Ngati mutola malemba onse olembedwa pamutu wakuti "Momwe Mungagonjere Munthu" Kukopa ndikugwira ntchito bwino kumagwira bwino: inu ndi maphunziro a pakhosi ", ndi magulu aluso" momwe angamutsogolere m'magazini a akazi "kuti musinthe Chikoma chilichonse.
Zambiri zokhudzana ndi kutera kwa amayi ndizomwe zimadziwika kuti nthawi zomwe zimalembedwapo za izi, ndipo kuyenda kwakukulu ndi maphunziro abwino, omwe ndiabwino. Atsikana a Pikapenaro sakonda ndi mantha, ndipo mawuwo adatsala pang'ono kusandulika. Tinayesetsa kumvetsetsa ngati zinali zowopsa kwambiri, ngati zocheperako, ndipo tinayankhulana ndi gurup ya picap yapakhomo ndi katswiri pa yosungira atsikana Alexander Sandonov. Kuyankhulana kwathunthu kwa Sasha kudayesa kutikopa (ndipo tatsala pang'ono kukhulupilira (kuti kujambula ndi chiphunzitso chosavulaza pakudzikuza, ndipo anthu onse amafunikira chinthu chimodzi chokha - nyundo.
Pics: Kukoka ndi masanjidwe - mutuwo ndi wonunkhira, motero tikufuna kwambiri kudziwa zinthu zomwe zili mkati. Sasha, udabwera bwanji ku bizinesi yovutayi? Kuyambira ndili mwana mpaka funso "Kodi mukufuna kukhala ndani mukadzakula?" Kodi mudayankha nthawi yomweyo "Pikaper!"?
Alexander Sandonov: M'malingaliro anga, aliyense akufuna kukhala wosangalatsa, amangochitcha mosiyana!
M'malo mwake, chithunzicho ndi munthu yemwe amadziwa momwe amakonda kulumikizana ndi atsikana. Zikuwoneka kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi maloto oti azikhala osangalatsa ndikuphunzira kuyanjana ndi atsikana kuti izi zibweretse pazotsatira zomwe mukufuna. Mumakonda msungwana kwambiri - mudzakumana naye. Mukungofuna kugona ndi mtsikanayo - mudzagona naye. Onse moona mtima komanso momasuka.
Pics: Kodi inali njira yopangira ndalama iti?
Alexander Sandonov: Ine ndekha ndinaphunzitsidwa ku Russian mtundu woponya bwino (Ressi), pambuyo pake ndinapemphedwa kuti ndipange ntchitoyi.
Pics: Kodi simukuwoneka ngati chithunzi ngati njira yolumikizirana imatanthawuza kuti ndiogula? Kapena mukuganiza za malingaliro a atsikana, za momwe akumvera?
Alexander Sandonov: Kutengera sikuli momwe dziko lapansi silofananso, ndi njira chabe. Monga sukulu ya Chingerezi! Anthu amabwera kuti aphunzire chilankhulo chifukwa cha zolinga zawo, pamapeto pa maphunzirowa amapita ku kalabu chikondwerero, simudzawatsutsa pa uchidakwa? Kusankha ndi chida chofuna kukwaniritsa! Timangodziwa amuna, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito yokondweretsa, momwe mungakhalire okongoletsa, momwe mungadziwitse bwino, kuti musamaganizire za nkhawa, sizikupangitsani kukhala ndi anzanu ngati muli nawo zachikondi. Ndipo zida zomwe timapereka, munthu aliyense amagwiritsa ntchito mwanjira yawo kutengera zolinga zake. Kutulutsa kumakhala ngati nyundo yomwe timapatsa anthu ndikuti: Ngati mukufuna kuwerengera msomali, kumenya. Ndipo bambo amapangitsa kuti Hang'aliyo imere.
Pics: Ah, mwachitsanzo, monga kumenya anthu ndi nyundo kumaso!
Alexander Sandonov: Ngakhale zitatero, vutoli silili mu nyundo, koma pamutu mwa anthu. Zomwe mukuwona pamalingaliro omwe muli mtundu wa "mtsikana Pyatrochka, Yabvdul" ndi mawonekedwe apadera. Mwachitsanzo, ine ndine katswiri pa yosungira atsikana, ndili ndi ubale wabwino wazaka zisanu ndi mwana, koma chifukwa cha chifukwa china palibe amene amandithamangitsa ndipo safuna chala changa ndi kufuula "fu-fu, ali Chingwe! ". Tsoka ilo, aliyense amayang'ana ziwonetsero zodziwikiratu, komanso zambiri zimakhalabe kumbuyo kwake. Ndipo zakunja ndi zolakalaka zachimuna zabwino!
Amuna onse amafuna atsikana okongola kwambiri, ndi zina zambiri zabwino! Mwamuna aliyense amachitika m'moyo uno kudzera mu gawo ili, ndipo ayenera kudutsamo, apo ayi adzalipidwa moyo wake wonse. Koma nthawi imeneyi yafika posachedwa, pamapeto pake, zonse zimachitika pamalingaliro okhudza kufunikira ndi kufunika kwa maubale. Koma ubalewo sunakhale wovomerezeka ndi ndani, koma ndi mtsikana wokongola komanso wofunafuna yemwe adasankha munthu, ndipo osati ndi amene adakumana ndi chidakwa, nagona, nayi ubale.
Pics: Atsikana amafunika maluso kuti azilankhulana? Kapena kodi mungangopuma ndikusangalala?
Alexander Sandonov: Palibe maluso omwe amafunikira. Atsikana amafunikira chimodzimodzi ndi anyamata: penyani, khalani bwino, ndizo zonse.
Pics: Kodi panali milandu yomwe atsikana kapena anzanu apeza chala? Kodi mwapeza zonsezo, ndi zamphamvu? Kapena kodi chilichonse chabwino, aliyense amapeza zomwe akufuna?
Alexander Sandonov: Sindikumvetsa kwenikweni zomwe mukukambirana! Mukuganiza kuti pali mtundu wina wa chinyengo, mtundu wina wosudzulidwa, wapamwamba kwambiri, zopinga, koma ayi. Kusankha ndi sayansi chabe.
Pics: Sayansi, inde. Koma ambiri, atsikanawo akuopa kusamvana, khulupirirani kuti adzawadyetsa ndi kuponya. Ndipo anyamatawo ali chapafupi, khulupirirani kuti zikhala zokongola ndipo zizikhala kumanja ndikunyamuka kumanja ndi kumanzere.
Alexander Sandonov: Mukuwoneka kuti mukupezeka! Zikumva kuti chithunzicho chisanafike, aliyense anali ndi ubale wolimba kwambiri pamoyo wake! Palibe woyendetsa sitima m'modzi, sanaponye, koma anyamata sanalomere kwa atsikana!
Pics: Koma tsopano zidakhala ngati njira ina pafupifupi ya ogula.
Alexander Sandonov: Inde, zidatenga mawonekedwe, koma kuchuluka, palibe chomwe chasintha: iwo amene akufuna kugonana usiku wina, nawonso amagonana usiku umodzi, ndi sayansi. Iyenera kupezeka chifukwa cha izi osati ndi atsikana makumi awiri, koma ndi zitatu, ndizo zonse. Iwo amene amafuna kuti ubale uzilandira maubale, pezani mtsikana yemwe angafune kuti akhale wokwanira.
Pics: Koma pali anyamata omwe mwanjira ya mfundo mwanjira inayake sanaganize okha, ndipo amawoneka moona mtima, osati ayi, koma akufuna kuti msungwanayo akhale ndi "mulungu wamkazi". Kodi pali msampha uliwonse m'dongosolo lanu - kudziwunika kokwanira?
Alexander Sandonov: Aliyense akufuna kukhala wokongola, wachimwemwe, wofesa. Uku ndi chikhumbo chabwino!
Pics: Koma ngati sichikupinda ndi Olimpis, kodi ndikofunikira kuvomera chocheperako, kuyenera?
Alexander Sandonov: Sikuti zonse ndi zophweka kwambiri. Kusankha sichoncho kuti mwabwera, kudamira zala zanga ndipo nthawi yomweyo adalifuna, ndipo aliyense akukubisirani ndi kufuula "ndiye kuti Picaper adatuluka!" Ndi kumpsompsona, kuvulaza. Uku ndi kovuta: Mukuphunzira, mumalimbikira, kusintha kalembedwe kanu ndi pambuyo pake mumangoyamba kukonda anthu ena, mumayamba kulankhulana mosiyana. Kuyambira pa kuwombera koyamba, kupeza kovuta kwambiri sikophweka, palibe zinthu zomwe mudayandikira kwa mtsikana woyamba ndikuzindikira kuti ndi tsogolo lanu. Ndikofunikira kuyesana ndi wina, wina ndi wachitatu, pambuyo pake ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa zomwe ndizofunikira kwa inu. Wina ndi nthabwala, malingaliro a winawake, ndikofunikira kwa munthu yemwe mtsikanayo sakuvutika ndipo anali atamasuka naye. Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ili yosamveka, motero mumatha kupeza zomwe mungapeze. Ndipo ichi ndi njira yolemetsa, chifukwa muyenera kukumana, lankhulani, maubwenzi achikondi kuti amange. Si aliyense amene wakonzekera.
Wina akuti sikofunikira kwa iye, pali mtsikana, osati wokongola kwambiri, koma adzatsikira, akhuta. Ndipo pali ena omwe ali okonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito zoyesayesa zilizonse kuti pali msungwana yemwe ali pafupi, ndipo pamapeto pake, mphothoyo ipeza ngwazi yake. Pics: Kodi ndi anthu ati omwe amabwera pafupipafupi? Iwo amene amadikirira chinsinsi chamatsenga ndi achimwemwe kapena omwe adakonzedwa kuti adziyese okha?
Alexander Sandonov: Inde, aliyense akufuna chilichonse kamodzi komanso mwachangu, podina zala. Timalongosola kuti sizosatheka, ndipo mwina patatha milungu ingapo yogwira ntchito yopweteka, yambitsani kusintha ndi kusintha miyoyo yawo ndi maubale awo. Koma ambiri amazindikira kuti timapereka njira yachidule kwambiri. Bwino nafe kuposa kutaya ndekha kwa zaka zingapo, kuluka mwachisawawa.
Pics: Kodi makasitomala osasangalala ndi?
Alexander Sandonov: Timatenga ndalama zokha ndi omwe amadziwa kale zomwe zimachitika, nthawi zambiri anthu awa amadziwa, omwe amabwera ndi ndalama ndikuwapempha kuti awaphunzitse chilichonse. Wina samabwera nthawi yomweyo: Mumwezi, chaka chimodzi, zimachitikanso.
Pics: Kodi ndi m'badwo waukulu uti wa munthu amene wakubwera kwa iwe?
Alexander Sandonov: Zaka 64.
Pics: Kodi adakhala wokhutira? Kodi mwapeza msungwana wamaloto?
Alexander Sandonov: Sitinatchule za maloto a mtsikanayo, koma adachita ntchito zonse zothandiza, adadziwana ndi atsikanawo, adachita zonse. Adabwera kwa ife nati: Anyadi, phunzitsani! Kapena inu kapena kufa! Ndiye funso siliri pazaka, koma pofuna kudzikonda. Ndipo momwe mukufuna izi.
Pics: Milandu ina yoseketsa yochokera pamafunika kumbukirani?
Alexander Sandonov: Mwanjira ina wophunzirayo adabwera atachita, adakhala pansi, nagwira manja ake kumbuyo kwake nati: "Ndidandipatsa zitsanzo ziwiri za manambala athu. Ndichite chiyani tsopano? " Ngati m'mbuyomu zinali vuto kwa iye akungoyandikirani ndikumane ndi inu, tsopano ali ndi mafoni a atsikana omwe amakonda kwambiri, ndipo sadziwa choti achite.
Pics: Kodi mungakalangize ana anu chiyani?
Alexander Sandonov: Ndimalangizanso kukulitsa ndikuphunzira kulankhulana bwino ndi anthu - ndikofunikira kwambiri.
