Woona mtima komanso wobweretsedwa bwino - ndi ndani? Zokwanira, zowala, zowala, zopambana. Sindimakonda kufunsa, ziyembekezo zokhazokha. Mukufuna diresi kapena smartphone - Iyo igwira ntchito, galimotoyo - ilandila ufulu ndikugula pa ngongole, nyumbayo imakupezani pa zopereka zoyambirira ndikupeza ngongole yoyamba. Chifukwa chake amayi ndi abambo anaphunzitsa. Ndipo adaphunzitsanso kuti kuphunzira ndi ntchito yoyamba ija, ndiye moyo wamunthu. Kupatula apo, ambiri, iyi ndi lonjezo labwino. Koma kodi tikuwona chiyani pamapeto?
Atsikana oyenera ndi anzeru omwe anali onyadira makolo awo, pa 25 (ndipo ambiri ndi 30) sakwatira. Ayi, sikuti "mbewa zonunkhira", zimavala zodetsa, zimawoneka bwino, ndizovuta. Ali ndi zosangalatsa zosiyanasiyana zosangalatsa, abwenzi ambiri komanso m'dziko lamkati. Koma onse amathamangira kwinakwake, otanganidwa kwanthawi zonse, safuna kutaya mphindi. Ndipo pazifukwa zina, amakhulupirira kuti zonse zomwe zinthu zonse zimayendera, ndipo moyo wamunthu udzadikirira.Ndipo uwu ndi zochitika zapadziko lonse lapansi. Nawa makolo omwe amawopa dzulo kuti mwana wawo wamkazi azisamalira 16, akumvetsa kuti tsopano akufuna kuyang'anana ndi ana. Ndipo ayamba kuopa enawo: kuti mwana wamkazi sadzatenga pakati konse, ndipo sadzadikira kuti zidzukulu zake.
Matenda a abale akukula chaka chilichonse, chifukwa ogwiritsa ntchito amatha, pomwe china chake chambiri patali ndi chachikulu, kapena amasankha "makope" a mayi ake. Chifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Chifukwa chiyani Nashishka yowoneka bwino ya Natuska yochokera ku khomo loyamba la kukwatiwa ndi kukwatiwa ndi mwana wachiwiri, ndipo kudziyeretsa kwathu komanso kukongola kwathu kokha?
Mlandu m'makampani opanga mphamvu, omwe atsikana awa amatulutsa. Malingaliro awo amakopa zochitika ndi anthu ena. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe zingasokoneze chisangalalo.
1. "" Sindingathe kuchita zonse popanda thandizo lililonse. "
Kukhazikitsa kotchuka kwambiri munthawi yathu ino. Nthawi zambiri mtsikanayo amakonda mwamunayo kwa mwamuna yemwe amakonda, sakudziwa momwe angam'fikire. Ndipo nthawi zina amacheza konse, akumva aliyense. Kupatula apo, samapempha thandizo, ndipo kuyesa kwake kuyenera kunyalanyaza kwathunthu. Kenako amakhumudwitsidwa ndi masamba, osamvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe adakumana nacho kumapetoku Natathe.
Ndipo chowonadi ndichakuti anali ozizira "chabe. Munthu ndi wofunikira kuti akhale ndi chiyembekezo komanso thandizo, akumva kuti ndi ofunika. Komanso bwino - pakufunika. Ndipo kuthokoza kochokera mwa mtima pamaso pa wokondedwa wake ndiye mphotho yabwino kwambiri kwa ambiri a iwo.
Chifukwa chake mpatseni mwayiwu. Osamamatira pa mapewa anu, lolani mnzanuyo pa moyo wanu ndikuthandizira kuthetsa mavuto aliwonse.
2. "Ndikufuna banja, koma ndilibe chibwenzi."
Zimachitika kuti chidwi chokana chisa chabanjachi chimakhwima m'mbuyomu kuposa momwemo, yekhayo akuwonekera. Koma, mwamwayi, zikutanthauza kuti tsoka ndilopezekanso kwinakwake. Kuti zonse ndi zabwino, muyenera kumverera mosamalitsa. Kodi mumalota za banja la mtundu wanji?Tangoganizirani mwatsatanetsatane: • Ndi ana angati komanso kugonana? • Ndi mikhalidwe yotani; • komwe mukukhala ndipo imawoneka ngati nyumba; • Kodi pali ziweto; • Kodi tsiku la sabata limakhala bwanji tsiku loti asatuluke, ndi zina zotero.
Zonsezi zidzathandiza kudziwa zofunika kwambiri ndikupanga chithunzi chodziwikiratu cha zotsatira zomwe mukufuna. Izi zimatchedwa zowoneka. Kulandiridwa bwino, kupereka chizindikiro cha chilengedwe: "Ndili wokonzeka, ndikudikirira." Ndi omwe amadziwa bwino zomwe zopanga zoyenera zimachitika mwachangu.
3. "Anthu onse ndi omwewo. Pali zabwino, koma akhala otanganidwa kale. "
Malingaliro ngati amenewa nthawi zambiri amauziridwa ndi zomwe zinachitika. M'malo mwake, palibe anthu ofanana. Ngakhale amuna kapena akazi. Inde, anthu abwino sagona pamsewu. Koma izi sizitanthauza kuti simudzakumana ndi zanu. Chinthu chachikulu sinagwirizane ndi onse omwe amamwazikulu. Tulutsani zakale ndikukhulupirira kuti ndizotheka.
4. "Sindikufuna kudalira aliyense. Zimawopseza ndipo zimandipangitsa kukhala wopanda nkhawa. "
"Ndimalemekeza ufulu wanga." Zoonadi, ubale uliwonse wapamtima umapangitsa malire ena. Pali maudindo omwe sanakhalepo kale, amakhala osamasuka. Koma zabwino zambiri komanso zochitika zosangalatsa zimapezekanso.Ngati mukufuna maubwenzi apamtima, muyenera kukambirana nanu ndipo muvomereze kuti ena mwa ufuluwo adzatayika. Izi zimachitika zokha momwe zimapangidwira. Mwachilungamo Kudziwa kuti zidzakukhudzani nokha, komanso izonso. Kuchuluka kwa zoletsa kumatha kuvomerezedwa nthawi zonse ndikupeza njira yomwe ingakonze.
Ndipo za kutengera munthu wina - palinso zabwino pano. Nthawi zina zimakhala zabwino kwambiri kumva zofooka, kumvetsetsa zomwe mungadalire munthu panthawi yovuta. Ndipo munthuyu salola ndi kuipereka.
5. "Banja, ana - sindimandikonda."
Palibe milandu ngati mawu oterewa ndi zotsatira za chitetezo cha psyche. Munthu akapanda kugwira ntchito kwa nthawi yayitali, amadziuza kuti: "Chabwino, chabwino, osati chochuluka kwambiri!". Chifukwa chake izi ndi zofanana. Ngati salinso "munthu" wake kwa nthawi yayitali, amatanthauza chinthu chimodzi chokha: osati nthawi. Ndipo, mwina mukungofunika kusiya kufunafuna. Kenako chisangalalo chidzakupezani. Chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsetsa mtsogolo mwa inu nokha chisangalalo chanu.
6. Ndi mlandu womaliza - pomwe simukufuna kukwatiwa. Osakhala chete.
Kukhazikitsa kosavomerezeka sikungoyambitsa, zovuta - simumavutika. Osangokhala ndi chikhumbo, ndipo ndi! Mumakonda momwe moyo umapindikitsidwira, ndipo simuli okonzeka kukana m'malo mwake kukhitchini ndi ana a ana.
Pankhaniyi, vuto likusowa konse: Ngati munthu akwaniritsa chilichonse, ndiye kuti palibe chifukwa chosinthira chilichonse! Pakali pano, mwachiwonekere, mukufuna wina, ndipo nthawi ikatakhazikika, zonse zidzimasulira zokha. Mapeto ake, izi zimangofunika chilako choona mtima chokha. Sangalalani!