Ngakhale chikondi ndi kumverera kosangalatsa komwe kumabweretsa chisangalalo, limodzi ndi kumverera kwachimwemwe ndi chisangalalo, palibe chomwe chimakhala chokongola, ndipo nthawi zambiri zonse zimatha kumva mavuto. Moyo ndi Efemmena kuti azitha kuwononga mavuto chifukwa cha kusowa kwa chikondi, chikondi chosasinthika kapena chikondi chosatheka.
Munthu akakhala mchikondi, choyamba amadzinyenga, kenako ena: Oscar Wildde
Chifukwa chiyani kupatsa moyo ndi chikondi kwa munthu m'modzi, ngati tsiku lililonse mungasangalale ndi ukulu, perekani chikondi kwa onse omwe mukudziwa, abwenzi ndi anthu ena, osamva nsanje, kuleza kapena kukhumba kapena kukhumba kapena chisoni. Wina akaganizira motere, ayenera kuyesa kuphunzira zochuluka kuyambira tsiku lililonse ndikumvetsera mwasimikizani magawo otsatirawa omwe angakumane ndi munthu "amabwera pa intaneti."
1. Kuyenda padziko lonse lapansi
Palibenso chifukwa chosowa wina kuti andiphonye aliyense, amamva kuti ali ndi vuto kapena wosungulumwa. Kupatula apo, ndibwino kupita ku ulendowo m'malo omwe nthawi zonse amafuna kupita kukacheza, kapena kusamutsa chipata cha phewa ndikungopita "pomwe maso amayang'ana" kuti athe kudabwitsidwa. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe mungachite mu unyamata. Paulendo, mutha kuphunzira zambiri za chikhalidwe, miyambo, chakudya ndi njira zambirimbiri zoganizira padziko lonse lapansi.
• Phunzirani zilankhulo
Mutha kutenga nthawi yanga yonse yaulere mwazochita zopanga zabwino, zomwe sizingothandizanso m'tsogolo mu ntchitoyi, komanso kukonza ubongo komanso ntchito ya mitsempha. Kuphunzira chilankhulo chatsopano kumakhala kovuta komanso kuoneka ngati kosatheka, koma ngati mungayesere kuchita zina, ubongo uyamba kuyankhulanso mawu atsopano ndipo uzipanga mawu a chilankhulo china.
3. Lamulani maphunziro omwe nthawi zonse amafuna
Mosasamala kanthu za akatswiri kapena m'badwo, sizichedwa kwambiri kuphunzira chatsopano. Ngati wina ali wokonda kuvina kwamakono, kuphika, kusankhidwa kwa zakuthambo kapena Abuda, ayenera kusaina maphunziro oyamba ndipo pamapeto pake yesani zomwe zadzetsa chidwi. Ngati kumapeto kwa maphunzirowa kumachitika kuti chisonkhezezo sichinathe, tinganene kuti munthu wathetsadi moyo wake.4. Yesani kuchita ntchito modzipereka
Ndipo tsopano kwa wachiwiri, tilingalire kuti nthawi yonseyi idagwiritsidwa ntchito pazakale, ndi mikangano yawo yonse komanso kusamvana kwawo, mwachitsanzo, kuthandiza omwe ambiri amafunikira. Mwachitsanzo, bwanji osakhala dokotala wapadziko lonse lapansi, kuthandiza anthu padziko lonse lapansi kapena m'miyoyo. Mutha kuyendanso pogwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu azachilengedwe, kubwezeretsa m'nkhalango kapena kuthandizira, kuteteza nyama zamtchire zomwe zawopsezedwa kuti zisawonongeke kapena kugwira ntchito pachipatala.
5. Dzipulumutseni Kwambiri pa Zosangalatsa Zanu
Zachidziwikire kuti anthu ena ankawona kuti angathe kwambiri m'dera linalake, mwachitsanzo, pochita mafilimu, nyimbo kapena luso lojambula. Ndipo zilidi. Ziribe kanthu kuti zikuvuta bwanji kukhala koyamba, machitidwe ndi kupirira ndi kupirira zingasanduke munthu mu katswiri pa kafukufuku aliyense. Ndipo zimatenga nthawi yambiri, koma zonse ndi zenizeni.6. Dziwani anthu ambiri osiyanasiyana
Palibe chifukwa chopita kumalekezezero adziko lapansi kukumana ndi anthu ambiri, chilichonse chomwe chili ndi njira yake, malingaliro, malingaliro, ndiosavuta kupeza kuti munthu aliyense ndi dziko lake lapadera , ndipo nkumanga chiyani ndi munthu wina kukhala wovuta kuposa momwe ungaganizire. Chifukwa chake zitheka kukhala ndi malingaliro ozama kwambiri padziko lapansi.
7. Kuti Ndidziwe
Zikumveka, koma kuchita kudzisanthula kwenikweni ndikuphunzira zambiri - izi ndi zinthu zofunikira zomwe zimangoyiwala m'dziko lamakono. Kudziwa zokonda zanu, zododometsa zanu, zokonda, komanso zinthu zonse zoyipa zomwe zimakhudza umunthu wanu, sizingothandizanso kusankha anthu omwe tikufuna kukhala limodzi, komanso, pamapeto pake, khalani osangalala.
8. Mnzanu
Munthu akadzicheka naye, nthawi zambiri maubwenzi amacheza nthawi zambiri amayamba kuzimiririka, ndipo nthawi zina zosangalatsa, zoyesera ndi anthu, omwe amagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yayitali, samangosowa. Ndikofunika kusangalala ndi anzawo, kufunikira kwaubwenzi ndi nthawi zonsezi pamene mutha kusangalala ndikusangalala osafunikira mnzanu.
Zimakhala zosungulumwa - iyi ndi njira yabwino yosangalalira ndi moyo. Chifukwa chake, chilichonse m'moyo uyenera kuzindikirika monga ziliri, ndipo yesani kupeza nthawi yabwino pachilichonse.