Pachaka, bambo amayenera kutenga zothetsera zochulukirapo zokha. Izi zisankhozi zimakhudza abwenzi, ntchito, wokondedwa ... komanso momwe mungachitire mkhalidwe ngati simukudziwa momwe mungachitire munjira ina iliyonse? Kapena ngati mukukhala moyo wotere?
Funso lopanda kukayikira nthawi zambiri limapezeka m'mayanjano. Achinyamata ambiri amaimirira asanasankhe: "Ndani woti azilimbitsa ubale?", "Mukuyesani kukhazikitsa ubale wabwino komanso wochezeka?" etc. Ambiri omwe adatukula izi ndikusintha moyo wawo kukhala nkhondo yolimba ndi iwo eni. Kodi Mungatani Kuti Muzichita Zinthu? Momwe mungagonjetsere zomwe zakuchitikirani ndi kusatsimikizika, ndikusankha bwino?
Choyamba, ndikoyenera kuyerekezera molunjika. Penyani zakukhosi kwanu, zokhumba, malingaliro anu ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi nanu. Yesani nokha mu maudindo osiyanasiyana. Dziwani zowoneka bwino, zowoneka bwino za zomwe mwachita.
Anthu nthawi zambiri amakonzedwa kuti ndi kusintha pang'ono pakati pazinthu zakunja, aliyense amatsitsimutsa malo ake pagulu. Nthawi zambiri, omwe amafunika kudziwa zomwe zimapangitsa kuti azichita molumikizana ndi gulu lonse la anthu apamtima. Nayi umunthu wamunthu uja. Koma, kudzikakamiza kuyang'ana dziko lapansi kuchokera kunja, nthawi zambiri kumakhala kosavuta kupanga zisankho mkati mwa dzikoli. M'dziko lino, muli ngati wodziyimira pawokha, wopulumutsidwa kuchokera ku malingaliro, malingaliro, tsankho.
Ndi mfundo ziti zomwe zingachitike potengera udindo wanu wa paparazzi? Kuonera mikonzi yapadera ya anthu, mutha kudziyesa nokha kuti mumve zachikondi, chidani, nkhanza, umbombo, chikondi, zizolowezi zoipa, ndi zina zambiri. Mwina kumverera kwachimwemwe komwe mukukumana nawo, osati munthu yemweyo yemwe maubale amagwirizanitsidwa. Mwina mnzanu amene amathandizira nthawi zonse, amapereka chidwi chanu, amalipira chidwi chake ndipo pali diamondi yomweyo, kuwonekera komwe kumapangitsa kulakwitsa mwa anthu ena m'moyo wanu.
Nthawi zambiri, mwamwala amapangidwa kuti osakwanira awone zinthu zenizeni, monga mgwirizano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, ubale wa ndalama, kuyanjana ndi kugonana. Munjira zonsezi, ndizovuta kukhala zosavuta. Nthawi zonse zimakhala kuti bwenzi lomwe limayandikira nthawi zonse limakukondani ndipo limakupatsani inu ndekha, ndipo amene mukufuna kuti azigonana ndi ndalama zomwe zimachitika maubale. Amakhudzana ndi banja lachinyamata m'dziwe lomwe limakonda ndipo limapangitsa kuti chidwi ndi chidwi. Nthawi yomweyo, kumbali yaubwenziwo sikumatha kuchita bwino, ndipo nthawi zambiri m'malo mwa zipani zitatu.
Pofuna kuti musaphonye nthawi yomwe imakupangitsani kudzinyenga - mverani pafupipafupi kuti mumve zambiri, inu ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Malingaliro ndi malingaliro a munthu sapusitsa. Ndi mawu ndi kuwerengera - zitha. Kuzindikira Mwachikondi ndi gawo limodzi lokha chikwi chimodzi cha kuwonetsedwa kwa malingaliro. Chikondi ndichofunika kumverera mu ukulu wake wonse. Chikondi sichingakuyikeni. Sadzalipira ndalama zaka zambiri. Chikondi sichingapangitse kusankha. Ndiye kusankha kwanu. Zochitika zake zili mu mnzanu, m'machitidwe ake, ulemu, mawonekedwe. Chikondi sichingalole wina aliyense ku mtima wanu, chifukwa ndi - mtima wako.
Bwenzi, munthu wodziwika bwino, wogwira nawo bizinesi - aliyense ayenera kukhala pamalo omwe amagwira ntchito m'moyo wanu, ndipo palibe wina, kupatula wina aliyense, sadzakonzanso inu pa chessboard yanu. Inu ndinu mbuye, ndinu amene mukuwona pawokha, ndipo palibe chosatsimikizika m'moyo wanu, chifukwa pali chikondi mwa icho!