzi.
Gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu a mabukuwa limapangidwa ndi makona ena ndi nsonga za "thupi" ndi "kalilole pokhudzana ndi makona a vertex - kugonana" - kugonana ". Zingakhale zowopsa mumiyala itatuyi? Koma ndi abale amapasa, monga Lapina akuwonetsa motsimikiza. Chifukwa tikuwona kulumikizana konse: thupi ndi kugonana - ndi mphamvu, thupi ndi kugonana, thupi ndi chiwerewere - komanso chikhalidwe - ndi chiwerewere.
Chosangalatsa kwambiri - mawu am'munsi pa nkhani zomwe zili pa intaneti, ili mu mawonekedwe a maulalo apa intaneti, osati mayina. Kutulutsidwa - ndikukonzeka, mutha kuwerenga zowonjezera kume inayake. Poganizira kuti kukambirana kosiyanasiyana (inde, wolemba akuwoneka kuti akukambirana mitu yonse yomwe yatchulidwa ndi owerenga) sakupangitsa kuti adziyang'anire mbali iliyonse, yamtengo wapatali kwambiri.
Koma, mwina, kusokonezedwa kuti pafupifupi 90% ya maumboni omwe ali mu lembalo - kukafufuza ku United States, zofalitsa zaku America, zomwe zikuchitika kwa aku America. Zachidziwikire, zikuonekeratu kuti chifukwa chake ndi zofufuzira zokwanira ndi zofalitsa zochokera kwa ife, komabe zimapereka mphamvu yochokera kwa ife, ngati zovuta kuzungulira thupi ndi nkhawa zikugwirizana ndi mayi waku Russia wolimba kwambiri, ndipo khalani makamaka kwinakwake kuzungulira nyanja.
Ndipo komabe buku la Lapina ndi lomwe timalimbikitsa owerenga athu nthawi zonse chifukwa chakuti imadya kapena osavala zovala, ngati zili bwino pabedi ndi bambo. Buku la aliyense, inde, sadzachira ", ndi chidziwitso chabe, osati chisakanizo chamatsenga. Koma nthawi zina chidziwitso chokha, cholondola, chomveka, chololera, chimasintha kuzindikira kwathu komanso masomphenya.
Ndinawerenga bukuli: Lilith Mazikina