Zodabwitsa, koma chowonadi: Omwe akhala ali pachibwenzi nawonso amagonana! Osati zochuluka, momwe, momwe kumayambiriro kwa bukuli, koma ndibwinoko ... kapena ayi? .. ife tidafunsa anthu omwe ali limodzi, ndizowona kuti kusankha kolumikizana ndi zokongoletsera zonse pa Muzu?
Tsopano ndi ntchito
M'malo mwake, ichi ndi kumverera kwachilendo - kufuna munthu yemwe mumamuwona tsiku lililonse si mayiko owoneka kwambiri. Ndiye kuti, kuchuluka kwake kumatsitsidwa, koma khalidweli lakhala bwino. Choyamba, pamapeto pake tinali tokha ndipo sitinade nkhawa za zomwe mnzake angabwere, Amayi kapena wina akhoza kupumula kwathunthu.Kuphatikiza apo, ndi bwino kuti mutha kugonana nthawi iliyonse mukafika pafupi ndi bulangeti imodzi. Kuzindikira zokhumba zanu, kuya. Ndipo tinayamba kuyesa kwambiri komanso ndizosavuta.
Komabe, nthawi yovuta tsopano ikufanizidwa bwino - palibe kugonana chabe. "Eya, kugonana kotsogozedwa ndi" komwe kwawonekera, monga tsiku la Valentine - ngati simunachite izi, ndiye kuti mutha kuyika mtanda paubwenzi wanu. Kugonana kokongola kwa Mediocro, ndiyenera kunena.
Ubale waulere ndi bulu
Tinachita njira ina mozungulira: Anayamba kucheza limodzi chiyanjano chathu chitayamba. Ndinaganiza kuti ndimamuzungulira ku Sofa mchipinda chochezera ngati mnansi, mpaka nditapeza nyumba, koma ndimakonda kuponyedwa, motero ndinasuntha nthawi yomweyo kuchipinda chake. Tinali aang'ono kwambiri, takhala mitu yawo, koma pamene misoni yoyamba idadutsa, zonse zidakhala zosalala komanso zachikondi kwambiri.
Pambuyo pa zaka 2,5, zonse zidasintha: Mwamuna ndi mawu, chifukwa sitinathe kukhala limodzi monga momwe tikufunira chifukwa cha misala osati nthawi zonse za moyo. Kugonana kunasinthidwa kukhala chizolowezi chotopetsa. Koma tidapulumuka ndipo tsopano timagona limodzi chifukwa tonsefe timangofuna, osati chifukwa chakuti mumafunikira kwambiri ndipo timakhala limodzi.
Chinsinsi chathu ndi ubale waulere. Zachidziwikire, sizinali zophweka kuzolowera mtundu wotere - makamaka chibwenzi changa, amakhala wachikondi kwambiri, koma ziribe kanthu kuti zidathandiza bwanji. Tayandikira pafupi, kuchoka kwa wina ndi mnzake momwe tingathere.
Tikukhala mu zosangalatsa zanu
Tinasonkhana nthawi yomweyo, ndipo zinali bwino: tinali ndi zogonana kwambiri monga tikufunira. Nkhani zonse za kukondana, mukamagonana 7 pa tsiku, kenako usiku, - za ife. Ayi, sichoncho, osati zotere, koma panali zogonana zambiri.
Sitili limodzi nthawi zambiri - ntchito ikusonyeza kulumikizidwa kwambiri - kotero tikamagwirizana munthawi ndi malo, nthawi zonse zimakhala zadera kwa ife. Sindikudziwa kuti chingadziwe chiyani, ngati sitinakhale ndi moyo limodzi, mwina titha kusokoneza msanga, motero zimapereka lingaliro lina ku ubale wathu.
Zachidziwikire, tinali ndi mavuto, komabe, pa zogonana sizinakhudze pogonana: Ndine mphunzitsi wa yoga, ndipo chibwenzi changa ndi chanzeru mu anyamata ozungulira, kugonana kwathu sikungakhale koyipa!
Nthawi yathu yomaliza inali yabwino kwambiri
Sitinakonzekere kupita molunjika, koma okhulupirira nyumba yanga adandiyika mumsewu wopanda chenjezo, choncho nthawi yomweyo ndinamusamukira kwa iye. Tinkakhala pamodzi kwa chaka chimodzi ndipo tsiku lililonse zimakopedwa ndi mzake. Tinkadikirira mpaka kusintha kwinakwake, koma sanachite chilichonse pa izi.
Kugonana kunakwatirana mokwanira mpaka kunalibe aliyense. Komanso, ndinayamba kulumikizana zibwenzi zogonana chifukwa cha nkhani zakuti: "Ndakwiya, choncho osagonana!". Tsopano ndikumvetsetsa kuti izi ndizonyansa.
Mfundo yomaliza inali kuti adatikokera kwa masiku angapo ku Amsterdam "koma palibe chomwe chidachitika, ndipo ndidangokwiya kuti ndidabwera naye, ndipo sindinayike Ndi zabwino kwambiri ndili ndi anthu.
Modabwitsa, koma titangogwa ndipo titasankha gawo (ndinasamukira ku Sofa m'chipinda chochezera), kugonana kunali koyenda bwino. Ndipo nthawi yotsiriza inali kuphulika kwa onse: adandiitanira kuti ndiwone nyumba yatsopanoyo, ndipo panali kalirole. Chifukwa chake adandikakamiza kugonana naye, ndipo iye adayang'ana pagalasi. Kunali kotentha kwambiri! Ndinanong'oneza bondo pang'ono kuti tinalekana. Koma zochepa kwambiri.
Tsopano tathawa
Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi oyandikana nawo nyumba, tsopano, tikakhala limodzi ndi ife nthawi yayitali yopanga malo opanga: Monga ozizira kwambiri kuti mutha kugonana osati kuchipinda (komwe wina angalowe), koma Chimbudzi, kukhitchini, pansi pa corridor komanso nthawi kulikonse.
Timayenda mosiyana, chifukwa chake tikakumana m'nyumba yathu, kumverera kwa kuyandikira kumakulitsidwa nthawi zambiri, chifukwa ndi nthawi yapadera komanso malo awiriwa.
Gwira apa, Lysni pamenepo ndi bizinesi mu chipewa
Tinakumana zaka 5. Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yoyambirira patali, chifukwa adakhala m'maiko osiyanasiyana, kenako adandisamukira. Ndikuganiza kuti maubwenzi onse amayamba ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha kugonana, chomwe chimachepetsedwa kutengera ngati mukukhala limodzi kapena ayi. Awa anali ubale wanga woyamba ndi mtsikanayo ndipo zinali zosangalatsa kuwona momwe nthawi yathu yakhazikitsidwira: sabata yonse modekha, kenako - makanda! - Loweruka m'mawa! Nthawi Yogonana!
Kugonana nthawi zonse kumakhala bwino, koma patapita nthawi, adasinthira kukhala woyenera kuchita nawo. Mtundu womwe ndikukuchitirani tsopano, mwakhala pano, ndipo timatha. Koma tinapeza njira zosinthira kuti tichite zachibadwire, zomwe zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri.
Chinthu chachikulu - muyenera kuyandikira njirayo ndipo osatenga mnzake ngati china chake.
Tidagawana, koma pamapeto pake chifukwa chakuti adasuntha, ndipo adasowa nthawi. Ndipo palibe kugonana pano.