Zomwe tidakhala muubwana ndi komwe maloto amatsogolera. Nkhani zenizeni za owerenga athu

Kodi anthu amalota chiyani kwa ubwana, osangopita kwa azungu kwenikweni kwa azungu? Kodi maloto amakwaniritsidwa, ndipo ngati akwaniritsidwa, kodi timatipatsa chisangalalo? Timakayikira owerenga athu za Kingwergarten wawo komanso ngati anali atakhazikitsidwa pamoyo.

Ndili mwana, ndinkafuna TV yaying'ono yopanda zingwe, komwe kuli mafilimu onse padziko lapansi, omwe amatha kuyang'ana pansi pa bulangeti usiku, kuti makolo asaone ... Tsopano ndili ndi iPhone.

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Nkhani yomwe ndimakonda. Zaka 12 kufunsa kuti ndikhale liti ndikamakula, ndinayankha kuti ndikufuna "kungokhala pansanja ndikulemba ndakatulo." Chabwino. Zaka 15 pambuyo pake ndidagwira ntchito yotsatsa ya "nyali" la nyambo "- ndipo adalemba zotsatsa, kuphatikiza m'mavesi.

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Nthawi zonse ndimakhala wojambula. Mamina bwenzi akumbukira kuti ine ndine anayi mwa funso "Anya, ndani mukufuna kukhala?" Yaya "Khovovnita!" Inde, zidayamba kugwira ntchito molimbika. Ndipo ngakhale ndikulakalaka ndikukhala m'mudzimo, kuti ndiyambitse zolengedwa zanu komanso mwachindunji ndi nthawi yayitali yozizira kwambiri pakuwala kwa Luchin. Ndimakhalabe mumzinda, koma maloto a ana sanasiye. Tsopano ndikulota kuti mwana wawo wamkazi akakula ndikupita ku koleji, ndidzagula nyumba yanga ku Gluffy ndipo ndidzakhala komweko. Zowona m'malo mwa zolengedwa ndi dona yemwe tsopano ndimafunikira Wi-Fi.

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Ndimalakalaka kukhala ofiira! Ndipo panali machewa achi Russia, okhala ndi tsitsi lowongoka lamadzi. Amangofuna kukhala wofiyira komanso wopindika, ataona zithunzi ndi malingaliro a Larry Elmor ku Donalance Crogotal (mlongo ndi amayi amawerenga Sagu). Ndipo modzidzimutsa, nthawi yakutha msinkhu, ndinali nditakula kwambiri chifukwa chongowona pazithunzi zomwe zili pazithunzi.

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Ndinkafuna kukhala ndekha (ndimakhala ndi moyo). Ndinkafuna kukhala wina ngati gulu la gulu la mtsogoleri kapena mphunzitsi (Phunzitsani, ndipo zingakhale bwino kukhala gulu la mtsogoleri!). Sindinalotane kwenikweni za anyamatawa, koma ndimaganiza ngati ndapezeka - ndipo ndimangodziwa tsitsi ndi tsitsi lokhalo (O, sindimadziwa zinthu zambiri zokhudzana ndi zeniise!). Wolota kupanga zojambula. Pakangochitika kumeneku kungoyambitsidwa ntchitoyo kuti ipange makanema ojambula pamasewera.

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Ndinkafuna kukhala dokotala ndipo sanatero. Ndikukhutira ndi ntchito yanga yapano, ndipo, koma nthawi iliyonse ndikaona anthu ali zovala zoyera, ndikumva kuti ndikumva kuti sindingathe kufotokoza.

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Ubwana wodziwa zonse unachita zinthu zaluso. Analemba mabuku ojambula, zojambulajambula, zidole zosokera. Ndipo sanakhale wojambula waluso, chifukwa mumzinda wathu kunalibe yunivesite ndi mbiri yotere, ndipo mu sukuluyo amakayikira sukulu yoipa. Koma zidathekabe kuti zitsamba zojambula zake. Ndikukumbukira momwe buku loyambirira lachilendo lidabwera chifukwa cha Makalata a Seputembara 11. Ndili ndi chisangalalo, ndipo ndi izi.

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Ndinkafuna kukhala wosamalira ubwana wanga chifukwa ndimaganiza kuti mizinda yakale yomwe imakhazikika ndi anthu omwe amayamba kugwaditsidwa chifukwa anthu amawazindikira. Kungodzipulumutsa. Kenako, nditazindikira kuti malirowo pansi pa chipinda chosanjikiza sichikundiwopseza pano, ndinasankha kukhala wofukula, kenako ndinasankha wojambula wamkulu komanso wotchuka. Ndi mafuta, tsopano ndikulimbana, zimakhalabe kukhala ndi otchuka komanso osathandiza kwambiri.

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Makamera a digito atawoneka, ndinachita chidwi, izi ndizomwe ndimafuna nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndikuwoneka nthawi yomweyo.

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Ankakhala m'tawuni yaying'ono, kokha kumene pa Meyi 9, adapanga kupereka moni kwa malamulo angapo. Amalota kukapereka moni ndikuwona wopatsa moni. Tsopano mawindo ali m'njira yoti ma volits onse azomera kuchokera ku peprovlovka ndi malo otsika kwambiri (mgodi wotsika kwambiri !!! Mutha kukhala pawindo ndikusilira chitonthozo. Ndinaona. Kukhuta.

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Zaka za maloto a ana: "Pita mwa malo ogulitsira mabuku, sankhani mabuku okongola kwambiri, ndiye zosangalatsa kwambiri, zinthu zoyambirira zokha ngati - ndi kuti ndalama zonse sizinathe." Zachitika kuti mphatso za Chaka Chatsopano zikasonkhanitsidwa - malaibulale amasiye. Kukongola kotereku, kumatsenga kwathunthu.

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Ndinkafuna kukula msanga, ndikukhala ndekha, pangani zisankho ndi kuyankhana ndi kudziyankha, ndipo zinakhala zozizira, monga momwe ndidalembedwera mu ubwana wanga. Mphaka - cheke, banja lomwe limayenda bwino zamaphunziro, musalumbire ndikulemekezana - cheke. Koma wa mu chombowo sanasinthe

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Analakalaka atakhala chaka champhamvu mu 5-7. Pang'ono zichitike kuyambira pa 14 mpaka 21 mu zinthu zamakumi amatawuni.

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Ndinali ndi maloto azosangalatsa ali ndiubwana. Ndinkakonda kuyang'ana mawindo pomwe amapita kwina. Ndinkafuna kuona momwe anthu amakhala. (Ndi chifukwa chake_ ndani amene akundidziwa?) Ndinafuna kudandaula. Mukumvetsa omwe woyamba adavomera kuti pa ntchitoyo adalandiridwa kuti akagwire ntchito yowerengera!

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Ndinaganiza za ubwana wanga kuti mayi wogulitsayo ali ndi dipatimenti yonse ngati kuti ndi wawo ndipo angawadye ndalama zingati, motero ndimalota kugwira ntchito ngati wogulitsa. Wogulitsayo sanachite zoona, koma ndi maswiti adakwaniritsidwa, ndipo tsopano pano ndi kwa maswiti, ndipo ambiri, maswiti ozizira.

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M'zaka 2, ndabwezera kuti ndikhale woyendetsa tram - zikwaniritsidwa, ndipo monga! Nthawi yomweyo, loto linawonekera pa kamera yakeyake - ndipo zidakwaniritsidwa, koma osati pomwepo.

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Wosayendayenda pa zidole adamgula Iye mu zaka 43, antique. Ndiye zina ziwiri.

Analota kuyenda, komwe anayendera kumayiko 86, osapezekanso mwayi uliwonse, ndili ndi agalu awiri okalamba, sadana ndi kupatukana kwakutali. Ndiye.

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Lolo lopanda chovuta kwambiri kwa mtsikana wokhala ndi tsitsi lofiirira linali kuti likhale utali wa chipale chofewa. Ndimasirira kwambiri "kukongola" koteroko, koma matima omwe ali mu matalala a chipale chofewa atavala ma blondes apamwamba. Kukwaniritsidwa kwa Boca mosayembekezereka atatsegulira nthawi ya "Detamorozov" Mwamuna wanga wakale ndi wochita sewero. Pa chaka chachitatu anaganiza zokhala ndi ine, ndipo utoto uja sunasokoneze. Wow, adakhazikitsa zaka zambiri patsogolo.

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Ndinkalota kukhala wofufuza kuti ndiziyenda bwino, ndipo mwamuna wankhondo kuti adikire kuti abwerere. Zotsatira zake, ndinaphunzira ku yunivesite yokhala ndi mawonekedwe (mwamtendere kwambiri mwamtendere, ndipo mawonekedwewo anali osavomerezeka), ndipo mwamunayo samachoka paulendo wamabizinesi.

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Komabe, inenso ndimasangalala kuti maloto a ana anga sanakwaniritse. Chifukwa ndimalakalaka ndikumwalira - ndipo ndili ndi moyo mpaka pano ndipo ndikufuna kukhala ndi moyo wochuluka kwambiri, ndimakonda kwambiri.

Nkhani Zosungidwa Lilith Mazikina

Mafanizo: Shuttlando