Akatswiri azachipembedzo omwe amagwira ntchito ndi akazi akukamba za dysphoria, womwe umavutika kwambiri ndi ma chromosomes a XX kuposa omwe akuimiridwa. Tidafunsa za zamaganizo asue Mikheev kuti anene za Dysphoria kwa owerenga athu.
Nthawi zambiri "dysphoria" ndi phokoso lotsutsana. Zotengera zimasiyana chimodzimodzi, kokha. Ndipo monga Juphria, Dysphoria ingakhale ndi zifukwa zosiyanasiyana - izi si matenda, ndi chizindikiro.
Dysphoria yakuthupi imatchedwa mkhalidwe wotere womwe munthu sangavomereze mtembo wake monga gawo la "Ine". Mlandu wachinsinsi komanso wowala kwambiri wa dysphoria - jenda dysphoria, pomwe thupi sikuti lili monga momwe ziliri, koma makamaka ndi chiyani. Izi zitha kutsagana ndi malingaliro owoneka bwino kwambiri "Chifukwa Chiyani Ena Odabwitsa Akhali Pagalasi?" Kapenanso mkwiyo wa "nyama yowuma, ndidzakuwonongerani," koma osawonjezera thanzi ndi ubwenzi uliwonse.
Chidaliro chakuti "sichoncho ine" ndi ine "chomwe chinganyamule kulikonse, ndikuthawa ku vuto lina sichosankha mozama poyerekeza ndi opaleshoni yodzikongoletsa, kudzipha. Ndipo dysphoria yolemera siyipatula chilichonse kuchokera pamndandandawu.
Dysfuoria wathupi, makamaka wolemera, ndi (bwino, womwe umakonda) zomwe zimayambitsa ukadaulo waukadaulo wabwino. Mwachitsanzo, kusasamala kwakukulu kwa mahomoni, schizophresia kapena chilango cha mkati mwa kugonana - pomwe wina, powoneka ngati "mtsikana wokhala ndi mawu achilengedwe omwe ali ndi chrauterine. Kwa schizophrenia, dynder dysphoria siyigwiranso ntchito yovuta kwambiri (Gregor "Kafki kukumbukira?). Koma anthu amachitika ndi mitu yonse ya maprosa ndi nthawi yomweyo kuvomereza kwathunthu kwa matupi awo; Ndipo atsikana amachitika ku testosterone ameneyo ndi gawo lomwe Assocrinogists amafunafuna kuti atumikire munkhondo ya ndege - koma nthawi yomweyo amakhala ndi nkhawa komanso mitundu. Ndipo kwathunthu, odzala ndi akazi omwe adzaneneretu kwambiri pamaso pa "Wodwala wanga!", Malingaliro ndi abambo awiri andiir adzati "Mkazi awiri!" Ndipo ngakhale kusanthula kwa mahomoni kumayiko ena sikuwonetsa. Ndipo iwo, otero, zikuwoneka ngati zabwinobwino, pitani ku huphoria ili nthawi yomweyo. Ndipo zonse chifukwa thupi kulibe. Nthawi zina ngakhale, zomwe ndi zomwezo. Ma tati? Osati izo. Kusamutsidwa mphuno? Wacheza m'mimba? Ma minofu? Ndinagula Strapon ndikumuchitira patsogolo pagalasi? Osati kuti ... O! Tiyenera kubala bulu!
Mozungulira zoseketsa, koma sizoseketsa. Iye monga Gregor, miyendo isanu ndi umodzi yothiridwa yopweteka kwambiri chipolopolo. Ndiloleni ndindimasule pa izi. Mwanjira ina. Mwalandilidwa. Lolani kukhala bwino ku Schizophrenia - osachepera. Ndipo akuwoneka kuti ndi ma cogs onse m'mutu pamalopo, koma m'sitolo yokha yomwe ili chifukwa chowonera S. Ngakhale zaka zambiri zimayenderana ndi L. Koma izi ndi ... Osati ine. Sichingakhale kuti anali ine.
Pafupi ndi dysphoriaria si vuto locheperako la kudzipatula kwa thupi. Kumeneko, ngakhale, thupi lako silimayambitsa kusokoneza kapena kukwiya mwa munthu. Mwamuna samangomusamalira. Pafupifupi kwambiri pa sitimayo, pomwe amapita kuntchito. Kugonjera kwathunthu sitimayo sikofunikira, ndipo kotero - pali kusiyana kotani. Komwe ndili, ndipo galimoto iyi ili kuti, palibe wamba. Mkhalidwe wabwino kwambiri, makamaka mukafunikira, osalumikizana ndi anthu ena, osiyanasiyana amakhudzanso. Kusungunuka ndi thupi kumadziwika ndi mota nkhalamba, achiwerewere ndi amayi a amayi. "Udzafunditsa - usakhale wabwino." Inde, inde, ndi.
Choyamba, tonsefe tinadutsa pubertat thupi likadzidzimuka, popanda kulengeza kwa nkhondo, kumayamba mbali imodzi. Ndipo ngakhale ngati simukuyang'ana pagalasi kwa zaka - zovala zimakhalabe zopindika, Shals ndi mipando ndi yanjala, nsapato zomwe zimachotsedwa, ndi T-sheti, kununkha ndi kusakaniza wa mphaka mkodzo, phula la nsomba. M'mbuyomu, izi sizinali! Chani? ... Ndipo ngati mukulimba mtima ndikuyang'ana pagalasi? Ngakhale odana ndi achimwemwe omwe sanamenyere mafuta moyenera ndipo ngakhale khungu limakhalabe loyera - amapeza mphuno yodabwitsa, Knuckles komwe simukufuna, osati ma eyelashes otere ndi outsa tsitsi lokongola.
Koma chinthu chimodzi chingakhale cholakwika. Pamapeto, ukafafaniza, osati zosintha thupi. Zimandivuta kuti tawombera kale zoyembekezera kuchokera pazomwe gulugufe muyenera kutuluka mu zidole zachinyamata. Zomveka ndi chinyengo chosamala.
Kupatula apo, munapanga bwanji zomwe mumayembekezera za tsogolo la thupi mzimayi pakati (ndiye kuti, The Peavuta) Banja lili ndi zaka mazana awiri zapitazo? Posamba, sabata iliyonse. Zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndikhala pafupifupi monga mlongo wanga. Samate-faifi ali ofanana ndi amayi tsopano. Makumi anayi ndi asanu - monga zakudya zina. Pa makumi asanu ndi limodzi - monga agogo. Ngati banja litakhala ndi zopitilira chimodzi (A Aunt Masha ndi mitu nditatali, ndi miyendo yayikulu ndi mabere ang'onoang'ono, ndi Mlongo Annie, ndi Nkhosa Yathunthu) Atha Khalani nkhani mu mtundu wa abambo ndipo adzakhala ngati azakhali, ndipo mwina ali ngati amayi - ndipo adzakhala ngati mayi. Kusankha kumawoneka ngati chizolowezi cha Jean Baker - sanali!
Tiyeni tiyerekeze kuchuluka kwa zomwe mtsikanayo amawona amaliseche komanso zokhotakhota komanso matupi ovala pang'ono mu sabata limodzi, ndipo ndi angati a matupi awa omwe ali ndi gulu? Inde, kuti ndikhale woona mtima - ndi mabungwe angati kwa azimayi omwe nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi Khososapiens, ndipo si zithunzi zalamulo za Photoshop?
Chifukwa chake, pamapeto pake, ndi zinthu zomwe zimachitika mwa anthu (makamaka achikazi) amawoneka kuti athandizidwe mwadzidzidzi komanso owopsa - zomwe zaka makumi khumi zapitazo zimawonongedwa mosamala pazithunzi. Masiku ano, nkhondo imadza ndi cellulite ndi tsitsi la m'thupi - ndipo agogo athu ankamva kuti ndi ma freckles, tsitsi lowongoka komanso mapazi akulu kwambiri. Mukukumbukira mbiri ya alongo a Cinderella? Chifukwa chake, izi sizongopeka. Gulani nsapato za mitundu ingapo yocheperako "kukongola" - inali mutu weniweni. Ndi kuyenda, inde. Ndipo danani ndi "skis yowonongeka." Ndipo amanyazi kuyang'ana sitoloyo kukula kwa zaka 39, makamaka popeza panali anyamata ndi nsapato zokhazokha. Ndipo ma freckles adasinthiratu mawonekedwe onse, mpaka chlorine. Ingoyerekezanani - "yoyera" pankhope.
Koma mundiuzeko mafashoni a Sgog of the Bikini Zone - amakomoka.
Chabwino. Ndi ana zomwe zikuwonekeratu - pitani kunyanja limodzi nthawi zambiri komanso mu dziwe. Ndipo agogo osayiwala kutenga nanu. Ndipo za CABA musaiwale kukukumbutsani kuti akokedwa, ndipo sizichitika. Pa intaneti, odzala ndi ogubudubuza momwe amapangitsira Photoshop Mediases, ana a amuna ndi akazi okhaokha sizoyipa kuyang'ana kuseka, ndikuganiza.
Ndipo choti ndichite nanu? Ndi zokongoletsa, zakhala bwanji, mzimu wouluka, ndikhulupilira kuti pali chifukwa chowoneka bwino, chomwe chimafunikira chisamaliro? Ndi uti wokhota, chithovu (ndipo akufunabe, sichikufuna), mu chinthu chovomerezeka, osapitirira, osadzikweza, ndiye kuti angamukwiyire konse? Chikalatachi, chomwe mumakunyamula nanu, komwe amayang'ana ndikuchita (ndi za inu mkati mwa foni iyi, sichoncho), makamaka pafupi ndi banja lachikondi (") - sizotetezeka kwathunthu. Thupi, lomwe limachokera ku malingaliro mu "chodabwitsa cha" chodabwitsa kwambiri ", chimalandiridwa mwayi wokonzekera kudziwitsa chidziwitso cha zosowa za thupi. Zotsatira zake, tiyenera kudziwa zomwe zingafune, malinga ndi zizindikiro zosadziwika. Ndikufuna kugona, "ndipo" Ndidzaguliranso pamakoma, "Ndinkafuna kumwa," ndipo "sindinalembe mawu ndipo dzulo," osati kufuna kuti chakudya ichi "ndi "Chabwino, kachiwiri ku ziphuphu". Kapena kumva (bwino, pomwe munthawi yachitatu kubwereza, osati pafupi, ayi, osayandikira) ngati azamadokotala, koma china chake sichinali chosayenera, kotero Chilichonse, panjira, kumanda a Agnesss Ivanovna adawona, kumakumbukira?
Kodi tingatani?
Kuyandikira koyamba - tengani thupi kuti likhalepo, ndipo ndi momwe ziliri. Osati ngati inu (Ichi ndiye njira yabwino) -, mwachitsanzo, monga chiweto chanu. Mwa njira, wokongola kwambiri. Komanso wokongola, onani, ndi ma meshe. Mwa njira, monga china chofanana ndi anthu omwe mumakonda - china chake pa amayi anga, china pa mwana wanga.
Osamukhumudwitsa. Mukuganiza, kodi mungakusungani popanda chakumwa chimodzi \ pee kwa maola eyiti, mwachitsanzo, mphaka? Kodi mungadyetse havarger? Kulimbana ndi galu m'mimba pamatumbo atatu mabowo omasuka?
Pali anthu omwe sakonda lingaliro la "chiweto", koma monga "ngati thupi langa ndi mwana wanga." Zitha kukhala choncho. Mutha kutero, monga momwe mungafunire, kuchokera ku thupi lokha kuti mudziwe njira yoyankhulidwa. Zonse zakuti munthu mu dysphoria amatenga zizindikiro zaphokoso kapena zopukutira ndikuzindikira ngati zopempha zamoyo. Zochepa zomveka kuposa ife, koma pang'ono. Mwina moyo wowonongeka ndi kuleredwa. "Kusuta Ine ndikufuna" - ndi choti ndichite, ndizosatheka kusiya kusuta anthu ambiri, koma tiyeni tichotse chikhululukiro cha tsiku lina? Ndipo ndimapitako pakona kakang'ono ndipo tikulira kwambiri-i-i-Ind, mukufuna? Ndipo madzi a madona amazizira?
