Pavel zygmantich - "munthu amene akuchita zovuta" - amawonetsa njira yochepetsetsa yomwe anzanu amawadziwa. Onetsetsani kuti mwawerengera wina aliyense amene angakumane ndi anthu.
Ingoganizirani - muli okongola ndi munthu wina, ndinu wokongola wina ndi mnzake, muli ndi mitu yolankhula, mumakhala bwino.Kodi mungapange bwanji bwenzi la zonsezi (pali funso lochokera kwa anthu ena)?
Choyamba chinali chilungamo
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi chinthu chofunikira pakati pathu, anthu, mfundo ya kusinthana yofanana imagawidwa. Kwina kozama cha ubongo wathu wobisalira zomwe amawerengera chilungamo. Panali kafukufuku wambiri pamutuwu.
Nthawi zambiri, kafukufukuyu ndi woterowo - anthu awiri osadziwika kuti akumasewera masewera azachuma "mwankhanza". Chinsinsi cha masewerawa ndi osavuta. Zoyeserera zimayambitsa mmodzi mwa osewera kuchuluka kwa ndalama zomwe wosewera angachite zonse zomwe akufuna. Mwina siyani ndalama zonse kwa inu. Atha kupereka wosewera wachiwiri. Ikhoza kugawana mtundu wina. Sizifunika. Ndikofunikira kuti ndalama zizikhala osewera pokhapokha ngati wosewera wachiwiri akugwirizana ndi kugawanika.
Mwachitsanzo, woyesererayo adapereka mayunitsi zana ku wosewera woyamba. Hafuyo idakankhidwira iye theka - kwa wosewera wachiwiri. Tsopano zachokera kwachiwiri zimatengera - ngati angalandire ndalama kapena ayi. Ngati wosewera mpirayo avomereza, ndiye onsewo amapezeka. Ngati simukuvomereza - woyeserera amabweza ndalama.
Ndipo ndizodabwitsa. Ngati wosewera woyamba agawa ndalama 50/50, palibe mavuto. Chachiwiri chimavomereza kuti aliyense agwirizane choncho, ndipo aliyense amapeza ndalama. Komabe, zikafika, nenani, 60/40, ndiye kuti wosewera mpira wachiwiri akukana. Inde, akukana, ngakhale amataya ndalama. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa silaatso.
Komanso, mwa njira, anyani amakhalira - ngakhale sipamutu wapamwamba kwambiri (monga ma cappuchin). Makina otanthauzira chilungamo amasochedwa kwa ife tisanakhale homo mapie.
Inu - i - i - inu
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Polumikizana ndi anthu oyandikira kwambiri (kuphatikizapo komanso ndi mabwenzi) tidzagwiritsa ntchito njira zathu zopangidwira. Timaganiziranso kulumikizana kulikonse ndikulemera pamakala - kodi kusinthana ndi munthu ndi zingati?
Apa mwandiuza chiyamikiro, ndiye mikate, zonse zili zoona.
Munkapita kophika ndikulowetsa mnzake wa khofi, ndipo adagawana nawo apulo ndi inu - Bams, zonse ndizowona.
Comerga anakupemphani kuti mumuthandize paulendo, kenako anaitanidwa ku lesitilanti ndikuthokoza ka chakudya chamadzulo - mikate!
Koma ngati munthawi zonsezi za njira zomwe sizingachitike, kagwiridwero cha chilungamo chidzapereka chizindikiro, ndipo inu mulingo wa chingwe cha msana, chikuluwa munthu wosasangalatsa epithet. Ndipo sadzakhala wochezeka naye.
Izi zimatchedwa lingaliro lazofanana kapena zachikhalidwe (chiphunzitso chosinthana). Chilichonse chiyenera kukhala choonamtima komanso chimodzimodzi. Ine, ndi ine.
Kupanda kutero, malingaliro athu opangidwa ndi cholinga chopangidwa ndi cholinga chopangidwawo adzapereka alamu.
Komabe, titha kuthana ndi lingaliro ili - ndipo pano ubwenzi umayamba.
Momwe Ubwenzi Amapangidwira
Kudziwa zonse pamwambapa, ndikosavuta kumvetsetsa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito paubwenzi kuchokera paubwenzi.
Muyenera kupanga kangapo kuposa zomwe inu. Nthawi zoterewu, munthu amamvetsetsa - ndinu okonzeka kudzipereka kwa iye yekha zomwe akufuna. Ndi nsembe ya zofuna zake kwa wina ndiubwenzi (ngati uyu si wachibale, kodi).
Mwachitsanzo, mutha kuthandiza mnzanuyo kusuntha ndipo osavomereza kuyamikiridwa mu mawonekedwe a mankhwala odyera. Amati, chabwino, sitife alendo kwa anthu amtundu wina.
Kapenanso simungamvere bwenzi m'mavuto ake, komanso "kuwongola" posankha zochita.
Izi ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zazikulu zakusintha kwaubwenzi muubwenzi - munthu amagawana nkhawa zanu ngakhale sizikuyembekezera.
Kachiwiri. Ubwenzi ndiye mtundu wapamwamba kwambiri wa chidaliro, timakhulupirira kuti mnzathu adzatichitira zinthu zofuna zathu, ngakhale angavutike.
Ngati mukuwonetsa kuti zonse zili monga choncho, ndiye kuti chibwenzi chimakhalako.
Ngakhale zitangochitika, zimatsimikizika - kupangira munthu kuposa momwe zingafunikire kangapo. Ngati zoyesera zitatu kapena zinayi sizimapereka chilichonse kapena ngati munthu ayamba kukhala pakhosi, zikutanthauza kuti simuyenera kuchita zomwe mwachita. Sanathe.
Komanso, ndikuwona kuti "pangani" kuti musamveke kokhako kwa mzimu uwu. Kumvetsera apa, ndi kutenga nawo mbali kwa nthawi.
Chifukwa chake, ubwenzi umawonekera komwe anthu amasiya kuwerengera kufanana kwa zoperekazo. Ngati mukufuna kufulumira paubwenzi, mukani (mwina mwa kuyesa) kuchokera ku kuwerengetsa kwake ndikupanga kangapo kuposa inu. Mwambiri, mupita kuubwenzi ndi ubwenzi.
Ndipo ndili ndi chilichonse, zikomo chifukwa cha chidwi chanu.