Mwakuchenjezani nthawi zambiri kuti mulore. Ndipo koposa chomwecho, kuti tiloke zokongoletsera za maloto. Chifukwa ndi chitsiru, cholakwa chovulaza ndipo chotsimikizika chogwiritsidwa ntchito pansi pa moyo wokhazikitsidwa bwino mu zoyesera zopanda kanthu kuti zigwire mbalame yawo yabuluu. Ndipo mtsikanayo dzina lake El mwezi akukuuzani: lota, ndipo ndikuphunzitsani momwe mungapangire maloto. M'buku lake "pakati pake ndikofunikira ndipo ndikufuna" (chosindikiza nthano).
Pansi pa chivundikiro - zithunzi zowala zaukadaulo, nkhani zolimbikitsa, maupangiri othandiza ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi kwa iwo omwe akufuna kupeza ntchito yawo.Ntchito yapamwamba vs Nchito
M'mbuyomu, El mwezi unkagwira ntchito yopanga kampani yotchuka, yogwira nawo ntchito zosangalatsa, zomwe adachita nawo bwino ngati bokosi la makalata, uber ndi sing'anga. Koma zonsezi sizinamubweretseretu kwathunthu. Mtsikanayo adawona kuti akufuna chinthu chongopeka chabe.
Nthawi ina, El mwezi adaganiza zosintha moyo wake. Adathawa kuntchito ndikuyamba kujambula. Kwa nthawi yoyamba, mtsikanayo adadzimva kuti ali ndi ufulu komanso wosangalala. Posakhalitsa wojambulayo adatsegula kampani yake, omwe aku Europe ndi ambuye ku Bali ku Bali.
El mwezi amatsatira malotowo, anapeza kuyitanidwa kwake ndipo anatha kusintha ntchito kukhala yolimba. Izi zidakhala kokwanira kuti moyo ukhale ndi tanthauzo lalikulu. Chifukwa chake wojambulayo adatsegula chinsinsi cha chisangalalo: muyenera kungochita zomwe mumakonda zomwe zimakondweretsa, zimalimbikitsa ndikulipira mphamvu.
Malinga ndi El mwezi, aliyense ali ndi cholinga chapadera. Ndikofunikira kuyesa kupeza. Ndipo, inde, sankhani za kusintha.
Muyenera vs Khumbo
"MUKUFUNA ...", "Simukufuna ...", muyenera ... ". Timamva zoterezi kwa anthu ena nthawi zonse. Koma ngati ali ndiubwana tinkafunika kumvetsera mawu awa, ndiye kuti tsopano amangosokoneza njira yawo yosangalala.
Mitundu yambiri ya anthu, yamtengo wapatali wa anthu ena, zoyembekezera za okondedwa, izi zimakhazikika pamaso pamutu. Ndipo tikuganizadi kuti amakakamizidwa kupeza ntchito yolonjeza, zomwe zimatipangitsa kuti tizikhala ankhanza; Pitani kuofesi, ngakhale m'mawa uliwonse mumalota kusiya; Tengani banja mpaka zaka 30, ngakhale kuti ndingofuna kukhala kwaulere.
Njira yokhayo ndikungosiya izi "zofunika" ndikumvetsetsa maloto anu ndi zikhumbo zanu, maluso ndi zizolowezi, zikhulupiriro komanso zomwe amafuna. Mukudziwa kuti? Kodi mukufuna kutani? Nchiyani chomwe chimakulimbikitsani? Kungoyankha momwe mumayankhira mafunso awa ayenera kudalira moyo wanu wina.
El mwezi umatha kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe angathandize kuwoloka chilichonse ndikupeza zoona. Nawa ena a iwo.
1. Lembani ziphunzitso zambiri kuyambira ndi mawu akuti "Ndikufuna ..." Ndipo "Sindikufuna ...". Ganizirani zotsatira zake. Chifukwa chiyani malingaliro awa adabwera ku mutu wanu? Kodi mwasankha kuti kuti ntchito zonsezi zizichita liti? Kodi mukufuna kuzichita?
2. Solin 2 ma nema awiri a iwo okha. Mu mmodzi wa iwo, ndiuzeni momwe moyo wanu umadutsa, ngati mungasiye chilichonse popanda kusintha. Mu mawu ena, fotokozani zomwe zingachitike mukayamba kukhala molingana ndi mfundo ya "kufuna" kwanu, kuti mukwaniritse zofuna zanu ndikuchita zomwe mumakonda.
3. Yankhani mafunso otsatirawa. Kodi mudakonda chiyani mwana? Kodi ndi moyo uti womwe unkalota? Kodi mwakhala mukupeka komwe mzimu udagwidwa? Kodi mumakonda masewera ati? Kodi mumakonda kukhala bwanji nthawi: kampani kapena nokha?
4. Ganizirani kuposa momwe mungafunire tsopano. Kodi mumakonda kukhala chiyani sabata, tchuthi, madzulo aulere? Mukusokonezedwa chiyani mukamatchulira?
5. Ngati nthawi zina mumatha kuyang'ana tsogolo lanu, ndiye malingaliro omwe amakulimbikitsani? Lembani malingaliro onse omwe amabwera.
6. Kwanthawi yayitali ndimalakalaka kuphunzira kena kake, koma sitinathe? Yakwana nthawi yofuna kukwaniritsa zenizeni. Lembani mndandanda wa milandu: onjezani French, pitani ku zodulira ndi kusoka, kukwera kukwera ndi zina zotero. Mwezi uliwonse yesani china chatsopano. Lembani zomwe udali wochita ndi mzimu, ndipo ayi.
7. Sonkhanitsani zomwe zili pamalo amodzi. Pang'onopang'ono amakwaniritsa zosonkhanitsa ndi zolemba zatsopano. Kudzisanthula, kufunafuna kulumikizana ndi zolinga wamba. Tsiku lina, zonsezi zidzakutsogolerani ku ntchito yanu.
Zifukwa vs Kulimbitsa mtima
Pezani foni si zonse. Mu gawo lotsatira mudzayenera kuthana ndi mantha anu. Malinga ndi El mwezi, palibe zifukwa zosiya bizinesi yake wokondedwa. Nawa zingapo mwa zifukwa zomveka bwino zomwe ndizosavuta kutsutsa.
imodzi. "Kulakalaka kwanga sikubweretsa ndalama." Koma palibe amene akunena kuti nthawi yomweyo muyenera kusiya ntchito, makamaka ngati pakali pano ndiye mwayi wokhawo wopeza ndalama. Chinthu chachikulu ndikupeza nthawi yokondedwa yomwe mumakonda tsiku lililonse. Ngati zingakulimbikitseni, kenako tsiku lina mudzachita bwino ndipo, mwina, phunzirani kuchotsa ndalama kuchokera mu ntchito yanu.
Wokhala wotchuka waimba aimba amagwira ntchito mwa khola, ndipo adalandira ndalama zoyambirira kuchokera kubadwa kwake mu zaka 41. Wolemba Kurt Vonnegut kugulitsa magalimoto. Wolemba wina, Thomas Elit, anali wa banki. Koma palibe aliyense wa iwo adaponyedwa chinthu chomwe amakonda.
2. "Ndilibe nthawi." Monga lamulo, nthawi yake, timangogwiritsa ntchito zosabala. Pafupifupi sabata, imapuma pantchito, madzulo aulere, tchuthi, ndi zina zotero. Ngati mukutsitsidwa kwenikweni kuti mulibe nthawi yochita zomwe mumakonda, yang'anani malo omwe amaperekedwa kuti lisawonongeke. Mutha kuvomera malipiro ang'onoang'ono, chifukwa nthawi zambiri timafunikira zambiri kuposa zomwe tikufuna. Kumbukirani: Ntchito zake ndizofunikira kwambiri.
China chophimba?
- Zochita zothandiza kwambiri zomwe zingathandize kuleza "Ndikufuna" kuchokera pa "zofunika", ndikulimbana ndi mantha anu.
- Nkhani za anthu omwe apeza mayitanidwe awo, omwe adzalimbikitse kusintha.
- Mafanizo odabwitsa ochokera ku El mwezi. Ndi omwe amapanga bukuli mophweka komanso lochititsa chidwi. Ndikwabwino kuti ndingowerenga, komanso kuziganizira.
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