Komanso, nthawi zina khalani okonzekera zovuta zopusa.
Posachedwa, ndi mwana wapakati, tinapita kukadya nkhomaliro ku McDonalds. Ndinamupatsa ufulu woyitana amayi kupita ku malo odyera am'deralo, ndipo kumapeto tinakonzeka. Tinacheza za sukuluyi, abwenzi ake atsopanowa ndi otchuka, kenako anagwa modzidzimutsa, modzidzimutsa owotchedwa polangamurger ndipo anafunsa kuti:
- Amayi, ndipo ndani amene mumakonda kwambiri, ine, stanley kapena Edward?
Funso lakale, koma ndidachidziwa kwa nthawi yoyamba, popeza mkuluyo sanafunsepo za izi, koma Wamng'ono akadali kutali ndi nzeruzi.
Ndipo kenako ndinayamika mabuku amenewo onena za kuleredwa komwe ndidawerenga. Lolani kuti ambiri atuluke mumutu, koma oyambira - osanena "ndimakukondani chimodzimodzi" - omangika mwamphamvu.
Ngakhale nthawi zina amaganiza kuti zimandiwona kuti iyi ndi yankho labwino kwambiri komanso lolondola. "Ndiwe chimodzimodzi ndi ine ndi bambo, ana okondedwa, nonse ndinu gawo limodzi la moyo wathu ndipo sitimayimba mosiyana ndipo sitimasankha ziweto, yankho labwino kwambiri, lomwe limawoneka lofanana.
Koma ana, amakhala kuti anali oopsa, komanso funso lachilungamo komanso kuyankha kwa abale ndi alongo awo, pomwe amafunsa funso la chikondi cha makolo, amadzidera nkhawa kwambiri.
Zinafika kuti mwana akafunsa kuti: "Kodi mumakonda ndani, amayi, ine kapena alongo anga," akungomva za iye yekha, za kupanduka kwake komanso momwe mumakumana nazo.
Ndipo malinga ndi zomwe amamulemekeza, Adel Faber ndi Ellen Mazeke, kufanana ndi ana m'mawu amafunika tanthauzo komanso kuchititsa manyazi. Monga chakudya choganizira m'buku "abale ndi alongo. Momwe mungathandizire ana anu kukhala limodzi "abweretsedwa kale.
"Mkazi wachichepere amatembenukira kwa mwamuna wake komanso wosayembekezereka:
- Ndipo mumakonda ndani, ine kapena amayi anu?
"Ndimakukondani chimodzimodzi," mwamunayo amayankha akuthamangira pamavuto akulu.
Ayenera kunena kuti: "Amayi ndi amayi anga. Ndipo iwe wodabwitsa, mkazi wokongola yemwe ndikufuna kukhala moyo wanga wonse. "
Chifukwa chake ndi ana, tikamalankhula za kufanana kwake komanso "chimodzimodzi" m'malingaliro awo, timalinganitsa ana ndi kudandaula kwawo. Koma aliyense akufuna kukhala wapadera komanso wosiyana ndi ena.
Ndipo izi zimagwira ntchito chabe ku funso mwachindunji chokhudza chikondi cha kwa makolo, komanso kuchuluka kwa zikondamoyo pambale, ndipo nthawi ya nthawi ya pachakudya, ndi nthawi ya tsiku limodzi, ndipo mayiyo adzayenda nalo.
Mwana ndiye chikhutiro chachikulu cha zosowa zake, osati fanizoli ndi m'bale.
Yemweyo A. Faber ndi E. Mazy analimbikitsa zotsatirazi mawu m'malo mofanana. Mwachitsanzo:
imodzi. "M'malo mogawa chilichonse chimodzimodzi (" uli ndi mphesa zambiri, monga mlongo wanu ") ...
Tiyeni aliyense azisowa: "Kodi mumapereka mphesa zisanu kapena gulu lonse?"
2. M'malo mowonetsera chikondi chomwecho ("ndimakukondani monga mlongo wanu") ...
Onetsani mwana kuti mumamukonda mwapadera: "Inu ndinu dziko lapansi mwathunthu, palibe amene adzatenge malo anu."
3. M'malo molipira ana nthawi yofanana ("Ndikhala ndi mphindi khumi ndi mlongo wanu, kenako mphindi khumi ndi inu") ...
Tengani nthawi yofunika kwambiri: Ndikudziwa kuti ndakhala ndikuchita nthawi yayitali ndi zomwe mlongo wanu amalemba. Nkhaniyi ndiyofunika kwambiri kwa iye. Tikangomaliza, ndikufuna kudziwa zomwe zikufunika kwa inu. "
Ndipo ngakhale amayi kapena abambo ali ndi chiweto, mankhwala abwino amamasulidwa ku malingaliro ndi mphamvu ndi mphamvu za mmodzi mwa ana, apatseni aliyense kuti amve kukondedwa ndi kukhala wofunitsitsa.
Ndipo tsikulo, pa nkhomaliro, ndidatsamira mwana wanga wamwamuna ndikumwetulira modekha.
- Ndili ndi Robert imodzi yokha, imodzi yokhayo mwana wodabwitsa komanso wodabwitsa yemwe ndimakondwera naye kwambiri. Ndimakukondani kwambiri, kwambiri, ndipo ndimakonda kwambiri tikamacheza limodzi.
Anamwetulira, pang'ono pang'onopang'ono ndikundiuza za mnzake kusukulu kumene kusukulu, dzina lake ndi Messi, komanso wosewera mpira wa mpira ...
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