Tikupitilizabe kukudziwani ndi munthu wa katswiri wazamisala, ukwati ndi banja. Nthawi ino ikuve zygmantich amalankhula za zomwe abambo anena m'mazungulira awo onena za akazi ofooka.
Kodi mkazi ayenera kufooka? Inde sichoncho. Mkazi wofooka ndiye chinthu chovuta kwambiri chomwe chingachitike kwa bambo.
Tsopano mutu wotanganidwa umathandizidwa ndiulendo woyambira (chifukwa chake, chidwi chimakopeka), ndizotheka kuchepetsa kupenyerera komanso kuyankhula modekha.
Tiyeni tichitike.
Mondizungulira mopitilira muyeso ndikunena kuti mkazi ndi wolondola (inde, inde,) kukhala wofooka. Kupatula apo, izi zimakonda kwambiri munthu, motero amakhala ndi mwayi wokulirapo kwambiri kuti apeze mwamuna. Inde, osati ababy, koma abwino.
Koma ine, malingaliro awa ndi olakwika pang'ono (ndidayika mosamala). Choyamba, mfundo yoti palibe tanthauzo lomveka bwino lofooka mmenemo. Inde, symmetrically palibe tanthauzo lomveka bwino lamphamvu. Ndipo ndikofunikira. Kuyambira pano ndikuyamba.
Ndikuganiza kuti ndiwerenge njira iyi - munthu wamphamvu, uyu ndi munthu amene angathetse mafunso omwe akubwera m'moyo wake. Ndikofunikira kwa iye - imapita ku HSP ndikugwirizana ndi osadulira; Ziyenera kukhala - zopindulitsa pagalimoto; Ndikofunikira - mudzapeza kuposa Loweruka madzulo; Ziyenera kukhala - akuti "Ayi". Ndipo ngati sizikugwira ntchito kuyambira nthawi yoyamba - kuwonekera.
Wofowoka - m'malo mwake. Ndikofunikira kupita ku HSP, koma "ndikuwopa iwo." Tikufuna galimoto (bwino, chabwino - ndikufuna), koma "ndi okwera mtengo." Ndikofunikira kumwa, koma "Sindikudziwa choti ndichite." Ndikofunikira kukana, koma - "Yolephera". Ndi zotero, mu mzere womwewo.
Mwachidziwikire, munthu wamphamvu ndi munthu, woyamba, wodziyimira pawokha. Ndipo munthu wofooka ndi munthu yemwe sakhala wodziyimira pawokha, womwe wopanda thandizo kwa winawake - kugwa.
Ndiye kuti, ngati mkazi waperekedwa kuti akhale wofooka, akunenedwa kuti ndi wolumala, wosakhazikika ndipo amangodalira munthu. Malingaliro anga, ndizowopsa makamaka kwa mkazi yemwe.
Mwachitsanzo, ankamvetsera malangizowo. Inakhala Nohasson. Ndinakumana ndi bambo ndipo ngakhale anakwatirana naye. Kenako, tsoka, sindinagwiritse ntchito - kusudzulidwa. Chabwino? Azipita kuti? Kodi chidzachitike ndi chiyani? Kodi zidzakhala bwanji? Munthu wachikulire ali ndi wamkulu kuti amupatse okhawokha, zilibe kanthu - munthu kapena mkazi.
Ndipo ofooka kuti adzipereke yekha. Ikhoza kungogogoda dzanja m'njira imodzi kapena njira ina. Ndi wamphamvu pambuyo pa kanthawi kumayamba kudziwitsa.
Ndimayang'anira ntchito zambiri za amuna, ndipo tikuthokozedwa pa y-chromosome ndimandiuza zinthu zambiri. Amasilira moona mtima - m'kuphunzitsidwa kwathu kwa akazi sakuchitika, mutha kuyankhula zonunkhira.
Chifukwa chake - amuna omwe amakumana, amakhala ndi moyo kapena tsopano amakhala ndi amayi ofooka, sasangalala ndi azimayi awa.
Chilichonse ndi chosavuta - bambo pafupi ndi mkazi wotero amakhala moyo umodzi ndi theka. Ake - ndi iye. Mwachitsanzo, zimayamba kukonza osati galimoto yanu yokha, komanso iyo. Pali satifiketi kwa mkulu osati ine ndekha, komanso chifukwa cha izo.
Ndipo zonse zikhala bwino, zikadakhala nthawi ndi nthawi, - pamapeto pake, kuti mukhalenso aukwati kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake, kuphatikizapo zovuta zotere. Koma chifukwa zomwe zimafotokozedwa sizikupezeka nthawi ndi nthawi, koma nthawi zonse!
Zotsatira zake, bambo amasankha kapena kuthetsa mavuto otsatira a mkazi kapena, mwachitsanzo, ntchito. Zikuwonekeratu kuti ambiri amasankha yankho la mafunso olakwika a mayi wofooka (yesani kuti asasankhe - adzakupangani inu kuti mukhale ndi ubongo kuti uzikalamba).
Ndipo zili ngati. Ziribe kanthu momwe mungathandizire mkazi wanu, ayi. Munthu ndi munthu - amathetsa mavuto onse. Funso ndi loti chifukwa cha ichi munthu amalipira ndalama zake.
Mpaka mulingo winawake, mtengo uwu ndi woyenera - banja lililonse limafunikira kukana ufulu ndi moyo wake. Chifukwa chake, silimadzuka pamavuto ena. Koma apa ndipamwamba kuposa gawo ili ...
Komabe, zokwanira. Ndili kwa nthawi yachitatu ndikadzabwereza lingaliro loti thandizo loipalo ndi choncho, koma mfundo yoti mayiyo akukana kudzilamulira. Onse omwe adawona woyamba kawiri, onse adamvetsetsa zonse. Ena onse ... azindikira pa netiweki ndipo adzandigonjetsera kuti ndikumbezeni, ndikupanga kutsatsa kwa mphatso.
Chifukwa chake - za akazi ofooka. Mwamuna, makamaka, amafunikira mayi wamphamvu yemwe angakhale pafupi panthawi yovuta.
Nayi zochitika zosavuta za banja - munthu adadwala. Osati fuluwenza pamenepo, kapena kuzizira. Ndipo adadwala kwambiri, theka la chaka. Kodi mkazi wofooka azitsogozedwa bwanji ndi iye, yemwe iye yekha akhoza kukhala pa VKontakte? Ndendende ...
Ndipo mphamvu zidzawathandiza, kuthandizidwa ndipo mwamunayo adzakhalanso pamapazi ake.
Ndiye chifukwa chake amuna amakonda akazi olimbikitsa. Nawo, mphamvu za anthu zichulukana, mutha kuchita nawo zambiri. Mapeto ake, ali nawo pali china cholankhula - izi mwa lokha.
Ndazindikira kwa zaka zingapo - amuna omwe ali ndi zaka "makumi atatu" sakonda kwambiri ophunzira achichepere. Chifukwa chake amuna amakonda akazi a msinkhu wawo. Zinali zofunikira kwambiri - ndi ntchito, kuyang'ana padziko lonse lapansi, malingaliro abwino komanso luso labwino.
Ndichoncho chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi alongo achilengedwe. Ndipo maubale muukwati, monga momwe ndinalemba mobwerezabwereza, uwu ndiye ubale wa ochita zinthu.
Ndipo mwa awiriwa "munthu wamphamvu - mkazi wofooka" wopanda mgwirizano. Pali ubale wokha "Wopereka - wolandira" (monga awiri "mkazi wamphamvu ndi munthu wofowoka"). Maubwenzi oterowo ndi opindulitsa a dzanja limodzi, ndipo ngakhale kuti - osati lalitali. Nawa amunawa ndipo safuna kukhala ndi nthawi paubwenzi wotere.
Wina adzafuna kukangana, akuti, Amuna amawopa akazi olimba. Izi sizowona. Amuna sakonda akazi amphamvu (makamaka ngati akazi sakonda amuna amphamvu).
Pongoyerekeza za tsiku ndi tsiku za "wamphamvu" wamphamvu ndi "zofowoka" komanso "ofooka" ndi "kudzichepetsa") Kuphatikizidwa mwamphamvu ndipo si onse omwe amawasiyanitsa. Ndipo ndizothandiza kusiyanitsa.