Kudalira ndikofunikira pakupanga ubale wolimba. Ndizachilengedwe kuchizunza anthu osadziwika komanso kusiya kudalira omwe aperekedwa kale. Komabe, ubale watsopano ndi mwamuna, ndikofunikira kuti mumupatse chidaliro chapamwamba, apo ayi chifukwa zina zabwino zomwe zimatuluka mu izi.
Kodi kusakhulupirika kwachikazi kumaonekera bwanji
Njira yodziwika bwino ya kusakhulupirika kwa akazi pokhudzana ndi: "Amuna onse ... - Sizotheka kuwakhulupirira." etc. Ndipo kuopsa kotereku ndikuti kudziwa bwino munthu wamkulu yemwe adzasonyeze chikondi ndi chisamaliro, mkazi amayang'ana nsomba mmenemo apenyeredwe: "Uwu ndiye woyera kwambiri ndi fluffy, kenako ... " Madona ena amawopa kwambiri osagwirizana ndipo amawopa kuti anyengedwa kuti akuyesera njira zonse zomwe zingatheke kusakhulupirika ndikupanga ma cheke ambiri.Mwa njira, mtundu wina wa kukayikira umadziwonetsera padera lokha, kuti asavomereze thandizo kwa munthu. Ngakhale kukwatiwa ndi akazi ambiri amayesa kuchita chilichonse, osapempha thandizo kwa wokondedwa wanu. Amakhazikitsa ulamuliro wathunthu pa mnzake, musamulole kupanga zisankho zodziyimira pawokha, kutsutsa nthawi zonse komanso kupereka malangizo omveka bwino choti ndi momwe angachitire.
Kodi amuna amawakhulupirira ndani omwe sakhulupirira
Munthu wamphamvu, wodzipereka yekha, wodzipereka yekha sangapitirize chibwenzi ndi mkazi ngati samukhulupirira. Amafunikira gawo loti agwiritse ntchito, ndipo chifukwa cha ichi pamafunika chikhulupiriro ndi kusilira akazi. Pozindikira kuti mwanjira inayake, sadzalandira - amagawana ndi mayiyu, ndipo, ngati zinthu zina modabwitsa, zimatsimikiziranso "zolondola" zawo.
Chochitika chofala kwambiri m'mabanja, pomwe bambo amakonda kufesedwa pabedi, kumwa mowa ndi anzawo, ndipo mkaziyo amakhala akuchita zonse, ndipo ana akukula, ndipo amayang'ana pafamuyo. Mofananamo, amuna amachita ngati chifukwa chosakhulupirira. Samva kuti mphamvu zake, amaganiza kuti ali wofooka - pambuyo pa zonse, ndi izi zimamulimbikitsa mkazi ndi zochita zake. Zowona, nthawi zambiri amuna oterewa amasatekeseka amatemera katemera wa ubwana.
Komwe kumachokera kuti
Kodi mkazi wosakhulupirira theka la umunthu amachokera kuti? Pakhoza kukhala zovuta zingapo zoyambira vutoli. Nthawi zambiri, ili ndi gulu la azimayi omwe adapereka amuna omwe adasanduka kale kuti apusitsidwe ndipo sakufunanso zomwezo. Nthawi zambiri pamakhala zinthu zina zomwe atsikana amakula m'mabanja, komwe sanali kucheza ndi abambo, amalume ndi agogo ndi agogo. Kupatula apo, aliyense amaphunzira chidaliro mu ubwana - osalandira maluso poyamba, kuti azindikire vutoli ndikupanga luso lokhulupirira kuti ali ndi chitukuko chovuta.Mtsikanayo atakula konse popanda abambo ndipo analibe chitsanzo chabwino cha munthu patsogolo pa maso ake - zimawonjezera chiopsezo chomwe, chimakhala munthu wamkulu, sakanawakhulupirira. Kupatula apo, poyambirira ndi lingaliro loti ndizosatheka kudalira munthu - amangotha kuthawa. Khalidwe la amayi limakhazikitsidwa, lomwe m'maso mwa mtsikanayo ndi wamphamvu, lodzikwanira ndipo amatha kuthana ndi mavuto komanso popanda bambo. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa azimayi achichepere kuwonetsa chisonyezo choyenera kuti mtsogolomo sanali ndi mavuto m'moyo wamunthu.
Momwe Mungalipire Kukayikira konse ndi kukhulupirira munthu
Ichi ndiye chodabwitsa kwambiri kwambiri. Mbali inayo, mkaziyo amamupangitsa kuti akhale chidaliro cha mwamunayo, ayenera kulipeza. Koma mbali inayo, monga momwe zimawonetsera, azimayi zabwino amakopa amuna oterowo omwe amatha kutanthauza - chiwonongeko, chinyengo, kukhulupirika. Chifukwa chobwereza zokumana nazo pafupipafupi, zinthu zinalipo kanthu - m'malo moyamba kuthana ndi iye, azimayi amayamba kuwonetsa mkwiyo kwambiri komanso kusakhulupirira amuna - bwalo loipa limayamba.
Kuti muphwasule, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa nokha kuti dziko lapansi ladzala ndi amuna ambiri - zabwino ndi zoyipa, zosasamala kwenikweni komanso zosasamala. Chifukwa chake, ngati ngwazi zoipa zokha zimabweretsa njira yanu, yang'anani nokha kuchokera kumbali, momwe mumaganizira ndikuwunika ofuna kusankha. Mwina pazinthu izi zimafunikira thandizo kwa dokotala wazamisala, zomwe zingalole kukumba zovuta zamkati ndikusintha momwe akuganizira.
Akazi omwe sadziwa kukhulupirira amuna omwe akuzunzidwa. Kudziyesa kwawo kumapangidwa ndi zinthu zakunja. Chifukwa chake, zidzakhala zothandiza kwambiri kuzindikira kufunika kwawo, komwe sikupita kulikonse ngakhale chinyengo ndi chinyengo chochokera kwa amuna. Ngati mkazi amadzilemekeza, amakonda ndi kuyamikiridwa, amadzidalira, adzadalirika komanso ena. Muyenera kuphunzira kuti tikhala pano ndipo tsopano, osati nyumba yomanga mapulani a mizimu kupita ku akaunti ya mnzake mtsogolo - kuti muonenso munthu kuti mwachita ndi zochita zake, popereka chidaliro chambiri.