"Ponoshilovil ndikuponya," adasiya, osanena zabwino, "" osasowa mwadzidzidzi, "" osayankha foni mwadzidzidzi "- azimayi akuwoneka kuti abwerera. Kodi pansi cholimba "chakonzeka bwanji" ofooka, kuti iwo omwe amayamba kukhulupirira zomwe kulibe?
Amayi ambiri amavutika chifukwa cha chikondi chosayenera, ngakhale sitimamvetsetsa kuti sakonda anthu, chifukwa chodzudzula misozi, ndikutonthozedwa. Yakwana nthawi yoti tidziwe amunawa kuti omwe amawakonda popanda kukumbukira.Poyamba ziyenera kumvetsetsa kuti amuna kuyambira ali ndiubwana akukulira. Akakhala ndi zolephera pa chikondi, amayamba kuchitiridwa nkhanza kapena kukhumudwitsa amayi onse. Amuna ambiri saganiza kuti asamakondenso, koma pokhapokha ngati oimira ofooka ofooka kuti akwaniritse zosowa zawo. Izi ndizofunikira kudziwa kuti kuyambira mphindi yoyambirira kuyembekezera kuchenjera kwa mwamunayo ndipo osakhulupirira kumwetulira kwake.
1. Chiyembekezo
Chowopsa kwambiri chomwe mkaziyo amatha kuchitika, ndiye mawonekedwe a chiyembekezo chomwe mwamunayo amamukonda ndipo akufuna kukhala naye. Zikuwoneka bwanji? Chilichonse ndichosavuta mokwanira: Mwamuna amalonjeza mzimayi zomwe akufuna kumva kuchokera kwa iye. Amatha kuvomereza kuti azikondana, lonjenjezani tsogolo labwino, ngakhale kupanga mapulani ogwirizana. Mkazi akangoyamba kukhulupirira zomwe munthu sanazindikire, ndipo sanazindikire, nthawi yomweyo imagwera mumsampha wake.
2. Chikondi
Mkazi akayamba kudzimva kuti akumvera mwamuna, amakhala wopusa, yemwe ali wokonzeka aliyense chifukwa cha okondedwa ake. Ambiri padziko lapansi gwiritsani ntchito Icho. Amawona kuti okwatiranawo adazimitsa malingaliro ovuta ndikumvera zakukhosi kwawo. Tsopano mutha kuyang'anira akazi oterowo kuti azichita chilichonse chomwe anthu amafuna kwa iwo.
3. Kudalira
Mosakaikira, osakhulupirira, musamange ubale wolimba. Komabe, ziyenera kutsogozedwa ndi lamulo: Onani ndi kuwona zomwe munthu amachitadi. Simuyenera kukhulupirira amuna, apo ayi amangogwiritsa ntchito. Tiyeneranso kuimitsidwa kuganiza kuti ndikwabwino kuti wina atsatire wina kuti ayang'ane, sinthani zomwe munthu amadziwonetsa yekha. Munthu sayenera kudalira, ayenera kudziwa. Ndipo izi ndizotheka pambuyo pa nthawi yambiri kudzera pakuwonera pazomwe zili. Mkaziyo akamakhulupirira, amakhala wakhungu.
4. Kugonana
Ngati ali pabedi, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse tidzakhala pamodzi ndi Iye, "mkaziyo amadziwa kuphatikiza zosagwirizana. Zowona kuti mwamunayo adakhala wokondedwa wabwino, sakutanthauza kuti sayesa pabedi ndi mkazi wina. Amayi ambiri akupitilizabe ubale chifukwa chokha chifukwa chakugonana, osazindikira kuti abwenzi angawasinthe, akugwiritsa ntchito luso lawo.
5. Ndalama
Yemwe ali ndi ndalama ali ndi mphamvu. Amuna awona momwe akazi amawerama kwa oyendetsa ndege olemera. Kukhala wolemera m'maso mwa mkazi sikovuta: adaziziritsa mu cafe, kukwera pagalimoto, kugula kavalidwe kawo. Mkazi amaganiza kuti anapeza "osunga golide", ngakhale kuti munthu amagwiritsa ntchito ndalama zomwe anapeza, zomwe zidzathe posachedwa. Nthawi zambiri, asasamu oterewa adzakhazikika m'manda awo, kukayikira ndalama zapamwamba kwa iwo. Zikhala kunja, mayi ayenera kupereka ndalama zonse.
Amuna amadzimva kuti amawakakamiza kuti aziwakakamiza ndi kusamalira akazi.
Ndipo akamazinyamula, amadzimva modzidzimutsa kwinakwake, ngakhale kuti angavomereze kukonda ndi kumanga mapulani am'tsogolo.