Pali diagnoses kuti ali pa kumva ndi - nthawi zambiri ichi ndi chifukwa kuphunzira yogwira iwo ndiponso zimene okhazikika m'munda wa matenda awo ndi mankhwala. Tsopano chidwi chapadera cha anthu ndi zovuta za mawonekedwe a utoto. TV ikuwonetsa za zilembo zokhala ndi mitundu - mwachitsanzo, "malingaliro osinthika" kapena "mlatho", zolembedwa zakale za anthu ambiri zimasinthidwa, ndikuganizira zomwe zingachitike.
Popeza inu mumafuna kuwerenga nkhaniyi pa zonse, mwina zambiri mukuwerenga za zovala za sipekitiramu autistic, m'pamenenso mukuganiza kuti pali mitundu. Kapena mwina mukutsimikiza kuti matenda anu mwamphamvu kwambiri.
Chifukwa mumachitanso "zolimbikitsa" - mayendedwe osapumira ndi manja, phazi kapena maso kuti muchotse mavuto. Chifukwa ndinunso ochezeka kapena osavuta. Chifukwa nawonso, kapenanso.
Koma apa ndi apo iwo kulemba za anthu amene "perekani okha" ndi matenda a mitundu yolankhula chidwi kwambiri, kuti kupewa mavuto awo a m'maganizo ndi khalidwe. Zikanachita manyazi kukhala munthu yemwe amasazindikira matenda a anthu omwe ali ndi mavutowa.
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Vuto lalikulu ndi kufotokoza za moyo wa akulu ndi matenda autistic sipekitiramu anthu ndizicheza, kusinthidwa ndi kulipidwa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ambiri mwa zizindikiro ndi mavuto iwo tsopano ankawachotsera ndipo akhoza lifanane ndi mavuto neurotype (wathanzi poyerekezera VNS) anthu ndi mavuto maganizo chifukwa cha luso pa ubwana kapena mtsogolo mwa zovuta kwambiri anthu ndi matenda a ubongo pambuyo choipa thupi kapena maganizo salimbikitsa anthu. M'boma nonostrom.
Machete? Amachitanso anthu athanzi m'mavuto - kutulutsa minofu yaying'ono. Ndipo anthu omwe ali ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse ndipo akusewera mawuwontho nthawi zonse. "Dziko la SocIophobia" (loona ndi labodza), zowopsa, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimagwirizanitsa anthu ndi matupi awo, kusokonekera kwa thupi lawo, izi zitha kukhala zachidziwikire, ndipo mwina sizingakhale chizindikiro cha mitundu .
Mwana uyu anali wachilendo
Kuzindikira kwambiri moyenera malinga ndi mavutowa, wachikulire, yemwe amafuna kuti abweretse mitundu yake mukadali mwana. Mwachitsanzo:
- Mukhoza kudzikakamiza kudya mitundu yekha ena chakudya kapena ada mangala ndi makhalidwe a chakudya, "inu munali mavuto aakulu ndi luso ukhondo, mpaka ngozi kawirikawiri ndithu chimbudzi pa zaka sukulu kapena omasuka kuyenda ndi zochuluka mabala ake akukha mwazi - munganene lembani ndondomeko zachilendo maola kapena ndodo mu dikishonare popanda cholinga zothandiza - inu osati ogwetsa ndi manyazi chikhalidwe manyazi, koma mwachindunji pathologically, - inu simukanakhoza kukana kulira kapena yaikulu kakasi mitundu yapafupi ya stamming (mwachitsanzo, kwambiri swaying kapena kulimbikitsa kuti kumaliseche) amphamvu okhalitsa - mudawayesa sizongoyerekezera yaitali bwanji ndekha kuti ndinu kulandira kapena kuponyedwa ndi mwana, ndi elf kapena alendo, - ambiri anakuitanani "mwana wa enaake" kapena zoziwika bwino kuti ndi lodabwitsa ndi matalente zimayenderana ndi m'tsogolo mukhoza ukadzionetse - inu anayamba kulankhula mochedwa, anamanga kulankhula kwambiri buku kapena zinkangokhala kubwereza izo mobwerezabwereza Chinthu chomwecho mu bwalo, - mumatchedwa "mwana wokhazikika" kapena, m'malo mwake, mofuula pang'ono, komanso muubwana, ndidaganiza zokhala ndi asirikali, - masewera anu ndi zinthu Izo zimawoneka zachilendo: lopinda mabatani, kusuntha nsanza, kumanga cubes mu mzere, - inu nthawi zonse ntchito kuwonongeka Mwachitsanzo, zochepa chabe kapena ankakonda kumenya dzanja langa mu nkhope, - inu anadwala nonconimal kapena sadzadzukanso osati kuti kulira, - mabuku anali abwenzi kwambiri kuposa ana ena - mu unyamata inu tapeza khunyu kapena bala, - anthu ankaoneka ngati akwiya ndi odziwa mavuto kwa mmodzi wa kukhalapo kwanu, nthawi zina kuphatikizapo abale wapamtima - thupi lanu zosamveka ndiponso maganizo "mabuleki" mwamphamvu kuchuluka komwe kunali anthu ambiri kapena kungoti phokoso kwambiri - inu ndi mavuto ndi maganizo a akupangira, chizolowezi momuuza yaitali ndipo kwambiri pa mawu, zimene ndiye Iwo ananena kuti nthabwala, "inu anatsatira anati makhazikitsidwe zolakwika kunyalanyaza anawamasulira sanali zolankhula zawo ndi unlawfully makhazikitsidwe pa kugonana, zaka ndi maudindo osiyanasiyana chifukwa chakuti iwo sankakhoza ngakhale zindikirani iwo.
Komanso, n'zomveka kuti Atchule zifukwa zotsatirazi: - Muli kwambiri masamba paubwana kapena mayi anu mimba ndi chiwerengero chopambanitsa mkulu mankhwala, - muli ndi abale ndi mawonetseredwe amphamvu kwambiri a mitundu, - bambo anu pa nthawi yomwe mayi anali zaka zoposa 35.
Koma ngakhale zonsezi sizingalankhule mosamala pamaso pa mitundu. Kusungunuka ndi thupi lake, mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri kumawonedwa mwa atsikana chifukwa cha zomwe akukonda, mavuto ena ambiri amakhala achiwawa makamaka nthawi zambiri zimadziwika. Chifukwa Mwa princess princess syndrome - mwana wawo chifukwa chodwala zake, zimawoneka ngati kwa makolo owopsa, achilendo, osamveka, kukanidwa.
Kotero mafuko kapena simpikisano?
Ngati mavuto anu ali ndendende (kapena pafupifupi), monga anthu okhala ndi mitundu, mukuyenera kuwathetsa njira zomwezo, kuti kusapezeka kapena kusapezeka kwa zimbudzi muubwanakwa. Chowonadi ndi chakuti ngati munthu wamkulu amatha kukayikira kupezeka kwa matenda omwewo, ndiye kuti ndizowopsa kwambiri komanso zovuta zomwe zili kutali - ubwana. Mwina simungathe kutchedwa wabwinobwino, koma zabwinobwino - inde.
Momwe mungakhalire munthu wokhala ndi mafuko?
Choyamba, kuiwala kukhazikitsa "tyzhbolzhevochka" (ndi "Typhmog" - kwa amuna) ndikuchita zonse kuti muchepetse chidwi ndi nkhawa. Gona pomwe kuwala ndi kanema wawayilesi kumazimitsidwa, kusankha njira yodzuka, yomwe imakupatsani mwayi kuti muchepetse dziko lapansi, ndikutseka mawindo, kuti "zofunika I - igwira ntchito pansi pa phokoso "), gwiritsani ntchito maheadfoni.
Osamapita kumalo achilendo kwambiri - pazochitika, kum'mimba mu "nthawi yakutha" - yokha. Chabwino, ngati inu mungokhala osavuta ndikugwetsa tebulo ndi zaluso za winawake kapena chovala cha munthu wina ... Ndiye kuti sichabwino, koma osaphedwa. Ndipo ngati zowonjezera zikufika mpaka kuti chikumbumtima chitha kuyenda panyanja? Izi zitha kuchitika mobwerezabwereza, koma mwayi wokulirapo.
Malizitsani ndi gawo la econtric (kapena mwamphamvu) ndikuyesa kuyika chidwi cha kampaniyo - mumangokhalira limodzi ndi anthu, inunso simudzakhala osavuta kuwona. Kanani kuyesa kubwereza chiwembu cha filimuyo kapena chithunzi choseketsa cha intaneti (mbiri yachidule - malo ofooka kwambiri a anthu omwe ali ndi mitundu) - izi zingathandize kuti mupewe kukhudzika kukukani nanu.
Pitilizani kugwira ntchito pazachikhalidwe chake. Sankhani mfundo ina yofooka mu mndandanda wa zofooka zina (mutha kuthandizidwa ndi kafukufuku wosadziwika pakati pa anthu omwe akukudziwani patsambalo), werengani pamutuwu madandaulo, mapindu, funsani ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Kenako pitani. Osakwanira chilichonse nthawi imodzi, osadzikweza komanso kwathunthu.
Makamaka kumvetsera kuleka kwa kukhwima. Inde, kuyenda nthawi zonse njira imodzi yokoma ndi kakuwasangalatsa, koma ngati voteji ali kutali ndi imfa, njira n'kosathandiza nthawi ndi kadzutsa menyu ndi. Apo ayi, mu ukalamba, pamene onse maonekedwe a munthu imathandiza, inu kudwala sachedwa chifukwa anu ndi kuzunza ena, ndipo thandizo lawolo lingakhale muyenera kwambiri. Ndipo zosintha zomwe nthawi zina sizingapewe zingakupheni ndi zoona zathu!
Samalani (mukafunseni ngati mukufuna, anzanu), kodi mumathana ndi ukhondo wanu komanso wapabanja. Kuchitapo kanthu.
Samalani mitundu yam'madzi, komwe mukuyambira pano. Kuyang'ana njira yotetezeka kwambiri yolumikizira milomo, kutafuna, lilime, misomali, kutafuna tsitsi, mwachitsanzo, mawu ogwirizana. Wina amathandiza zonse analemba buku la za yekha monga munthu payekha, mu mutu kapena pa pepala, munthu - kayendedwe ka Motors kapena stitched mu thumba la nyemba.
Khalani ndi kuvina kapena kusambira kuti muchepetse kupasuka ndi thupi. Sankhani magulu ang'onoang'ono ovina, mu nyimbo zamakalasi omwe mumatsanulira mosavuta ndipo musataye mtima polemba phunziroli.
Kuthana ndi ziwengo - anthu okhala ndi mafuko nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi ziwembu zambiri, ndipo amadziwonetsa okha kuti amalimbikitsa zizindikiro za vutolo.
Autism sanagwiritsidwe ntchito
Koma ndi mkulu-ntchito mitundu, mukhoza moyo wa anthu ndi dzanja wolumala kapena phazi olumala moyo - chake kukonza moyo wawo, khama lawo, nthawi yawo, kupeka akulipira njira.
Wolemba mawu: Lilith Mazikina
Mafanizo: Shuttlando