Chimodzi mwa maphunziro ena pa intaneti ndi mawu ang'onoang'ono "oyipitsitsa padziko lonse lapansi amapita kusukulu kukadya kumeneko." Maulalo onena za nthabwala za nthabwala, oimira zinthuzo adayamba kutsimikizira kuti izi sizongonamizira, koma chifukwa choti sanafune kukhumudwitsa aliyense, - palibe chokwiyitsa pano.
Kodi Choyipa Ndi Chiyani mu "Kupatsa Pakati pa"? Bwanji osadziseka nokha? Chitsimikizo "Bweretsani nokha" nthawi zambiri limamva anthu omwe amakhala a Fanistfobic, Lukist, Missiki, nthabwala zina zosamina. Ntchito ya nthabwala ndikufotokozera zopanda chilungamo, chotsani vutolo. Koma osamenya amene amamupweteka, kuti asalimbikitse olowa m'malo, musasiyanitse pakati pa anthu pa olemekezeka komanso omwe angakhale osangalala. Kusala (kuchirikiza tsankho) kuseka. Mfundo.
Kuyitanira munthu wosankhidwa kuti atengepo gawo pangozi - akusowa pang'ono. Uwu ndi udindo wowoneka bwino - kulungamitsa mtima wanu ndi kutsika kwanu "kusasekedwa" kwa wozunzidwayo. Kupatula apo, pamene zonse zikamalowa mundege wa "nthabwala" - zingakhale bwanji zokhumudwitsa, sichoncho? Makamaka kuyambira ta "Zhiruha" kapena "zopanda pake" ndi "koseketsa", sichoncho? Anthu omwe ali ndi izi kapena mikhalidwe ina yakuthupi yomwe ilipo kuti iphatikize ena, eti? "Chifukwa chiyani amalingalira nthabwala zokhumudwitsa adilesi yawo, ndizoseketsa - zimasiyana ndi ambiri. Mkazi wathunthu sakuvina kuti azivina kwambiri, koma chifukwa choti amakonda kuvina? Kodi ndinu oopsa ?!Wozunzidwayo, yemwe akuwonetsa kusakhutira - ndi owopsa. Amatha kukopa olakwira. Pofika komanso akulu, anthu ochepa okha amafuna kuti azimva bwino kwambiri, makamaka, palibe amene amafuna kulangidwa. Chilichonse, mwakumba, mvetsetsani kuti amakhumudwitsa iwo omwe sakukwiya - zoipa. Koma anthu omwe amayenda motere sakhala othandiza kwambiri, anzeru, olimba, ndi abwinobwino, pamapeto pake. Chipongwe chimakhala chilango. Koma chinthu chimodzi, tikamayang'ana wovomerezeka kapena wofunikira kwambiri ku ulamuliro wa amuna - safuna kutaya mphamvu ndi mphamvu chifukwa cha nthabwala zathu.
Mapeto ake, matendawa amatha kuwonongeka (ngakhale kuseka vutoli - sikutanthauza kutithetsa). Koma nthabwala zoposa anthu onenepa, mwachitsanzo, nthabwala za "makanda opusa" omwe amachititsa manyazi ndi amuna ndi akazi oyenera kulakwitsa. Tiyenera kapena kukhala ndi moyo nthawi zonse, ndikuopa kukhala koseketsa, chifukwa kudziwa kuti ndi kuseka mwamphamvu, kapena kuseka mwamphamvu pa Kalvare yanu ndi kumwetulira kosangalatsa . Kupatula apo, izi sizomwe zimachitika - izi ndi "nthabwala" zopepuka za nkhanza zamaganizidwe, zomwe zikutanthauza - mwa upwiti "osachita zachipongwe.
Kuseka ndikosangalatsa. Mwakuthupi, mahomoni, okonda minyewa. Kuseka kwa omenyedwayo kumapangitsa kusangalatsa, ngakhale anali atakhala kale ndi chidwi ndi wogulitsa, anali atakhala kale ndi mwayi womvetsetsa bwino kwambiri. Kufooka kuseka chifukwa ndizotheka. Ndipo modzidzimutsa sizingatheke, ndimalimbikitsa kudzipereka kuti zikhale nthata.Ayi, mozama, kodi mukuganiza kuti ndine wopusa kuchokera ku mtundu wa thupi langa? Ndine wopusa chifukwa ndimasiya chakudya, osawopa pakamwa? Kutulutsa magazi pamwezi, kumaphatikizidwa ndi spasms, ndipo zomwe ndimachita kusokonekera ndi zopusa? Ndipo, ndikuziyika, ndine wopusa chifukwa cha zomwe umandinyoza, kenako ndikundiyesa momwe ndimamvera? Ndili woseketsa kwambiri, inde. Kumene! Patsani piritsi kuchokera ku spasms, mabandimu, ngati mukufuna "kuthandizira". Kudzikonda ndichinthu chabwino pomwe sichimadzidalira. Mwachidule, ndikudziwa zomwe zimamwazikana. Mu ntchito yanga, ngakhale zabwino zimathandiza, koma ndimakonda kuphika. Palibe cholakwika ndi, ndidzazindikira msuzi wowonda wotsatira ndi nthabwala ndikulemba mnzake: "Ndine mayi wa makolo ang'ono! Poto atagonjetsedwa, Pasitala amasulidwa ndikujowina gulu langa lankhondo! ". Koma pamene adadzaza ndi poizoni kusukulu chifukwa cha mawonekedwe a chigaza ndi makulidwe a magalasi ndikupanga nthabwala zamitundu yonse za izi - ndinalibe chifukwa chodzichitira mwankhanza. Palibe choseketsa m'mutu mwanga. Ndipo ufulu wopanga nthabwala za momwe ndidzakhalapopo ngati muphwanya magalasi, palibe. Ndipo ayi, sindikugwirizana ndi mfundo yoti lingaliro lakuyaka mutu ndi loseketsa. Kumbukirani kuti: "Sakani nokha" - si "kuseka olakwira anu." Osathandizira omwe akukupweteketsani. Simungakhale oseketsa. Zomwe zikuchitika ndi inu sizoseketsa.
Kuseka kumatha kukhala ndi mantha chifukwa cha zinthu zosayembekezereka, pa zomvetsa chisoni, zosakhazikika, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti sizigwirizana ndi nthabwala kapena china choseketsa. Mwambiri, izi ndizoyankhanso bwino pazomwe zikuchitika padziko lonse lapansi. Koma "kuseka nokha" kwa anthu omwe amakuseketsani - kumatanthauza "kuseka nafe momwe timakunyozani," khalani otetezeka ", mutsimikizire bwino". Ndipo iwo amene Kuchititsa manyazi ndioseketsa. Kuseka pakuti ndinu otukwana - kumatanthauza kumveketsa vutoli ndikulola kuti kuvulala zipitirire, pomwe ziyenera kuyimitsidwa. Osawopa kukhala akulu. Osawopa kuwoneka wosasangalatsa kapena wotopa. Pali zifukwa zambiri zoseka. Koma zachiwawa zomwe zidakuchitikirani si limodzi la iwo.
