Katswiri wazamisala wa ku Belarisa wa kuvekera zygmantovich zokhudza zomwe zimalepheretsa munthu kukhala kholo labwino kwa ana ake ndi zomwe angachite kuti akhale bambo wabwino.
Kodi muyenera kukhala bambo wabwino chiti? Choyamba, zofuna.
Koma ndi chilakolako cha amuna ambiri, tsoka, osati. Zofanana ndi izi ndi kukhazikitsa kwina (ndi zikhulupiriro, nawonso ndi mawonekedwe ofanana, ndi malingaliro anzeru).
Monga mitundu yonse ya makonzedwe, izi zimakhudza kwambiri zomwe zimachitika. Ndipo zimakhudza, mwatsoka, osati njira yabwino kwambiri.
Misampha Yakupha
Wofufuza Russia Abramoval Almoval a Almoval A Abramova G. S. adawulula zidutswa khumi zotere zomwe adatcha "Misampha Yaukazi."
chimodzi) "Tsatirani Cholinga Chosavuta" - Mwamuna amakhulupirira kuti kukhala bambo ndi wophweka kwambiri - umangofunika kudyetsa ndi kuvala mwana.
2) "Kuyenda Kwa Umwini" - Mwamuna amakhulupirira kuti mwanayo ayenera kumulemekeza kwenikweni; Nthawi yomweyo palibe chomvetsetsa kuti kulemekeza mwana kumabwera chifukwa cha zomwe Atate amachita.
3) "Santhulfered" - Mwamuna amakhulupirira kuti ndikofunikira kutsatira miyezo ina, kukhala wabwinobwino chifukwa chake sizimatenga mwayi wa ana awo.
zinai) "Tsatirani Ufulu Wamphamvu" - Mwamuna amakhulupirira kuti mfundo yofunika kwambiri pazokambirana ndi mphamvu kapena chiwonetsero champhamvu. M'malo mokambirana - zoopsa.
zisanu) "Mutu Beat" - Mwamuna amayang'ana kwambiri okalamba ngati chitukuko ("ndidakali mwana, ndikufuna kuyenda," sakumvetsa chilichonse, amayi ake akhale ndi Iye ");
6) "Msampha wa Mphatso" - Munthu amakhulupirira kuti kupereka mphatso ndi njira yabwino yosonyezera chikondi chanu; Pambuyo popereka mphatso kutali ndi mwanayo.
7) "Mbatani ya Ogwiritsa Ntchito" - Mwamuna amakhulupirira kuti banjali likufunika kuti apange malo abwino; Samaganizira za malingaliro ndi zokhumba za abale ena.
zisanu ndi zitatu) "Pansi Papamwamba Mbato" - Mwamuna amakhulupirira kuti ntchito yofunika ikhoza kuthetsedwa kapena kukakamiza ("kwa amuna") kapena mwanjira iliyonse. Mwachitsanzo, zosankha zokambirana sizilandiridwa (chifukwa ndi "zazikazi").
zisanu ndi zinayi) "Sanjani Mtengo Wapansi Pansi" - Mwamuna amakhulupirira kuti ndi wowoneka bwino chifukwa ndi munthu, kotero simuyenera kugwiritsa ntchito zoyesayesa zina.
10) "Msampha wa Ana" -Munthu akhulupirira kuti onse a mkazi wake ayenera kupangidwa kwa iye, osati kwa ana.
Momwe Mungagonjetse Msampha
Monga zikhulupiriro zina, izi zitha kuwongoleredwa - pambuyo pa zonsezo, amangokhulupirira, ndiye kuti, malingaliro ena omwe si osonkhana komanso / kapena osasintha. Atafika, adzachoka.
Dziwani pano kuti kusintha kwa chikhulupiriro ndi nkhani yovuta. Zolimba, koma zothokoza.
Kufotokozera momwe kukhudzira kumasinthira, muyenera kulemba buku lonse, motero amakakamizidwa kwambiri.
Choyamba, muyenera kuphunzira kuganizira mozama. Sober - Izi zikutanthauza kuti ndi kulowererapo kochepa kwa zowonongeka zingapo. Poyamba, ndikulimbikitsa kuti mumveke bwino ndi zamavuto anga zolimba "zonena za malingaliro anga," komwe ndikufotokoza mwatsatanetsatane momwe malingaliro athu amatipangitsa kuti tisasangalale komanso momwe mungapangire malingaliro anu. Dinani apa.
Kachiwiri, ndikofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito yophunziridwayo. Mwachitsanzo, lingalirani ndikuwona kuti mkazi, yemwe amabwera ola limodzi pambuyo pake, sakakamizidwa kuphika chakudya chamadzulo; Zingakhale bwino kuphika chakudya chamadzulo - ndipo simukhala munjala, ndipo moyo wanu udzapangitsa moyo kukhala wosavuta. Ndikofunikira kuganiza tsiku lililonse ndikuyang'ana dziko lopanda mandala opotoka (monga momwe angathere, inde).
Kumbukirani kuti - ziwerengero zathu sikuti nthawi zonse zimawonetsera zenizeni, nthawi zambiri timakhala olakwika kwambiri ndipo potero timatha kuyika moyo wanu.
Abambo abwino
Mwachidule, za abambo abwino. Bati Abwino amayesetsa kukwaniritsa ntchito zake za kholo mokwanira. Amasamala za moyo wa mwana mmagawo onse - ndi zojambulajambula (kudyetsa, kuchapa, ndikukumbatirana), kugwirizirana (kosatha), kuphatikizapo Zovuta kwambiri), ndi kupitirira.
Palibe amene angakhale bambo wabwino - ndizosatheka. Chifukwa chake, simuyenera kumva kudzimva kuti ndinu olakwa chifukwa chamuyaya. Ndikwabwino kungochita zinthu zothandiza komanso / kapena zosangalatsa.
Bambo wabwino sizabwino. Amangochita zomwe zingatheke, ndi zochulukirapo. Izi ndizokwanira kuzitcha bwino. Osati ungwiro, ayi. Basi - zabwino.
Ndipo ndili ndi chilichonse, zikomo chifukwa cha chidwi chanu.
Source Source: Pavel zygmantovich blog