Ubale ndi chinthu chovuta. Palibe njira yoyenera yomangira ndi kukulitsa, ndipo palibe njira yowonetsere kuti zonse zifunika. Timangopereka maupangiri ochepa okha paubwenzi, womwe sunanenedwe kwenikweni ndi ubwana wanga.
1 Funsani kuti munthu akuyenda bwanji kuchipinda
Chimodzimodzi. Kugonana ndi gawo limodzi la maubwenzi athanzi komanso osangalala, motero m'chipinda chogona nthawi zonse muyenera kulumikizana, osaganiza mwakachetechete kuti akufuna "theka." Mwachitsanzo, ambiri nthawi zonse amafuna kuyesera kena kake pabedi, koma adabisala, adachita manyazi kunena. Chifukwa chake, ngati mungakhale ndi moyo wachifundo nthawi zonse watsopano komanso wosangalatsa, zimapangitsa kuti zonsezi zikhale zosangalatsa mchipinda chogona komanso kunja kwake.2 khalani chete
Zachidziwikire, aliyense anganene kuti atakumana ndi chibwenzi chake, zonse zinali zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Onsewa anapitilira masiku, anakumana ndi mipiringidzo yomwe amakonda komanso maphwando ndipo anachita zonse zomwe amachita.
Tiyeni tiwone pa Diso: Ukwati watha. Koma izi sizitanthauza kuti sizingatheke kubwerera nthawi ndi nthawi. Bwanji osagawa tsiku laulere kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yabwino, monga momwe mumagwirira ntchito musanadye - idyani, imwani ndikusangalala.
3 kutaya miyambo yakumanja
Masiku ano, anthu samangokhala ndi mbali zachikhalidwe. Ndikofunika kuiwala momwe mayi ananena kuti chakudyacho, kuphika ndi kuyeretsa ndi njira yofikira pamtima wa munthu. Mwamuna wamakono amasangalala ndi mayi wachigololo komanso wamphamvu komanso wodziyimira pawokha yemwe angalimbane naye.Chifukwa chodziwa chikondi cha akazi, nthawi zina amawasamalira. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri kuphika chakudya chamadzulo kwa mkazi wake kuti ali ndi ngongole kwa aliyense. Banja lomwe lingalemekeze maloto a wina ndi mnzake ndikuyesetsa pamodzi ndi banja lomwe lidzakhala ndi ubale wolimba komanso wokhalitsa.
4 Kukhala Woona, Wodalirika Komanso Wokonzeka Kugwira Ntchito Molimbika
Ngakhale maloto a mwana, palibe kalonga wokongola pa kavalo woyera, womwe udzatenge mkazi tsiku ndi tsiku moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Zomwezi zimagwiranso ntchito kwa amuna - sayenera kuyembekezera nsapato za kristalo kuchokera ku Lobeten kuti ziwatsogolere mfumukazi.
Zachidziwikire, izi sizitanthauza kuti tiyenera kuvomereza pa njira yoyamba. Muyenera kupeza munthu m'modzi, popanda zomwe simungathe kulingalira moyo wanu. Nthawi yomweyo, musaiwale kuti njira yofunika kwambiri ya munthu wochititsa chidwi imangosaka.
Muyeneranso kukhala wotsimikiza komanso kuti mukhulupirireni kuti kwa munthu aliyense pali wina "wanu". Palibe amene sangakhale otsimikiza kuti azigwiritsa ntchito moyo wanga wonse kapena kuti palibe chikondi chenicheni - chilipo ndipo chimangofunika ntchito yolimbikira. Maubwenzi opambana amafuna onse awiri kuti azichita khama kwambiri; Ndipo ngati amakondanadi, siziwonekanso ngati ntchito.
5 Palibe maubale anga ofanana.
Ngakhale amakonda kwambiri anzawo kapena abale awo ali paubwenzi, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti maubwenzi onse ndi osiyana komanso omwe amagwira ntchito pa awiri sangagwiritse ntchito ina. Zimatanthauzanso kuti si aliyense amene angamvetse chifukwa chomwe munthu amabwera mwanjira inayake.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti palibe sayansi ya maubale abwino. Ndikofunikira kukhalabe ndi moyo wanu wogonana komanso madeti osangalatsa komanso atsopano, lemekezani maloto a wina ndi mnzake ndikutaya miyambo ya kutali. Chikondi ndichabwino kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina chodetsedwa, komanso chofunikira kwambiri ndikuti muyenera kuchita zomwe zimakupangitsani inu ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ndipo zonse zikhala bwino.