Mwa kukhala munthu wamkulu, aliyense akumvetsa kuti palibe chabwino mwachilengedwe, ndipo zinanso kuti anthu abwino sapita pansi. Amayi ndi abambo amasiyana kwambiri m'machitidwe awo ndi maphunziro. Kuyamba kumanga ubale, izi ziyenera kuwerengeredwa ndikuwonetsa kulolerana ndi wokondedwayo. Kuchokera kumbali yake, akazi amatha kudziwa zomwe amuna amawakwiyitsa kwambiri nthawi zambiri ndipo potero amayandikira kwambiri.
1. Nkhani zokhudzana ndi ubale wakale
Psychology yamphongo yamphongo imakonzedwa m'njira yoti ndiyabwino kuti adziyang'anire okha ndi munthu wina, ndipo mochuluka kwambiri ndi momwemo. Kuti mumvetsetse momwe zingakhalire zokwanira, ndikofunikira kuganiza za wokondedwa wanu pakukhala ndi wakale, ndipo zonse zimveka.2. Kukhala ndi chidaliro kuti pankhani yokhudza chinthu chachikulu chagona pakama
Amuna amakonda pamene mkazi amawonetsa choyamba pabedi - chimawatulutsa. Koma "nkhuku" pakagona kapena, monga kwina kotchedwa, "chipika" sichikopa aliyense. Ndipo chilichonse chomwe mkazi wokongola sanali, ngati pakugonana naye adzatopedwa, munthu adzapita molondola kuti atengere chisangalalo kumbali.
3. Pangani mapulani a mtsogolo pambuyo pa "nthawi yoyamba"
Kugonana ndi chikondi ndi malingaliro osiyana, komanso tsogolo logwirizana. Mwangwiro, ngati zonse zimayenda bwino komanso zokhuza zidzakhala zenizeni, koma sizichitika nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chake, simuyenera kuyembekeza china chake kuchokera pakuyandikira kwa wamwamuna, kotero kuti ndiye sizinapweteke mwakukhutira kosakwaniritsidwa. Ndipo pokambirana ndi mutu wa ukwati wa ukwati mwachangu, bambo akhoza kukhala sage konse.4. Chotsani nsanje mwa munthu
Kuchitira nsanje, palibe amene amasangalala, kuphatikiza azimayi. Uku si malingaliro abwino kwambiri omwe amadzutsa mkwiyo ndi kukwiya. Kuyesera nsanje kuti mukope chidwi chachimuna, mutha kuyambitsa kuzunzidwa komanso kuzunzika, ndipo nthawi zina okondedwa angangochoka.
5. Lamulo la malo odyera okhawo
Tsatirani chiwerengerocho ndi cholondola, chifukwa sichimangochitika nokha, komanso chifukwa cha okondedwa anu, iye ndi wosangalatsa kuyang'ana mzimayi wokongola komanso wowonda. Koma amapempha malowa kukhala ndi nthawi yosangalatsa yokhulupirira ndi mbale zokoma, makamaka chifukwa malesion samapita tsiku lililonse. Ndipo za zomwe mukhala pazakudya - muyenera kukudziwani nokha, anzanu komanso wathanzi, koma osati munthu wanu.6. Kaduka kwa malo ake
Zimakhala zovuta kuti mayi amvetsetse kuti zinthu zomwe zimaponyedwa mulu umodzi zimatha kukhala lamulo, koma amuna ali ndi malingaliro awo pa izi. Ndipo ngati ndizabwino kuti muchepetse zovala zake pamashelufu, ndiye kuti kuyesa kuyeretsa zosangalatsa zake kumatha kukhala ngozi yeniyeni. Chifukwa chake, malinga ndi usiku sanayang'ane ngodya yake, ndikwabwino kuzindikira pamenepo.
7. Khazikitsani bafa kwa maola ambiri
Motani kuti asayesere kufotokoza, koma amuna samvetsetsa kuti mzimayi amayamba kuchimbudzi kwa nthawi yayitali. Chifukwa chiyani kusonkhana kutuluka, ngati mungathe kuchita izi mphindi zisanu, momwe amachitira. Mwina, uku ndiko kusamvetseka komwe sikungathetsedwe pakati pa pansi.8. Lankhulani ndi Uneta
Ubongo wa amuna umawongoka molunjika - amafunika kukambirana za chilichonse pamphumi, apo ayi sazindikira. Kuphatikiza apo, amakhumudwitsidwa pomwe samvetsa zomwe akufuna kwa iwo, komanso zoyipa pomwe mayiyo akanakhumudwitsidwa. Kumbukirani, amunawo ndi anthu omwewo, sakudziwa kuwerenga maganizo - ngati mukufuna china chake - funsani mwachindunji za izi, kumathandizanso kulankhulana.
9. Kufunikira kwa zokambirana ndi ola
Akazi amakonda kulankhula m'miyoyo, akudandaula za zilonda ndikulira mwa vest, amuna sadziwa kuchita izi ndipo sakufuna - kwa iwo ichi ndi chiwonetsero cha kufooka. Chifukwa chake adzutsidwa kuyambira paubwana. Ndipo ngati ndikufunabe kuti ndimubweretse munthu m'maganizo mwa malingaliro, ndiye kuti ayankhule, ndiye ndikofunikira kuti muchite mokoma, pang'onopang'ono komanso mosangalatsa. Choyamba muyenera kukukhulupirirani kwathunthu ndipo pokhapokha mutayamba kutsatira gawo lotsatira.10. Nthawi zonse amatsutsa
Nthawi zonse amakambirana ndi munthu wanu zochita, machitidwe, momwe "Mashka masiku ano adavalira kwathunthu" - osati lingaliro labwino. Choyamba, zambiri zomwe mkazi akunena kuti bambo samamvetsetsa chifukwa chake izi ndizofunikira kwambiri, koma, kachiwiri, mverani sizingamveke bwino. Amuna, ambiri, chidwi, chidwi, chidwi chofuna kulipirira miyoyo yawo, pomwe ena siofunika kwambiri kwa iwo.
11. Maganizo a abwenzi ake
Mwamunayo akutsogolera moyo wake pachibwenzi ndi mkazi, iye adzapeza kuyankhulana kwake, ali ndi abwenzi ake omwe amayesedwa ndi nthawi komanso anzawo. Ubwenzi wa amuna ndi woyera ndipo palibe mkazi angamukhudze. Kuphatikiza apo, amuna amakonda kumvera malingaliro a abwenzi, kuphatikiza pa mutu wa osankhidwa kwawo. Chifukwa chake, ngati poyamba mudzuka mmalani ndi abwenzi ake, ubalewo ungayime msanga. Kumbukirani, simungathe kudzuka pakati pa okondedwa ndi "Korea" yake - idzathetsa zoipa.12. Atsogolera bambo pakugula
Khalani ndi nthawi pamodzi, koma osati kugula. Pangani zogula bwino ndi atsikana omwe amagawana chisangalalo cholembetsa. Kwa amuna, ulendo wogula, makamaka wachikazi, wowoneka bwino kwambiri, osakondwera. Ndiwosangalatsa kwambiri kuwunika komaliza ndikuwona mkazi wawo wamvalidwe komanso kavalidwe katsopano kokongola, osawona momwe njira yosankhira ndi kugula zinthu zinachitika.
13. Valani iye ndi kulondola kwake
Nthawi zina ndimaphwanya Mpukutu mwa onse: "Chabwino, ndidakuuzani!" Koma ziribe kanthu kuti sizingafune bwanji izi, ziribe bwanji kuti izi sizingatheke, sizingatheke kuchita izi. Imagunda kunyada, ndipo mwamunayo akufuna kukhala ndi amene angakhale ndi chidole chodzitsimikizira. Pakadali pano akulakwitsa, akufuna kugwa padziko lapansi, amamvetsetsa zonse, kotero simufunikira kumaliza.14. Chofunikira kuchokera ku lipotilo
Ziribe kanthu momwe inu muli limodzi, munthu, ndi inunso, ziyenera kukhalabe malo anu, payenera kukhala lingaliro la kudziyimira pawokha. Kwa amuna, izi ndizofunikira kwambiri. Mwa njira, ndikutayika kwa kudziyimira pawokha ndikuwopseza pansi pansi mwakuwona. Chifukwa chake, simuyenera kuwonetsa kuwongolera kwanu kochulukirapo, kukayikira lipoti la gawo lililonse ndikukonzekera momwe tsiku lidachitikira. Koma zonse zilipo kanthu - ngati Iye anena, akutuluka m'mphindi zisanu, ndipo iyenso wasowa maola angapo, ndiye kuti muli ndi ufulu wofunsa tanthauzo.
15. Kukhulupirira kuti "amuna onse ndi ofanana"
Vomerezani, azimayi ndiwosasangalatsa kumva kuti "akazi onse ...". Munthu aliyense ndi munthu payekhapayekha, ndizosatheka kufotokozera chizindikiro chimodzi chokha. Mawuwa amatha kuchotsa chilichonse, chifukwa chiyani muyenera kuwononga kwambiri ndi kusanthula ndege?