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Ngati mukuganiza kuti tikukukumbutsani kuti simuli chitola, osati thumba, osati wowonda osati wakupha, mumalakwitsa. Ndiwe mwana wabwino, inunso pazifukwa zomwe mudaziona kuti ndinu oyipa. Kudziwona ndekha.Chifukwa simunakhazikitse kufunitsitsa kwa Mamina
Sindinakhale wachiwiri Vanessa Meyi, wachitatu Maria Cunie ndi pizzot zana limodzi ndi zana lachisanu ndi lachisanu la sukuluyi. Simunatchuka panjirayo, simulembera mabuku amenewo, osawoneka m'magulu amenewo, kapenanso, za mantha, munthu wachimwemwe, munthu wodala, kapena, amphaka asanu, ntchito yosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa zomwe amakonda.
Mwanjira ina, mumakhala moyo wathu, ndipo tikuyembekeza kupitiliza mu mtsempha womwewo. Ndipo, inu mukudziwa kuti, pa nkhani yomwe ino, iyi ndiye chinthu chabwino kwambiri kuti ana awo azichitira makolo awo. Kuphatikiza pa chikwangwani chanyumba pa Marichi 8 mu kalasi yachiwiri ndi kapu yamadzi mu ukalamba, inde.
Tsopano amayi, mwina, samamvetsetsa kena kake, ndipo akuwonekera, momwe angatsegulire: Mulungu, koma sindinaphwanye mwana wanga wamkazi, ine ndimadana ndi ine nthawi yomweyo .. . Ndi zabwino kuti zina! Chifukwa chake zidzakhala. Choonadi.
Chifukwa simunayambitse kupusitsa
Amayi amapusitsa kuti asapunthwe, ndipo chifukwa cha m'badwo umenewo, pomwe palibe amene amadziwa njira yolumikizirana mwanjira ina. Bwalo loipali lakhala nthawi yayitali. Ndikhulupirireni, amayi anu ali ndi vuto la ubwana wake ndi amayi ake ali chimodzimodzi! Chifukwa chake RVI ndi kupukutira nokha komanso kwa amayi. Kukhazikitsa ndikosa mtima kwenikweni (kosatha kukhala kosatha kuposa mwana wake wamkazi) loto, lomwe iye wochokera pansi chiyembekezo adayendetsa mkati. Ngati muli ndi chipiriro chokwanira, phunzilo la phunzilo latsopano. Mapeto ake, iye angakuphunzitseni kuti musaponye thamyani ndikumangirira zodetsa nkhawa.
Chifukwa simulinso mwana
Palibe kulikonse kuti apite, tiyenera kukhala mwana wabwino, muyenera kukhala mayi wabwino. Ndipo kwa amayi abwino tsopano ndi zofunika kwambiri - ndipo tasiyana. Amayi anu sanadziwebe kusintha kwa njirazi, ndipo zotsatira zake amafuna kuti zonse zomwe mumachita.Chifukwa simuyankha mafoni ndi SMS nthawi yomweyo
Choyamba, kudalira kosalekeza paubwenzi ndi anchin mpaka nicotinova, chizindikirochi ndi Ili ndi dzina - nophobia. Musakhale ndi vuto lalikulu, mumathandizira mayi wodwala panjira yochira. Kuphatikiza apo, kuti simumapachikika pafoni, kudikirira ndi mtima uliwonse wa nkhani kuchokera kwa Amayi - ngati sagona m'chipatala, inde, akuti mudaswa chingwe cha umbilical. Ndi anthu ochepa omwe amaganiza za mawuwo. Ndipo si za kudalira kwa mwana kwa amayi. Kupatula apo, kudzera mu umbilical chingwe chotani? Ndiko kulondola, madera ochokera kwa amayi amayamwa. Zopatsa thanzi. Mukakhala mu tummy, ndibwino. Mukakhala nokha mu tummy mutha kukula, kale zoyipa. Siyani mayi anga opatsa thanzi amayi anga, khalani mwana wabwino. Kodi muli kale? Zachitika bwino!
Chifukwa mumalankhula mamvekedwe oyipa
Izi zikutanthauza kuti muli ndi kamvekedwe konse. M'mawu ake. Zonse ndi zanu zonse, zomwe zimafotokoza zakukhosi kwanu. Chifukwa chiyani ndizofunikira? Onani kwambiri za chingwe cha umbilical. Liwu Lanu, nkhope yanga, moyo wanga umatanthawuza, timadziti tomwe timachokera kwa amayi sichidzakoka. Ndipo, ndipo mfundo yoti amayi sanakonde kununkhira kapena maganizidwe okha, kubwereza Malshev, chizolowezi. Momveka bwino, njira yake. Monga apa, sindimakonda. Umu ndi moyo, ndipo inu, ngakhale mwana wabwino, koma osati siliva ruble.Chifukwa mudakana kumuthandiza
M'malo moponderezedwanso sikutinso mayi wachichepere mumchira ndipo mu mneri, mumadzutsa zosowa zanu ndi kuthekera kwake. Inde, mwina simukonda momwe angakhalire ndi mwana kapena kukonza. Awa ndi gawo la udindo wanu, muli ndi pomwe pano wakuwunika: zomwe zili zoyenera, zomwe sichoncho. Ndikwabwino kuthokoza mwaulemu kuthokoza kwambiri amayi a amayi ako, omwe sanapirire mothandizidwa ndi thandizo lawo ndikuwulula kulephera kwawo kuyang'ana zosowa zanu zenizeni. Aloleni akhalebe mayi wabwino, mumamukonda ndipo sakufuna wina aliyense.
Chifukwa mudamupempha thandizo
Munthu ndi munthu wokonda kucheza, sakhala molingana ndi mfundo ya "kuchita kapena kufa", m'chilengedwe, adalembetsa kuyesedwa kupeza thandizo kuchokera kwa okondedwa ndi mafuko amtundu wa thandizo koteroko. Ndipo ndani ali pafupi ndi inu kuposa amayi? Kodi mungakhulupirire ndani? Ngati mukukhulupirira kuti amayi anu ali oyenera kukuonani ofooka ndikugwiritsa ntchito chidaliro chanu, mosakayikira ndiwe mwana wabwino. Popanda ku Sarcasm, ngati icho. Muyenera kuzolowera lingaliro ili.
Chifukwa simunapatse zidzukulu zake
Nthawi zonse zomwe zimafotokoza, koma azimayi amangofuna kupitiriza mzere wawo wa majini ngati abambo. Inde, makamaka. Apa pali amayi ndi nkhawa. Koma kuti mudziimbe mlandu pakuti mudasankha kusapitilizabe, kapena kupitiriza kanthawi pang'ono, zomwezo ndikudziimbasulira za kadzutsa kakudya kanthawi kochepa zimakuderani nkhawa. Zokhumba zikhumba, koma thupi ndi moyo ndi wanu, ndipo amayi anu angawamvere chisoni, koma mulibe ngongole yanu. Mapeto ake, kumbukirani za moyo wanga komanso za umbilical chingwe. Ndipo osayiwala konse.