Adriana adatiuza za zomwe kusakhala ndi mtsikana wa atsikana kungayambitse zomwe zingayambitse mtsikana. Kapenanso kunena - wachiwiri m'banjamo, munthu wokwanira komanso wachikondi. Nthawi yomweyo adanenanso zovuta izi ngati mwakula kale popanda abambo kapena bambo wotere, zomwe zingakhale bwino popanda.
Ziwerengero zoyambirira
Ndizodziwika bwino chifukwa chakuti ku Russia chachitatu cha mabanja amaimiridwa ndi kholo losungulumwa ndi mwana. Opitilira 80% ya makolo otere ndi amayi. Ndiye kuti, kwinakwake kwa ana akukula konse popanda abambo. Katatu wina wachitatu amene akuwoneka kuti amadya, samangomuwona kawirikawiri komanso amalankhulana naye mphindi khumi patsiku. Ambiri mwa abambo (oposa 65%) - wokhala ndi chidwi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti alibe chidwi ndi mwana.Ndiye kuti, atsikana ndi anyamata ambiri monga munthu wa abambo ali ndi vuto. Ndipo amayi ambiri amati ndi ofunika: "Chifukwa chiyani akufunika konse? Chozizwitsa ndi popanda Iwo! "
Mukufuniranji bambo?
Chifukwa chiyani zimafunikira - funso labwino komanso lofunika. Inde, mwana safunikira munthu wachiwiri, yemwe alibe munthu. Mofananamo, palibenso chifukwa choti mwana alere mayi wina wachiwiri: ngati mwana atangobadwa kwa mwana atabadwa kwa wachikondi, koma osati banja lachikondi, sipadzakhala tsoka. Munthu wa abambo angasinthidwe ndi wachiwiri wachiwiri wachiwiri - agogo a agogo, agogo, omwe amafera kapena wina wa amayi a Amayi.
Ndiwo wamkulu wachiwiri amene ndi wofunikira kwambiri kwa mwana!
Ndipo zonse zikadakhala zosavuta komanso zabwinoko ngati pali bambo wabwino, wokwanira, wokonda abambo pamtundu wachiwiriyu. Zomwe nthawi zambiri sizikhala nazo.
Kodi chimachitika ndi chiani kwa mtsikana amene sakuona pafupi ndi mayi wa munthu wachiwiri wachikondi, wotetezeka? Kapena ngati munthu uyu alibe chidwi naye? Chilichonse ndi chophweka kwambiri: zimasokoneza. Kuyankhula ndi Russian: Kuzolowera. Kapangidwe mbanjali kumakhala kofunika komanso kumveka bwino. Ngakhale mayi wa msungwanayu amayang'anira banja lake loipa ndikuwafotokozera, "Inde," Ndiye mbuzi! Inde, "inde , Ndikakwatirana ndi munthu wabwinobwino "ndi otero, kuphatikiza mtsikana, mwana amazolowera mtundu uwu.
Kenako amatha kuthawa (chifukwa ndizowopsa kwambiri kukhala mumsampha wotere), kapena kuti mumange mosasintha. Chodabwitsachi nthawi zambiri chimati chimapangitsa kuti akuluakulu, olemba pawokha pafupi ndi bambo pafupi ndi mawu otsutsana kwambiri: "Ndimangolimbana, modekha, odekha, osamala, amangofuna kuchita zolakwika,
Zomwe zimamera
Nthawi zambiri, makasitomala amafunsidwa "kukwatiwa" amalumikizidwa ndi zinthu ziwiri: kukwatiwa ndi mwana, kubereka mwana, kuti asakhale yekha. Ndipo akuopa kwambiri (akundiimitsa mandindire, kodi ndisintha, ndikhala ndekha ndi mwana, uyenera kulima kunyumba ndi kuntchito). Ndikosavuta kupita ndi kasitomala wowonjezereka komanso kaganizidwe kake kamene kamalingalira, chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira bwenzi lililonse, ngati tikulankhula za mwana.
Nthawi zambiri, chifukwa cha izi, munthu wosankhidwa amakhala kuti:
– osayanjana (Mtsikanayo ayankha kuti ndi "Kubwera Ndi Maluwa" kuposa kuti munthu adziwike motsimikiza pankhani yomwe amayesera kubera nkhumba)
– Osadandaula ana (Akuti "Zingakhale zabwino kuti ana adawonekera ... Ndabwera kunyumba:" Ndipo mtsikanayo ali wokondwa. Pambuyo pake, amaphunzira kuti mwamunayo ndi wokonzeka kutenga kuchokera kwa ana, ndipo - Nthawi zambiri - zosankha zake zonse zikugwira nawo nthawi)
– zosatheka kusiyanitsa zosowa zawo pazosowa za banjali (Mwachitsanzo, pa tsiku lachitatu, akulamula chilichonse kuti chizilamuke, osafunsa msungwana, kenako amachititsa bajeti, kugula nyumba panyanja, osalabadira kuti msungwana wake amadana ndi ork ndi chilichonse Ndi Iye wolumikizana, chifukwa - "Zabwino Kwambiri")
– osachita chidwi ndi nthawi yake ndi zinthu zake (Ndachedwa kwa theka la ola, sindikupepesa, kenako ndikulonjeza kuti ndidzabwera molawirira kudzatenga Mwana kuchokera ku Kingdergarten, koma nthawi iliyonse satenga foni yake kuti iyimbe, osafunsa, kenako ndikuyika galimoto yake ku Lombard kuti muyambe bizinesi yanu)
Ndipo nkovuta kuti atsikana azindikire momwe kudzikondera ndi osaganizira chidwi, osachita chidwi, ndipo nthawi zina samakonda komanso nthawi zina osawoneka bwino komanso amanyansidwa ndi wokondedwa wawo - chifukwa ndi zomwe azolowera.
Mmodzi mwa makasitomala anga anali ndi chidwi chofuna kukhala mtsikana wabwino ndi mwamuna wake, kuti ndasowa kuti mwamuna wake - omwe amawasamalira yemwe amakhala pa ndalama zake, yemwe amakhala pa ndalama zake.
Tate wabwino (kapena agogo ochepera a agogo kapena amalume) amapatsa ana ake aakazi kumvetsetsa za banja, kukhala mosamala, chikondi ndi chitetezo. Atsikana onse omwe sanakhalepo ndi izi ndiofunika kwambiri kuti ayesere kugwira izi mu maubwenzi ena - kuntchito, muubwenzi, muubwenzi, muubwenzi, muubwenzi, pagulu lamasewera. Sungani - ngakhale zidutswa - chithunzi ichi. Pofuna kuti 'musatulutse zizolowezi za "- pamene amayi ndi agogo awo adakokedwa, ndipo ngati alowa chibwenzi - ndiye ndi omwe apangitsa kuti miyoyo yawo ikhale yabwinoko.