Anyamata anga okondedwa, iyi ndi kalata yosatheka, koma ndikhulupirira kuti chikondi chomwe chimagona chifukwa cha mawu aliwonse, kumakuponyani kwambiri. Ndimakukondani - aliyense wa inu - ndi moyo wanu wonse, koma ndikuopa.
Ndikuyenera kukuwuzani nkhani imodzi - nkhani yomwe ndimafunitsitsa kubisirani, koma muyenera kuphunzira.
Mukuwona, sindikuwopa kuti sukufuna, koma ndikukuwopani. Zomwe mungakhale.
Ndimawopa anyamata, chifukwa amakula ndikukhala amuna, ena mwa iwo amandiwopsa. Amuna ena amatha kuwopseza azimayi kuti afe - chifukwa cha kuvulaza komwe angayambitse. Kapena chifukwa choyambitsa.
Kuvulaza, yemwe sanali mkazi m'modzi.
Zakale zanga zinandikakamiza kuti ndichite mantha ndi dziko lapansi, momwe ndinakutsogolera. Adandipanga mantha. Ndipo ndiyenera kudziwa kuti simudzakhala ngati iye.
Anali munthu wamba. Anaphunzira ku koleji komanso "anachita zoipa", komanso Brock Turner. Dzina lake anali Denny. Tikakumana, ankawoneka kuti ndimakhala wokoma mtima komanso wokongola, koma kenako mnyamata wokongola uyu adasandutsa moyo wanga kukhala wosauka, yemwe ngakhale pano - zaka 13 - komabe sakundipatsa mtendere.
Chifukwa madzulo omwewo, pamene tidakumana, a Denny adandigwiririra. Ananyansidwa m'chipinda changa ndipo anandigwiririra. Ndidadzuka m'magazi, Iye anali mwa ine, akunjenjemera mkati mwanga pomwe ndimakuwa: "Ayi, ayi, ayi! OO KALANGA INE! Aaa! MUKUTANI? TANDILEKENI!".
Sanandimasule. M'malo mwake, adandiponyera pachifuwa lamatanda ndipo adapitilizabe kuti ndibwererenso.
"Unati sunalakwitse," adanyoza khutu langa. - "M'mbuyomu, nditandiyang'ana ndi kumwetulira koyipa kumeneku."
Masiku angapo pambuyo pake, nditayesa kundizindikira pambuyo pake, pambuyo pake adasiya moyo wanga kuchokera m'miyendo yanga pamutu panga, "mwina ndi vuto lanu. Simuyenera kukhala atavala. Munamwa, mwina mwamupempha kuti agone nanu? Mwina munanenapo kanthu, musakumbukire? "
Liwu lomwe lili m'mutu mwanga ndi chiwonetsero cha dziko lankhanza lomwe tikukhalamoli. Liwu ili lomwe limandipangitsa kuti ndikhulupirire kuti vutoli limakhazikitsidwa ndi gulu lomwe limafotokoza zachiwawa. Gulu lomwe likukhulupirira kuti mzimayi yemwe amachita kuti anthu odwala azizindikira kuti nditayitanidwa, iye akufuna kugwiriridwa.
Ndikufuna kuti mumvetsetse, ana anga okondedwa. Palibe amene amafuna kugwiriridwa, palibe amene amafunsa za izi. Palibe mkazi amene amagona ndi chiyembekezo chakuti amadzuka pamayendedwe a munthu mkati mwa iye motsutsana naye. Kugwiriridwa ndi mlandu womwe ozunzidwawo ndi osalakwa, omwe amaganiza. Kugwiriridwa ndi ulemu wamunthu wonyansa, wochititsa manyazi, kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zamphamvu zomwe zimaphwanya moyo wa munthu wina.
Mutha kufunsa chifukwa chake ndikukuwuzani nkhani yoipayi. Ndikumuuza kwa iwe, chifukwa ngakhale kuti ndikuwopa inu - wamwamuna ndi amuna ambiri - ndikhulupilira kwa inu. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ana anga: wamwamuna, Rylene ndi Austin. Aliyense wa inu amandipatsa chiyembekezo kuti si anyamata onsewo akukula kukhala amuna omwe amanyoza azimayi. Mayiko anu owoneka bwino, osalakwa, osalakwa amandimvetsa kuti musachite mantha. Simuli Iye. Ndipo gulu lathu silikhala m'malo momwe zilili tsopano.
Mumandipatsa chiyembekezo pazomwe mungasinthe. Ndipo ndimadzimva kuti ndikuonetsetsa kuti muzitsatira njira, zomwe zimabweretsa kusintha.
Kugonana kumasokoneza. Mukadzakula, mudzakhala ndi mtima wofunitsitsa kukhutiritsa kamodzi mwazovuta zam'mbuyo. Koma kugonana kuyenera kukhala pa mgwirizano umodzi. Ndipo ngakhale pankhaniyi muyenera kuchitira mnzanu kuti azilemekeza kwambiri. Samalani, anyamata, kugonana kumatha kuwononga moyo mu mphindi, ngati simukuganizira zomwe mukuchita.
Koma mverani ine mosamala, chifukwa tsopano ndikugawana chinsinsi. Chokhacho chomwe chingakhale champhamvu kuposa kugonana ndi chidziwitso, chidziwitso ndi malingaliro. Ngati muwagwiritsa ntchito moyenera, lidzakhala chitetezo chanu chabwino.
Kodi mukudziwa momwe ndinapangitsira kutonthola mawu oterewa m'mutu mwanga, ndani amene amandigwira ntchito kuti ndikhale wolakwa, zovala zanga ndi kuchuluka kwa oledzera? Mothandizidwa ndi chidziwitso. Pulofesa wanga pachilamulo chachimilandu adandiuza kuti, malinga ndi malamulo, kuvomereza kugonana kumawoneka ngati cholephera ngati chidaledzera. Izi, thandizo la madokotala komanso katswiri wazamisalayo adandisiya kuda kunama, ndi gulu liti lomwe lingafune kuti ndisankhe.
Ndikudziwa kuti chilichonse chitha kukhala chochuluka kwambiri kwa inu, koma ndikufuna kuti mudziwe kuti ndili pano, pafupi ndi inu. Moyo wanu wonse ndikulonjeza kuti ndikupatseni chidziwitso chomwe chingakuthandizeni kuti mupange mayankho mwanu komanso mwadongosolo. Ndikuthandizani kuti musinthe zilako lako zakale kwambiri kuti zitheke kuti sizichokera ku ulamuliro ndipo sizinatenge pamwamba pa inu. Ndikuwonetsa momwe mungakhalire moyo wonse woyenera komanso wowona mtima. Ndikuphunzitsani momwe mungakhalire anyamata omwe asintha anyamata ena.
Chikhalidwe cha chiwawa si vuto chabe, uku ndi vuto lenileni. Koma tonse pamodzi titha kukhudza zochitika. Titha kuthyola bwalo uku.
Mawu anga ndi amodzi, koma muli nanu anayi. Ndipo mawu athu anayi amatha kukhala osiyanasiyana. Koma zonse zimayamba ndi ine - ndidzakuphunzitsani kuti mukhale anyamata amene akukula kukhala amuna omwe amafunika kuona moyo wa munthu.
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