Kupatula onse okonda, zilibe kanthu, amakumana kwa chaka chimodzi kapena khumi, nthawi inayake pali kutopa - abwenzi amatopa ndi maubale. Kunja kwa tandem kumatha kuwoneka bwino - onse omwe amawakonda, amasamala za wina ndi mnzake, ali ndi zomwe anganene komanso kuti amakumbukira, koma kwinakwake kumadzuka.
Kenako wina yekhayo (ndipo nthawi zina onse awiri) amalola kulakwitsa kwakukulu - amabisa boma lake, limayamba kusokoneza, kuvala chigoba, kumalekerera ... kumabweretsa ubalewo kugwa.Chifukwa chiyani kudzakhala limodzi - sikutanthauza kukonda 24/7?
Tidzakhala oona mtima, okwatirana amaperekedwa kuti asasudzule, osagwirizana osagwirizana, zolinga zosiyanasiyana, mkwiyo kapena mavuto azachuma, chizolowezi cholakwira zakukhosi kwawo. Wina akangobisala pang'ono, koma chete. Kenako panali belu lachiwiri ndi lachitatu, mpaka kukhudzika kwamkati kuchokera kumphepete, ndipo dontho lomaliza silinagwere pamwamba. Koma dontho izi zisanakhale mawu ndi zifukwa zina! Onsewa atopa, koma adabisala chuma chawo. M'masiku ano ndipo panali cholakwika.
Ndizopusa kunamizira kuti nthawi zonse timakonda anzathu, omwe amakhala okonzeka kumvetsera nthawi zonse. Anthu ndi zolengedwa zovuta kuzidalira zowoneka bwino, matenda othupi, madontho a mahomoni komanso magome m'mutu. Sitingathe kutambasulirana ndi thandizo lakuti, sitifuna kuuza ena mphamvu zathu, kudzipatsa tokha osasamala komanso kutenga iwo omwe ali. Chikhalidwe chathu ndi chosakhazikika, kutengera ndi oscillations odzidalira, kukakamizidwa kwa anthu ndi zinthu zachilengedwe. Yakwana nthawi yovomereza kuti munthu m'modzi wokonda munthu m'modzi ali ndi maola 24 patsiku mpaka kumapeto kwa masiku ake - ntchitoyi ndizosatheka. Chifukwa chake sizichitika. Ili ndi Utopia pomwe tidatikakamiza kuti tikhulupirire chipembedzo komanso nthano zachabe zonena za chikondi chamuyaya "chamuyaya. "Osatigawana, khalani mosangalala!" Kalanga ine, ngakhale makina ogwirizanitsa kwambiri omwe angatulutse zolakwa, makamaka ngati dongosolo lapanga munthu wamoyo awiri.
Ngati maubale amapereka kulephera
Chifukwa chake, m'modzi mwa omwe ali nawo adadzipangitsa kuganiza kuti anali wotopa. Kutopa kumeneku kumawonetsedwa mosiyanasiyana - kukwiya, kufunitsitsa kumacheza ndi sabata limodzi, kumakondweretsa kuyankhulana bwino kapena kulumikizana. Zachidziwikire, aliyense wa ife ali ndi ufulu wokhala ndi malingaliro awo, nthawi zambiri, ndikofunikira kunena molondola hafu iyi, pezani nthawi yolankhula pamiyoyo. Kalanga ine, 90% ya anthu ndi manyazi kwa kutopa kwa kutopa ndikuyendetsa mozama kwambiri kuti muopa kudandaula za "chowonadi" choyipa "cha munthu wokondedwa. Zikuwoneka kuti timakumana ndi zikhumbo zawo, ndizosavuta kupirira, popanda chidwi, poyankha kupsompsonana. Ndipo pomwepo nthawi ina adagona popanda kulakalaka, nthawi ina adatsekeka kwa iye "wosafuna" - ndipo china chake mkati chimaphulitsidwa, ndikuwonetsa zoyipa. M'malo mwachikondi chamuyaya, panali phompho, pambuyo pake zonse zinayamba kusiyidwa.
Chifukwa chakuti talinganiza kuti sitingakhale ndi moyo chifukwa cha ena, malingaliro athu sakhululuka. Mwa kuchititsa kuti zinthu ziwonongeke, timadzimverabe, malingaliro athu ndi zosowa zathu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake chete ndi poyizoni yemwe amawononga mabanja. Tidavutika, adatulutsa mphira, kenako amangonena kuti "popanda kupangitsa kuti mnzake amvetsetse zomwe sitidachita kuchokera kwa iye? Chikondi sichiphedwa osakhumudwitsa, koma kubisala kwathunthu, kubisa zolinga za chowonadi. Ndipo ngati mukuopa kuti, tanena za vuto langali, kuwononga ubale wanu, tili ndi mbiri yabwino kwa inu - chikondi apa ndipo sichimanunkhiza.
Moyo ndi chinthu chovuta, nthawi zonse pamakhala nthawi zonse za matenda ndipo nthawi zonse zimatha kukweza pomwe zimatha kukhala bwino kwambiri, ndipo china chitha kusweka, ndipo tiyenera kukonza. Ngati mwaphwanya kena kake mkati - musatonthole, lankhulani za izi, motero muyenera kukhala ndi mwayi wopulumutsa maubale.
Chikondi sichimachitika nthawi zonse mitanda, ngakhale malingaliro oona mtima kwambiri komanso oganiza bwino amatha kumva kuti akudziletsa. Palibe kusokonezeka kwa wina ndi mnzake osatinso kukakondana. Anthu amapatsidwa chisudzulo, zokhumudwitsa zomwe mungakwaniritse munthu "wanu" amene tidzakhala bwino nthawi zonse. Palibe kusamvana, kukwera tsiku ndi tsiku, kokha pinki pinki ndi utawaleza 24/7. Koma sizichitika. Tonse tatopa ndipo nthawi zina timafuna kupumula, nthawi yanu komanso moyo wanu. Izi ndizabwinobwino.