Mukuuzidwa: mokwanira, dzipangeni, dziperekeni m'manja, mwana wamkazi wamkazi, sangalalani. Ndipo simukumvera. Chifukwa chakuti kulira, kudandaula ndi ku Bang ndikothandiza kwambiri.
Naya amachotsa kusokonezeka
Uli ndi msampha, chifukwa mzimu wofooka umagwera pakulima ndikudandaula za chifukwa chilichonse chosaganizira. Mukudziwa, ngakhale kufiyira pang'ono Mlingo kumalimbitsa thanzi, ndipo mwa kulibe malire kumawopseza manyazi, harnand ndi mafoni akale.
Sitili pano pamakhalidwe, koma za psychology: Kufuula kumathandizanso kunena komanso kumavutitsa mavuto awo. Mantha a Voble sakhala ocheperako komanso owopsa.
Naya amathandizira kuthana ndi vutoli
Makamaka ngati palibe njira ina yowongoledwe. Mwachitsanzo, kodi mungatani ndi amayi, omwe kuchokera pachaka chanu cha zolankhula chilichonse chimayambira ndi malingaliro okhudza adzunzo? Ndi apongozi ake, omwe, bitch wakale, sazengereza kukufananitsani ndi Ex-lero - "chabwino, msungwana wabwino"? Ndi abwana? Ndi njira yothamanga? Palibe, ngakhale akaunti.
Koma izi sizikuletsa kukambirana kwachikhama m'mutu mwanu, ndipo ndibwino kufotokozera mokweza mawu - osakhala ndi vuto, ndipo wina ndi mnzake. Maganizo a m'maganizo, izi ndizofanana ndi momwe mungapatse otloux kwa iwo omwe akumva ngati omenyera ufulu wa ufulu ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi zonse zomwe zimayendetsedwa.
Kulimbitsa Maubwenzi Achikhalidwe
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi kuti palibe amene amakonda okondweretsa odala, amakwiya. Amatopa nawo. Ndizosatheka kumvetsera kwa maola ambiri, ana awo omvera komanso okongola, ophunzira abwino kwambiri, ali ndi mwamuna wabwino bwanji, momwe amapangira kukonza zipinda zitatu pa malo awo. Palibe cholankhula chabe.
Madandaulo nthawi yomweyo amapereka chifukwa chokumbukira mavuto awo, amagawana zomwe akumana nazo, perekani khonsolo yanzeru, pamodzi kuti athe kudutsa gulu la anthu ogwirizana.
Anthu ochezeka amalimbikitsa zisankho
Madandaulo - chimodzimodzi, kulira kwa thandizo: Ndinachitika kuti ndisasungunuke ndikundiuza kuti ndichite chiyani. Ngati mumadandaula za anthu oyenera - ndiye kuti, omwe amamvetsetsa mavuto ngati amenewa - mutha kupeza yankho komanso loyeneranso upangiri. Ndi kuti onyada komanso odekha ndi maupangiri nthawi zambiri samakwera.
Kuonera kukweza
Mu 1996, katswiri wa zamaphunziro a syvarske adachititsa kuti aphunzire ndipo adazindikira kuti kudzidalira kumeneku kuli kwakukulu kuposa iwo omwe amakhala chete. Apa, pali kulumikizana kwa kachilomboka. Kumbali ina, anthu amadziopeza kuti ali ndi chidaliro kuti mavuto awo ndi osangalatsa komanso osachita manyazi kuwatsanulira mozungulira. Komabe, mukamadandaula, aliyense amakuyang'anani, ndikutsegula pakamwa, ndikutsegula mwadala ndi kugwedeza kuti: "Inde, zonse ndi zoopsa." Chidwi chapamtima choterechi ndichabwino. Zimapangitsa kuti ndinu munthu wofunika, osati ogatie achitetezo.