Atsikana amapereka chithandizo pamavuto osiyanasiyana. Timagawana nawo bwino kwambiri, ndi chisangalalo komanso chisoni. Koma poyankhulana ndi atsikana ndi ofunika kusamala, chifukwa ngakhale kuchokera pazomwe angathe kupereka upangiri wovulaza wokhoza kukhala moyo wowononga.
"Ingofuna Munthu"
Kodi mumagawana ndi anzanu ndi zovuta zanu, ndipo kuti poyankha amalangiza kuti kukhazikitsa kukhazikitsa moyo wabwino? Ndikosavuta kutchula uphunguwu, chifukwa kukhalapo kwa wokondedwa sikukulonjezani kukhazikitsa malo onse amoyo. Kuphatikiza apo, pakubwera kwa mwamuna, zovuta zina zimatha kungochulukitsa. Ndipo, sichofunikira kuchita izi, ndiye kuti ndikuponya mu ubale woyamba woyamba, kutembenuka, osati kukhala mu mavidiyo akale. Sizingathandize, ndikuwonjezera mavuto."Muli ndi zopempha zazikulu kwambiri"
Muyenera kuti upangiri wotere kwa bwenzi lake akufuna kuthandiza ubalewo ndi abambo ndizopindulitsa kwambiri. Koma ngati muyandikira ndi mutu wozizira, chiyanjano ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi malingaliro a kamangidwe, osayenera komanso zizolowezi zokhumudwitsa, sizibweretsa chilichonse chabwino. Posapita nthawi, "kuwira" kwa kusakhutira kumatha, ubalewo udzatha ndipo padzakhala kumverera kosasangalatsa kuchokera ku nthawi yopanda pake.
"Kumenya, ndiye kukonda"
Maganizo olakwika owopsa momwe amakhulupirirana. Kukhulupirira mfundo imeneyi kunawononga tsoka la azimayi ambiri. Kumbukirani kuti, chiwawa sichinakhalepo chitsimikizo cha chikondi! Ndipo ngati wina apereka malangizo otere, ndikofunikira kuganiza, komanso ngati nkofunika kudalira."Khalani Oleza Mtima, Chifukwa Muyenera Kupulumutsa Banja"
Makamaka nthawi zambiri, khonsolo lotere limayenera kumva azimayi omwe ali ndi ana. Monga mkangano, ndi kuti: "Mwana ayenera kukhala ndi bambo." Inde, ziyenera, koma iye amene amachitadi ngati Atate, osati amene walembedwa muudindowu. Kuphatikiza apo, chisudzulo sizitanthauza kuti Atate sangalumikizane ndi mwanayo. Ngati ziphuphu nthawi zonse zimalamulira mu banja, ngati mwana akakakamizidwa nthawi zonse amawona kuti amayi a zonona - sizokayikitsa kuti uzitchedwa chisangalalo. Chifukwa chake, kuyesera kudzipereka nokha ndi kupulumutsa banja, mutha kuphwanya Moyo osati nokha, komanso kwa ana.
"Mwana yekha komanso ubwenziwo udzavalidwa"
Ngati muubwenzi wavutoli, ndiye kuti mawonekedwe a mwana ali ndi kuthekera kwakukulu kumangokulitsa. Pankhaniyi, zoopsa zake zakhala chifukwa china chotsalira, osati kutchula kuti mwana pano ndi wokakamiza kuti ukwati ukhale wolimba. Ndipo ngakhale ngati munthu aganiza zochokapo, ndiye kuti mwana sadzamuletsa."Tanyenge!"
Zinali choncho ndi abwenzi nthawi zambiri zimagawidwa ndi zolephera komanso mavuto omwe ali paubwenzi ndi okondedwa awo, ndipo nthawi zabwino safunikira kukambidwa komanso kukhala chete. Pachifukwa ichi, atsikana akhoza kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika a momwe zonse ziliri m'moyo wanu. Chifukwa chake, khonsolo "mponyani!" Sikofunikira kuzindikira kuti chizindikiro cha chochita, ndipo lingaliro la gawo liyenera kumwedwa ndekha palokha, kudzipatula pa chilichonse "ndi" kutsutsana ".