Zizindikiro 5 zomwe makolo amayambitsa malo anu

Makolo ambiri amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi ana awo okwanira, limodzi ndi miyoyo yawo. Ndipo nthawi zina kulimbana kwa ulamuliro wa dziko lapansi kumatambasulidwa. Momwe mungamvetsetse kuti makolo sakudandaula za inu, koma malire anu aphwanya - ndipo chifukwa chiyani si zinthu zazing'ono, koma malo owopsa?

Amabwera osayitana

Pamene mudalipo 14, makolowo atha kulowa m'chipinda chanu popanda kugogoda, chifukwa "O, zinsinsi zamtundu wa mtundu wanji zomwe zingakhale zobisika." Kapena "makamaka, ili ndi nyumba yathu." Tsopano muli ndi nyumba yanu, koma palibe chomwe chasintha - makolo amafunikira kuti awapatse kiyi ("ngati") ndikungobwera kwa inu kutsanulira maluwa, bweretsani momwe mukukhalira. Samayembekezera kuti timayitanidwa ndipo sizimachenjeza za kufika kwawo - ndi makolo! Inde, inde ndiwe mwana, wolandidwa ufulu wachinsinsi.

Chifukwa chiyani zimakhala zowopsa: Malingana ngati mulibe malo anu pansi pa dzuwa, mulibe mwayi wonga moyo wanu ndikukulitsa chisa chanu ndi munthu wina. Kupereka mwayi wopezeka m'gawo lake, mumadzitengera ufulu wokhala chinthu chachikulu kunyumba kwanu. Chilichonse chidzakhala choyipa kwambiri mukadya munthu wina - nthawi zonse padzakhala wina pakati panu, ndiye amayi anu. Nthawi zonse amabwera kuno, bwanji adaziletsa tsopano?

Muyenera kubisa zambiri kwa iwo

Zachidziwikire, makolo sikofunikira kudziwa kuti mumachita bwino kwambiri bolomists, mumagwira ntchito ngati wochita chinsinsi kapena nthawi ndi mkazi wodabwitsa. Aliyense akhoza kukhala ndi zinsinsi zawo. Zimatengera kusamala ngati zinsinsi zina kwambiri ndipo mumabisala amayi ndi abambo zazing'ono - tattoo yatsopano (iwo ndi omwe, ndipo sanatuluke m'badwo wandende ?!), Mtengo wa kavalidwe (aliyense sadzaphunzira kuthana ndi ndalama) ndi kusamvana ndi chibwenzi (ndipo mudakuchenjezani kuti sanali banja).

Chifukwa chiyani zimakhala zowopsa: Ngati mukuopabe zomwe amachita pazinthu zomwe sizikugwirizana nawo, zikutanthauza kuti, makolo amakulamuliranibe ngati wachinyamata, ndipo inu, kukakamizidwa ndikunama, choncho kuti usatengere ndi bulu wazaka 30. M'malo mwake, amakusankhanibe, zomwe ndizotheka, komanso zosatheka. Ndipo mwakonzeka kuti zitheke ngati zotsatira zake zingabisike. Ponena za zochitika pomwe ndizosatheka kukhutiritsa - mwachitsanzo, kusudzulana ndi mwamuna wake kapena kusamukira kudziko lina - simumasiyidwa, simukuganiza zomwe mukuganiza, koma osamvetsa chisoni Amayi.

Amasokoneza malingaliro anu

Mwakhala munthu wamkulu, muli ndi dipuloma yofiyira, ngongole yanyumba, kapena amphaka atatu (kapena amphaka atatu) ndi tsitsi la imvi, koma abambo ndi abambo amaganiza kuti zochita ndi moyo wanu. Njira yodziwika kwambiri ndiyofunikira kubala kwa adzukulu. Kapena zidzukulu zochulukirapo, ngati zilipo kale. Komanso kuchokera kwa mwamuna wina, chifukwa sakonda izi. Kapenanso kuchokera pamenepa, koma pokhapokha atakupangitsani kukhala mkazi wowona mtima ndikuyamba ku ofesi ya registry.

Mayi anga ndi abambo anga anali ndi mapulani akulu pa inu, koma china chake chalakwika ndipo simunatembenukire. Simunakhale loya, koma m'malo mwake, adapita ku Yoga. Mwamuna wanu sakhala mu kukoma kwa amayi anga. Ndipo inu ndinu kutali ndi Atate a Atate wa Atate.

Chifukwa chiyani zimakhala zowopsa: Zofunikira za makolo zidagunda mipando ndikusintha kukhala mwana wamkazi wamaloto awo sizovulaza. Amakhumudwitsani ndikukupatsirani ku banja, kuvulaza, kapena kugwetsa masensa ndi inu, musamvetsetsenso, mva kapena kukwatiwa ndi borm leshenka ndi apamwamba kwambiri .

Zoyeserera zimaperekedwa

Msonkhano uliwonse ndi banja ndi mayeso, ndipo nthawi zonse mumatsimikiza kuti sindinapirira, sanatambasule ndi kuthamangitsa kwambiri pa chasiti. Aliyense wazosankha zanu avomerezedwa kapena ayi. Makolo ali ndi lingaliro lolimba lokhudza kuti mumadula tsitsi lanu kapena ayi, komwe angapite kutchuthi mukasintha ntchitoyo ndi zoseweretsa zomwe mungafune kugula ana.

Lokonov amavomereza, ndipo Kare - ayi. Mwana wamkazi ayenera kuvala diresi. Crimea - inde, Cambodia - pachabe. Ndizachilendo kuti simukupempha Council, Inde si upangiri - Makolo akupitilizabe kuwunikanso zinthu zomwe sizingayang'anitsidwenso, ndipo zikadali ndi mwayi wabwino wotere, ngakhale anu Kubwerera ndizosatheka.

Chifukwa chiyani zimakhala zowopsa: Makolo sakhala okonzeka kulankhula nanu pamtunda wofanana, chifukwa palibe kuyesera, ndiye ufulu wa olamulira. Ndipo machesi amatipangitsa kuti tizilungamitsa ndikuyesera kukonza, koma nthawi yomweyo ndikudzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa chifukwa cha kusankha kwanu - ndiye kuti, pofuna kuganiza za mutu wanu. M'malo oterowo, ndizotheka kusankha kuti ndikhale kapolo ndipo sangathetse chilichonse, ndikupatsira iwo omwe ali amphamvu.

Muli pansi pa hood

"Amayi akuitana!" - Uwu ndi zilonda zoyipa, ndipo muyenera kusiya zonse ndipo nthawi yomweyo yankho. Makolo amaganiza kuti mukukhala m'malo otentha obisika pansi pa bomba la capet ndipo foni yosayankhidwa ikhoza kungotanthauza chinthu chimodzi - mudamwalira mu ngalande. Mukukhala pamsonkhano, mumagonana, musamve foni, sinthani ma diaper, kugona? Inde sichoncho. Izi zimatheka bwanji.

Ngati simuyankha nthawi yomweyo, mudikirira nkhaniyo yokhudza kuvomerezedwa ndi kulembera makalata ndi makalata. Kulikonse komwe muli, muyenera kunenera tsiku ndi tsiku pazomwe zili ndi thanzi, msuziyo unapita, chipewa chovala ndipo chinabwera kunyumba 9 pm. Nthawi zina makolo amakumbukira nkhaniyi, ndikumuyitana mwamuna wake ndipo mwakhumudwa.

Chifukwa chiyani zimakhala zowopsa: Ndi madzi oyera ku chipongwe, kusakanikirana kumverera kwa kulakwa, ndipo cholinga chake ndikukulepheretsani kupeza nthawi yanu ndikusanene.