M'dziko lathu, mwana aliyense aliyense wachisanu ndi chiwiri ali ndi vuto losakwanira, ndipo mu 94% ya milandu - ndi amayi, ndipo 6% amagwera m'mabanja komwe abambo ndi agogo ndi agogo ake amasamalira ana.
Mabanja osakwanira akuchulukirachulukira, monga nthano za momwe ana akukulira, olandidwa m'modzi mwa makolo. Yakwana nthawi yopewa zina mwanzeruzi.
Nthano 1. Ana a makolo olera okha ana sangathe kupanga mabanja awo
Kafukufuku yemwe anali ku University of Michigan adawonetsa kuti pafupifupi 43% ya akuluakulu, omwe adaleredwa m'mabanja athunthu, adakhutitsidwa kwathunthu ndi ukwati wawo kapena ubale wa nthawi yayitali. Ndipo ndi angati omwe makolo ana omwe makolo amakhala nawo anganene zomwezo? Zodabwitsazi zodabwitsa, 43%. Dziwani koyamba, momwe ziyenera, kudziwa kwachiwiri, monga sizofunikira, koma zotsatirapo zotheka nzofanana.
Nthano 2. Makolo a ana amasungunuka kwambiri
Zikuwoneka kuti ndizomveka - kuzisamalirani kuti palibenso, chifukwa kholo lokhalo limakhala lotanganidwa kwambiri ndi mkate wokakamira, apa awonongedwa kuchokera kumanda a eyiti. M'malo mwake, ku Russia, sizinthu kusiyana pakati pa zaka zogona ana kuchokera m'mabanja athunthu komanso osakwanira - pafupifupi zaka 17 kwa anyamata ndi zaka 18 atsikana.
Nthano 3. Ana kuyambira mabanja osakwanira samaphunzira zoyipa
Phunziro lalikulu kwambiri lomwe lachitika ku Asiana m'mayiko a Asia linawonetsa kuti pazifukwa zina ku Japan, ana a makolo olera okha anaphunzira kwambiri. M'mayiko onse otsala a ku Asia palibe kusiyana komweko, ndipo ku Indonesia ndi Thailand, ana kuyambira m'mabanja osakwanira amalandilanso majini abwino kwambiri kuposa anzawo.
Nthano 4. Kwa mwana, osachepera banja lake ndi labwino motani kuposa losakwanira
Mavuto mwa ana omwe makolo ake adasudzulana, osati makolo akalandira satifiketi yanthawi yothetsa, koma kale. Kale. Ofufuza aku America adalankhulira mabanja ndi ana azaka za zaka 12. Inde, sanadziwe, makolo amagawidwa mtsogolo kapena ayi. Koma m'mabanja omwe banja litatha zonse zomwe zidachitika, mavuto a ana nthawi zina amayamba zaka 12 mpaka ola limodzi! Ndiye kuti, makolowo amakhalabe limodzi, ndipo anawo anali osasangalala kale. Kukhalapo kwa makolo athunthu sikuli kofunikira kwambiri monga mkhalidwe wabwino m'nyumba.
Nthano 5. Zimakhudza makolo ndi ana okha
Phunziro lomwe limasanthula kupambana ndi zochita za ana ochokera m'mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya mabanja awonetsa njira yosangalatsa. Ofufuzawo adawona kuti ana athu ndi mabanja athunthu, mabanja omwe ana adaleredwa ndi agogo, ndi otero - pafupifupi mitundu 10 yokha. Amawoneka ngati zovuta zamakhalidwe - kusuta, kumwa mowa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso kuthekera kwachinyamata - komanso kuthetseratu.
Ndipo zidapezeka kuti ana ochokera kumabanja omwewo anali ana onse - ana opambana, omwe anali okhazikika omwe anali okhazikika omwe amabwera m'mabanja, kuphatikiza mibadwo inanso ina. M'dera lachiwiri - ana ochokera ku mabanja athunthu, ndipo wachitatu - ana a makolo osudzulidwa omwe amakhala ndi amayi (kapena abambo) ndi agogo. Chifukwa chake ubale pakati pa mibadwo sikofunika kwenikweni kuposa ubale womwe makolo.
