Nthawi zambiri anthu amatsatira munthu yemwe sangathe kukhala limodzi. Ndi chiyani? Matenda? Masewerawa? Vuto? Chizolowezi? Zoyipa? Chifukwa chiyani anthu akukopa iwo omwe sadafuna nawo? Tiyeni tiwone chowonadi. Mwina ali kale ndi theka lachiwiri? Kapena ali ndi chiwerewere china? Kapena mwina sawamvera chisoni? Pali zifukwa zambiri. Tiyeni tichitepo ndi chifukwa chomwe anthu amakonda kutsatira zomwe akunyalanyaza.
Sayansi
Munthu akakonda wina, ubongo wake umatulutsa mahomoni - dopamine. Izi zimatchedwa mahomoni osangalala, chifukwa amasangalala. Ubongo umayamba kusokonekera kwa chisangalalo cha mahomoni, monga mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Munthu akaona munthu amene amakonda, thupi limatulutsa dopamine. Ndipo nthawi yochulukirapo yomwe iye amasochera munthu wokondedwa, Dopamine kwambiri amapangidwa.Kuzigomera
Zachabe sizitanthauza mawu akuti: "Ndimawoneka bwino bwanji pa kavalidwe kameneka." Pamakhala kulumikizidwa mwachindunji ndi malingaliro ake, kudzidalira komanso kudzidalira. Anthu akufuna kukhala ofunikira, ofunikira, okongola komanso apadera, ndiye kukhala wopanda pake. Munthu akamvetsetsa phindu lake, amakhala ndi chidaliro komanso kunyada, kudzidalira kumawonjezeka. Munthu amene amanyalanyaza mchikondi amamenyedwa ndi zachabe. Pulogalamu yamaganizidwe, malingaliro a omwe amakana akufuna kubweza chithunzi chotayika, kukankha kuti ayesere kumvetsetsa za momwe zinthu zilili.
Kufunafuna chizunzo
Anthu amasangalala kwambiri chifukwa chofuna kupeza ngati atachita khama kwambiri. Amatsata osanyalanyaza anthu kuti asangalale kuti amasangalala.Ngongole
Maganizo amunthu amapatsa phindu pa chilichonse, chomwe chikukumana nacho. Mtengo womwe umapatsa zinthu kapena anthu zimatengera malamulo operekera ndi kufunikira. Umu ndi momwe mungafunire katundu wokhala ndi zopereka zochepa, chifukwa mtengo wa chinthu chikuwonjezeka. Mwachitsanzo, ngati kulibe maapulo okwanira pamsika, ndipo anthu ambiri amafuna kuwagula, mtengo wa zipatso umakula. Momwemonso umunthu wake ndi "kuperewera", malingaliro a munthu wina amangofunika kwenikweni pankhaniyi, kapena kuti munthuyu ndiwofunika. Kufunitsitsa kuti munthu akhale wokopa munthu wotere.
Kufuna
Tiyeni tikambirane chitsanzo. Anthu 2-5 amadya mu malo odyera limodzi, ndipo ena - 15-20 anthu. Kodi mungasankhe mtundu wanji? Mwachidziwikire, 2 pomwe anthu ambiri, chifukwa nthawi zambiri amadziwika kuti malo odyera awa akufunikira, anthu ngati nkhomaliro pano, etc. zomwe zimachitika mwadala anthu mwadala amasankha mnzake. Munthu wofunitsitsa amakonda ena, amafunanso kwambiri m'chikondi. Zokha, anthu amatenga nawo mbali mpikisano.Mapeto
Pomaliza: Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe anthu amakopa kuzunzidwa kwa okondedwa ndi omwe sangathe kukhala limodzi.
Kuyesayesa motsimikiza kuti musangalale ndi umunthu wosagwirizana ndikungoyendayenda mozungulira iwo. Zimapatsa mavuto ambiri osagona komanso kuvutika, koma mbali inayo, zimawapatsa chidwi chofuna kusamva. Anthu ambiri ozunza amazindikira ndikuzindikira zifukwa izi, ndikumvetsetsa bwino momwe wamkati. Ndipo iyi ndi njira yokhayo yochotsera zovuta.