Pavel zygmantich: bwanji palibe amene amafunikira zoyambira zazimuna

Magulu a VKontakte amakhulupirira kwambiri kuti ambiri (ngati si onse) Mavuto amakono amachitika chifukwa chosafunikira amuna ambiri.

"Ndinganene chiyani? Pamaso pathu, fanizo labwino kwambiri la mawu akuti "adamva kulira, koma sindikudziwa komwe iye," adatero Palve Palkmantovich.

Mwachidule, zofalitsa sizolakwika.

Mbiri Yakale

Tiyeni tiyambe ndi zofunika kwambiri. Adziwike: Miyambo yochokera ku mawonekedwe oyera imangokhala osaka a gatthet.

Zili m'mafuko omwe alipo mozungulira, kusekedwa mwapadera, kunyozedwa ndi nkhalango m'nkhalangoko, kuponya pansi, kukanikiza m'mudzi wapadera, ndikugwirira m'mudzi mwapakati ndi kumenyedwa, kudzera pakutsanzira kwa amithenga , kuyesedwa kwa moto kapena kusanjana, kutaya dzina lakale ndikupeza dzina latsopano ndi zina.

Palibe chilichonse chokhudza anthu olima. Pomwe oweta-osoka anavomereza kuti ana awo azimva, mayiko olimaponi anawatsanulira mwamphamvu ndi madzi kapena kangapo kamodzi.

M'malo mwamoto - odziwika. M'malo mozunza - kupendekera kapena mdulidwe.

Kuphatikiza apo, pali njira yomveka bwino - kutalika kwa chitukuko cha anthu, ocheperako kuti asayambike, osowa pang'ono amakhala.

Ndichoncho chifukwa chiyani?

Chifukwa chiyani muyenera zoyambira

Pambuyo pakuyambitsidwa kwa osaka osonkhetsa, anyamata adakhala membala omwe amatchedwa kuti mamembala achimuna, amatha kukhala m'nyumba ya amuna (m'mitundu ya polynesia yomwe yasungidwa).

Kukhala membala wa Union, mnyamatayo adalandira maudindo ena, ndipo ali nawo - ufulu wina (mwachitsanzo, ndingalandire). Koma ntchito yayikulu yoyambirayo sinali kumasula kwa mwana mu mgwirizano uno. Chinali chotsatira chake chinali umboniwo (izi zikuwonekeratu chifukwa cha mfundo yosangalatsa iyi - m'mafuko ena omwe asayansi apeza kale, omwe amakumana nawo kale ndi mabanja makumi anayi, omwe ali kale ndi mabanja ndi ana).

Ntchito yayikulu yoyambitsa inali mphamvu yamatsenga yamatsenga - zabwino zonse mu kusaka.

Ndiye chifukwa chake kupangidwa kunapangidwa ngati ulendo wamphamvu padziko lapansi wakufa - msonkhano ndi akufa ndipo kubwerera kwawoko kunamukhululukidwa kuvutika ndi magazi. Mwa njira, pafupifupi pafupifupi khumi a anyamatawa sanapeze zoyambitsa - adamwalira pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana.

Ndi chitukuko cha chitukuko ndi kusintha kwa ulimi, mwayi wamunthu wakhala kofunikira, ndipo zoyambira zadutsa kwambiri malowo, ndikusintha kwambiri mawonekedwe.

Dziko lamakono

M'makono, chiyambitsi chimasatheka - kulibe, choyamba, kachitidweko. Ngati a Slav akale ali ndi mwana atatsegulidwa kale kuchokera ku Babi Kuti Kuta kudera lalikululi, ndiye kuti ndizosatheka mu nyumba zamakono. Osanena za kusintha kwa dzina - ndi kusamveka.

Kapenanso pano - m'midzi yaying'ono ya asaka andende kapena alimi omwe aliyense amadziwa kuti ichi ndi choyambitsa amuna (kapena tsopano akukhala "kuchokera ku Babi Kut"). Mumzinda wamakono ndizosatheka - zifukwa zomveka.

Izi zikuphatikizanso kukakamizidwa pazambiri - okhometsa-okhonda sapereka chiyambitso chokhazikitsidwa, mnyamatayo sakanatha. Zinali zochititsa manyazi, zomwe zinali zosatheka kusamba. Koma pakati pa alimi, malingaliro omwe adayamba kusintha - tsopano anthu ambiri adamuwona kuti ndi kunyoza ana (omwe adayambitsa kutsika kwambiri kwa Prime Infoiniation).

Ndipo chitukuko chinanso chitayamba, kufunikira kochepa kukhazikika kunatsala.

Zikafika, zoyambilira m'dziko lamakono ndizosatheka. Choyamba, mwanzeru.

Ndipo mu mzere wachiwiri - osafunikira.

Vuto ndi chiyani?

Mavuto a anthu amakono sichoncho konse kotero kuti sanayambike. Zaka mazana atatu zapitazo, sizinalinso anthu akumatamayaya, koma mwanjira ina sanavutike. Kodi zili bwanji?

Cholinga cha prosociic - chithunzi chachikhalidwe cha masculianing (kapena, ngati mukufuna, masculity).

M'gulu la anthu ogulitsa nyumba iliyonse pali ake, ochulukirapo kapena odziwika bwino a "bambo weniweni." Wokonda ayenera kukhala monga chonchi, wansembeyo ndi wolemekezeka - choncho. Chilichonse ndichidziwikire, chilichonse ndi chopatsa thanzi kapena kuchepera, palibe zotsutsana.

Tsopano zonse zasintha.

Tsopano tili ndi zithunzi zambiri (ngati muli wolondola - zomwe ndi zomwe amuna amawona ntchito za Thompson ndi Perkkka). Zithunzizi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zotsutsana ndipo amuna amakono ali ndi zovuta zazikulu pofuna kuthana ndi zikhalidwe zilizonse za amuna omwe amuna awa amadziwika.

Mwachitsanzo, bukulo 'limalandira ndalama zambiri "Nthawi ina' nthawi yomweyo 'zigoli ndi" khalani tate wabwino "- Kupatula apo, ntchito zimatenga nthawi, ndipo ana amatenga nthawi. Ndipo masana pali maola makumi awiri ndi anayi okha. Muyenera kusankha kena kake.

Mwambiri, amuna akung'amba mbali ndipo akuyesera kupeza chithunzi cholondola. Ndipo ndizosatheka kupeza - ziganizo zotsutsana ndi amuna zomwe zimachitika pano m'dera lathu.

Chipulumutso chiri kuti?

M'malo mwake, chithunzi cholondola ndichokha. Ndikosatheka kupeza mtundu wina wa fanizo la munthu woyenera. Ndizosatheka kunena kuti munthu woyenera amakonda mpira, ndipo amakonda ma flor - botanies atha. Munthu amakhala wofanana kwambiri kuposa chilichonse.

Mwachidule, "Utha kukhala munthu wamng'ono ndikuganiza za misomali" (mwa njira, onani kuti pagawo la chiwonongeko cha kalasi, pomwe Phatikin adagwira ntchito, vuto la zotsutsana ndi zikhalidwe za Udindo wa amuna unalimangidwe kale kukula kwathunthu.

Komanso. Kwa nthawi yayitali, mmodzi mwa asayansi, mawu ngati "amuna amuna" ndi "mikhalidwe ya akazi" satha. Tsopano ndi chizolowezi cholankhula za maluso a zida ndi maluso achiwonetsero.

Pansi pa ntchito yovomerezeka ndi maluso omwe amakhudzana ndi kuthetsa mavuto (mwanjira yotakata). Ndipo poyang'aniridwa ndi luso losonyeza - kudera nkhawa anthu (nso - mwanjira yotakata).

Mwachidziwikire, munthu amakhala ndi chidwi chokhala ndi magulu onse maluso - zimangosintha moyo wake, chimapangitsa kukhala chokwanira. Koma mawonekedwe a zoyankhulira nawo maluso awa akhoza kusankhidwa popanda kudzidalira.

Pamenepo, pomwe wina ayenera kukhala ndi pomwe muyenera kuganizira za vutoli, lachiwiri ndilofunika kwambiri kutenga checker ndikuthamangira kunkhondo, kufesa mutu. Palibe amene angakhale wambiri kapena wocheperako. Chinthu chachikulu - amathetsa vutoli.

Mofananamo, za kufotokozera. Munthu m'modzi amvere mosamala, ndi kumthira pacifuko ndi ndalama zake mosangalala kuti: "Ndikhulupirira kuti mutha kupirira." Palibe wina amene sakhala pa machitidwe awo kapena ochepera. Chinthu chachikulu - amawonetsa chisamaliro.

Ndipo ngati sathetsa vutoli ndipo osasamala za anthu ena, ndiye kuti tili ndi vuto la ana, osati machitidwe aimuna. Mwanjira ina, zimenezi vuto sikuti munthu sikokwanira. Vuto ndikuti iye si akuluakulu okwanira.

Duliza

Palibe choyambirira chachimuna m'dziko lamakono, ndipo sitingathe. Mnyamatayo amakhala munthu osati kudzera mu njira iliyonse, koma chifukwa cha chitukuko chambiri cha ntchito ndi akulu omwe amasonkhana nawo. Chithunzi cha masoka tsopano chakhala payekha, ndipo amuna amenewo omwe amamvetsetsa izi amakhala bwino popanda mavuto. Ngati bambo akuyesera kuti alumikizane ndi zikhalidwe zotsutsana za gawo la amuna, mosaganizira amagwera pa nkhondo yosewerera, yomwe imakhumudwa ndi zotsatirapo zosiyanasiyana (mpaka mu mtima). Pangani chithunzi chanu cha masculity - chinthu chachikulu ndikuti chimapangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wabwinoko, koma sichoyipa. Ichi ndiye chofunikira chokha chomwe chili chofunikira kwa nzika.

Ndipo ndili ndi chilichonse, zikomo chifukwa cha chidwi chanu.

Mawu olemba: Pavlo zygmantovich tsamba la zamatsenga