Zokwanira mokwanira, njere za chowonadi m'madzimadzi zilipo. Koma ndi njere yomwe ili ngati ngale mu bung. Tipambane mosamala kuti mupereke gulu lonse ili pachiswe ndi chikumbumtima choyera.
Zinthu zili motere: Muli ndi thupi, ndipo zonse zomwe mumachita m'moyo uno zimayikidwa pathupi ili. Izi zopanda thupi - sizikugwira ntchito. Thupi limakhala ndi zofunika kwambiri, nthawi yomwe ikuyembekezeredwa ndi gulu labwino, lomwe - linadabwitsa! - Kungokhudze momwe thupi limafunira, komanso zomwe mungafune. Ndikufuna - izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosankha za thupi, funsani pa piramidi ya batala.
Zikuonekeratu kuti zofunika za zonse zili zofanana, komanso kuchepa kwa makonda, zosankha zambiri. Koma pali zinthu zina zomwe zimawoneka ngati zosaoneka, koma zitembenuke ndikuzimitsa mosasamala kanthu za kufuna kwathu. (Kumbukirani kuti kukhumudwitsana ndi kusokonezeka ndi gawo la awiri kapena atatu oyamba - nawonso sanakufunseni kuti mukufuna ndi malingaliro ati a masiku omwe akubwera).
Zinthu izi, zomwe ndi mahomoni athu a mahomoni, china chosiyana kwambiri ndi agogo athu akulu, ndipo china chake sichinasinthe. Tiyeni tiyambe ndikuti timasamba mobwerezabwereza kuposa pramtheri yathu. Nthawi 10 pachaka. Ngati ndodo. Tikhoza kusamba motalikirapo kuposa Pramareer yathu: Chamoyo chachikazi, chachita milungu ya 12-5, ndipo atatsala ndi anthu azaka makumi awiri a moyo ndi "Ine - mkazi wokalamba, ndikuchokapo. Chilichonse Mafunso. " Ndipo, kuwonjezera apo, tsopano ndiokhalitsani kwambiri kwa akazi omwe amadziwa bwino momwe Hustiry Amenrorrhea, omwe okhawo omwe ali ndi zigawo zathu zokha komanso zodzitchinjiriza.
Chifukwa chiyani tikulankhula za tsopano? Ndipo kenako kuti maola athu a mahomoni okhala ndi inu, mu zomwe zilipo, kumene, pekani, koma zonga, osati monga ziyenera kuganiziridwa. Inde, zaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu - zinali bwino kwambiri kutenga pakati ndi zaka zopita patsogolo kuchokera pakuwona mileage ndi thumba losunga mazira. Koma makumi atatu zisanu - palibe. Ndipo awiri awiri - ovomerezeka. Asanu ndi awiri mphambu zisanu ndi ziwiri - inde, zovuta, koma ndi ndalama zabwino, mankhwala abwino amachepetsa zoopsa.
Koma alipo azimayi omwe amangotipangitsa kuti awonekere. Simungafune ana nthawi zonse kuti musawasonkhanitse kuti ayambe. Kupatula apo, ana salinso chitsimikizo cha ukalamba wokalamba. Komanso, ana masiku ano ndi chikole chomwe chimagwiritsa ntchito. Ndipo pali akazi omwe akufuna kukhala ndi nthawi adzabereka ana. Ndipo iwo amene angofuna kubereka kwa munthu yemweyo, ndipo palibenso wina aliyense.
Ndipo pano mulibe ana makumi atatu. Mukukumana ndi chiyani? Kukula kwa ntchito nthawi zambiri. Kudziwonetsa. Wolemera ndi kusankha kwa bwalo lalikulu la othandizana (kufuna - zonse zidaponyedwa ndikutsuka mnyamatayo ku Norway). Mwa awa, mikanda yomwe ilipo pali imodzi - mumachepetsa mazira a ogwira ntchito. Ngati mumakonda kumwa, kugona ndi maambulera ndi kukwera madera ambiri owonongeka - chabwino, sinthani mazira angapo. Ndipo kenako madokotala salimbikitsa kuchita izi mpaka zaka 34, chifukwa m'badwo uno utangoyamba kubereka. Ndiye kuti, ngati simutsegula zinyalala zamagetsi a nyukiliya, simungathe kuda nkhawa.
Amachokera ku chitsulo "Inenso ndikufuna kukwatira, palibe amene angatenge!"
Ganizirani izi. Munthu wamba (ngati mubwera kumutu kuti mukwatire kwa munthu wamba), kudabwitsidwa m'njira yabwino kwambiri kwa akazi kwa zaka 5 mpaka 15. Ndiye kuti, ndikungoyang'ana mwachidule, koma pang'ono, bizinesi. Muku makumi atatu ndi zisanu, ali makumi anayi ndi zisanu - vuto ndi chiyani? Zaka mazana awiri zapitazo, ngakhale mkwatibwi wazaka makumi anayi ndi zisanu sanaganizire za akwatibwi makumi awiri ndi zisanu, makamaka kuchokera ku ziwonetsero zoberekera - omwe talemba za pamwambapa, ndipo omwe asintha kale kwambiri. Inde, inde, ndi anthu osokoneza bongo kwambiri mu misa, koma zosinthazi zikuwapweteketsa. Mkazi wazaka makumi awiri ndi wokongola, palibe mikangano, koma idzakhala ndani akadzakula? Kodi zingakhale bwino ndi iye akadzikhala yekha?
Koma chofunikira kwambiri kuposa kuganizira zambiri. Kupita kukwatiwa kapena kutanthauza kuti muphunzire za chitsulo, "m'nthawi yake" - mkazi amatseka mipata yambiri. Ukwati mu kamvedwe kakhalidwe ndi ntchito yogwira ntchito. Ndi kulima kwa ana - ndipo ambiri amatsegula 24 \ 7. Awa si squat yapadziko, "kuti achotsedwe", ndi zaka zisanu ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi, zomwe zimachotsedwa kwathunthu pakuyambiranso, zokumana nazo, kuphunzira. Simunapite ku Phd, sindinadutse mayesowo, sanathe kudutsa pa ntchitoyi, sanapange bizinesi. Ndipo wina anachita. Chifukwa chake simunakhale pamalo omwewo - munasunthika pansi. Kodi nchiyani chomwe chinakulonjezani kwa inu pakuyankha? Ndili ndi mwana wanu, inu osatsimikizira mwanayo paokha, mayi (ndipo izi ndi zinazake) komanso zina zodekha. Mu ntchito "ukwati" sunatsimikizidwe chilichonse.
Ukwati kuti banja liziyandikira munthu wapamtima, ukwati wa kusalala kasamalidwe ka katundu ndi mwanzeru. Ukwati wa ana - palibe chomwe chingakupatseni kalikonse. Munthu wabwino sangachititse manyazi kusakhalapo kwa sitampu; Kusakhulupirika sikungachititse manyazi kupezeka kwake. Ukwati wa cheke, makamaka, n'zomveka ngati abalewo ali ndi nkhawa kwambiri ndipo ndalama zambiri zimabvala Gramam, kuti achotse chisoti chachifumu cha kuperewera kwa inu. Ndipo kenako mudzapita kukagula, ndipo kukonzekera kudzakufunsani kwathunthu. Ndipo ana amathanso kukhala okwanira. Ndikuyang'ana kalonga weniweni wokhala ndi ana awiri pakhosi - owona mtima, owopsa kuposa okha. Pofika, lidzakhala vuto lonse.
