Comwes Comwesy pazinthu zachilengedwe za abambo ndi ayamwa akazi

Katswiri wa anthropologis ndi blogger olga Rakitoanskaya-Balynkov amapezeka kuti anali ndi nthano chabe ya zofuna za anthu komanso kusapezeka kwa akazi. Ndipo ali ndi chonena za cholakwika ichi.

Msungwana wanga adalemba Lachisanu (ndipo ndikugwirizana kwathunthu ndi iye) kuti dziko lapansi lizunguli: Osungulumwa komanso osakhudzana ndi munthu wofunafuna gay. Lingaliro loti mwamunayo onse ndi mkazi safunikira ubale pakadali pano - kapena safuna Akalia adani, ndipo ali ndi anzawo oyenera - dziko silibwera m'mutu woyenera. Ngakhale zingaoneke - zomwe zingakhale zosavuta komanso zachilengedwe?

Zachidziwikire, malingaliro a Vadionschi zhainschinsky adali m'mawuwo (izi, ngati kuti, mawonekedwe a mtunduwo, osati chipembedzo) ndipo adayamba kutsutsa kuti gay sanali gay Mwamuna ali nawo ndendende. Kapenanso imathamangitsidwa mobisa babamu, ndipo ena sadziwa. Chifukwa bambo, iye, mosiyana ndi mkazi, sangathe kulekerera! Iye ndi yemweyo! Ndipo ngati zikuwoneka kuti sizingaloleza ndipo popanda mnzanu wogonana, zimatanthawuza kuti mwina wachinsinsi, kapena kasitomala wachinsinsi wa mahule, kapena wopanda mphamvu. Kupatula apo, izi ndi chikhalidwe chake, ndipo linali nthawi ya zaka zana lino!

Ndipo nthawi yomweyo m'nkhani yotsatira, mayi wosadziwikayo ananena za pakati pa wachiwiri motere: "Ndinabereka yachiwiri pa 38, koma, moona mtima, zinati zichitike! Ndinkachita manyazi kwambiri, ndimapita ndi m'mimba mwanga ndipo ndikuganiza, chifukwa ndimandiyang'ananso ndipo mwina amatsutsa - bwanji, amagonana ?! Kupatula apo, ine ndine mkazi, osati bambo, ndi nthawi yoti ndiponyeneza kwa nthawi yayitali ... "Ndipo m'mawu abwino a ampatuko, a Brazhanty wa iwo omwe amabala pafupifupi 40 (ayi , ayi konse chifukwa cha zovuta zaumoyo kapena mwana).

Nthawi iliyonse ndikamva zotere, makamaka pafupifupi chikhalidwe komanso nthawi ya zaka zana lino, ndipo ndimamva pafupipafupi - ndimachitika kuti ndikhale dzina lachiwiri. Pawiri - chifukwa ine ndine wazachipatala zakale ndipo ndimadziwa zinthu zonsezi.

Anzathu okondedwa! (Sindingalumikizane ndi Mikunja ya Vidic, chifukwa ndi zopanda ntchito). Ngati mukufuna anthu pafupi ndi chilengedwe, ndiye kuti mukutero, mwachitsanzo, Bushmen. Akatsala pang'ono kungokhala chimodzimodzi monga makolo athu omwe amakhala ku Paleolith (ndikutanthauza momwe zinthu ziliri komanso moyo. Chifukwa chake, Bushmen amakhulupirira kuti kugonana kumafunikira kwenikweni ndi onse awiri, koma azimayi akadali ochulukirapo kuposa amuna. Mwamunayo ndi amene adzazunzika - ngakhale, sizikhala zosasangalatsa, ndipo simupeza maswiti osagonana, koma kwa munthu, ndikofunikira kuti pakhale makanda kuwadzutsa ndikuwapeza ana awo. Koma chabwino, ndidzavutika, ndiye munthu. Koma mkazi wopanda kugonana nthawi zonse adzadwala ndipo amatha kufa! Chifukwa chake, chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri za mwamunayo ndi kukondweretsa mkazi wake pabedi ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakokera kwa iye, kenako zimatha kuzisiya (yemwe akufuna kudwala). Osaka aulere! Mwa njira, ntchito iyi kuchokera kwa mwamuna wake sachotsedwa ndipo pambuyo pa kupha mwamphamvu (masamba ambiri kumachitika zaka 50). Chifukwa kugonana kwa mkazi si mwana wokoma, ndiye kuti "chakudya" chofunikira pa moyo.

Ndipo ngati wina sakhala ngati Bush, akuti, Simudziwa momwe aliri kum'mwera kwambiri, koma tili nawo ku Europe ... - ndiye, mutha kunena, maziko a chitukuko chonse ku Europe: Agiriki akale. Zokwanira mokwanira, ndi kusiyana kwawo konse kuchokera kwa Bushmen yokhala ndi Pleolithic Morgitarism - Agiriki adawonanso mkazi yemwe ali ndi mbiri yabwino kuposa bambo. Kwa munthu wabwinobwino, malinga ndi malingaliro awo, zisangalalo zakugonana sizimawalamulira, amatha kuziwongolera ndi malingaliro (motsutsana nawo ngati osakwaniritsidwa komanso osalunjika "). Koma mkazi, akumva chikhumbo (kuti azichita izi, amakhala wokonzeka nthawi iliyonse), ndipo amataya mutu ndi kudzilamulira yekha (makamaka, alibe, atsikana otsekedwa kwambiri - ali "Mbuzi za akazi zomwe zimangofuna imodzi", aha). Ndiye kuti, zomwe zikuchitika pamalingaliro awo Agiriki akale adapita moyang'anizana ndi a Bushn molunjika, koma malingaliro awo nawonso anali ofanana kwambiri. Mwa njira, Agiriki, Agirimeni, amakhulupiriranso kuti popanda kugonana nthawi zonse mkazi (Akadakhala kuti) adokotala akale achi Greek omwe amalimbikitsa azimayi omwe amagonana ndi ambiri kuchokera kwa ambiri Matenda (mwachitsanzo, mutu).

Zitsanzo za izi, ngati mungafune, mutha kuponyera kwambiri komanso zochuluka. Ndi chowonadi, monga nthawi zonse, kwinakwake pakati: ngakhale munthu kapena mkazi wopanda zogonana adzafa, komanso amafunikira, ndipo azimayi ndi amayi safuna) Lamulirani zokhumba zake. Ndipo ngati mumuwona munthu wopanda mkazi - sikuti ali ndi gay, wopanda mphamvu kapena wokondedwa wa winawake, mwina ndi munthu wopanda mkazi. Ndipo ngati mukuwona mayi wazaka 40 kapena wazaka wazaka zokhala ndi zaka kapena 50-77, kupsompsona ndi amuna kapena akazi omwe ali "onyansa ndi mkazi wachikulireyo," mwina ndi mkazi wachikondi thanzi labwino. Ndi mitundu yonse "agogo anga / oyandikana / amuna omwe alidi nthawi zonse amati ..." Siyani wokamba nkhani ndikukumbukira kuti chaka chikwi kapena pakali pano, anthu awa anganene kuti modabwitsa , chifukwa onse ndi omasulira okhaokha amafalitsidwa.

Ndipo anthu omwe ali ndi moyo wawo ndi ochulukirapo komanso achikulire kuposa ena.