Wojambula wa Gabriepar Gibriela kwa zaka zisanu zapitazi, zojambula za anthu omwe makolo awo, onse kapena okha, ali a LBTK, ndikuyika miyambo yawo. "Mayi anga ndi a Lesbian," akufotokoza. "Koma ndimafunikira nthawi yambiri kuti ndinene mokweza." Kwa Erman, njira zopangira mayi ake inali "nthawi yopweteka komanso yovuta komanso yovuta."
Sanali wodziwika ndi munthu wina aliyense wobweretsedwa ndi gay kapena lesbian. Iye anati: "Mutuwo unali pachibwenzi ngakhale tili m'banja lathu lachilendo komanso logwirizana," akutero. "Mankhandwe achichepere adakumana ndi malingaliro omwewo, koma tidapewa kukambirana momasuka." Pomaliza, Erman adalumikizana ndi Colage, gulu la ana a a Lesbian ndi gay, ndipo adapeza anthu kumeneko, omwe anali ofanana ndi chete: kusakanikirana kwa chete komanso kudziteteza ulemu wa makolo omwe ali m'malo osewerera. Zithunzi ndi zoyankhulana zopezeka mu Erman Erman "Ana awa" kuyesera kupha chete. Ana a makolo a "kusakumana koona" si ena "onyenga", ndi enieni, ndipo ndizabwinobwino.Chiyembekezo, adanyamuka ku New York mu banja la makolo awiri
Ndinatha kuona mabanja a anzanga ndi azamalume anga ndi amalume anga, ndipo ndimadziwa kuti anthu ali ndi china chake chotchedwa amayi, koma sindinkakhala ndi ine ochepa. Ndinkakonda banja langa, makamaka amayi anga, koma, ndikuganizira momwe ndidakulira, sindikuwona kuti ndavutika. Ndikuganiza kuti makolo anga anali ntchito yabwino, ndikukula mkazi wamphamvu kwa ine, komanso funso, komwe ndinachokera - nthawi ina ndimakhala ndi chidwi, ndipo nthawi ina ndiamakhala chovuta.
Allison, adakula mu connecticut ndikuwonetsa ndi amayi ndi mnzake
Nditangoona kuti kucheza ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumatheka pasukulu yanga yatsopano, ndimangodabwitsa, kuti ndiwa ana azaka zanga: kuti adziwe kuti amathandizira LGBT. Sindinali yekhayo amene amadziwa A Lesbian ndi gay, ndipo sanalinso chinsinsi, chomwe chimayenera kusungidwa.
Kerry, wobweretsedwa ku New Jersey Papa ndi Amayi, omwe adazindikira kuti mwana wamkazi anali ndi zaka 11
Ndikukumbukira zokambirana ndi amayi anga pomwe adati, monga momwe ndikufunapangira banja ndi mkazi wina. Ndili ndi mwayi kwambiri, ndimafuna kukwatiwa ndi bwenzi labwino kwambiri, motero ndinanena kuti: "Ha, tili bwanji ndi Sara?" Ndipo iye: "Ayi, osafanana ndi iwe ndi Sara."
Zack, adakwera ku New York moyang'aniridwa ndi amayi awiri
M'banja mwanga, onse akulandira. Ndinali ndi mavuto ocheperako ndi kuti amayi ali awiri kuposa momwe angadzipeze ndipo, mukudziwa, ndi fuko.
Kumanzere: Paloma, wokulidwa ku Newton, Massachusetts, mwa banja la abambo ndi amayi ake omwe adazindikira kuti Paloma anali 13
Kumanja: Aaron, ku Berkeley, California, adakulira ndi mayi awiri, ndipo, atasudzulana, nawonso ndi khosi
Aaron: Amayi anga anathawa pamene ine ndinali kwinakwake, chifukwa mayi anga achilengedwe anakonda mwamuna. Ndinkadziwa banja langa ndi losiyana ndi ena, koma sichinali choyipa, linali banja lapadera chabe.
Zach, anakulira ku Iowa mwa amayi awiri
Ndikuganiza kuti banja langa silimalongosola bwino ngati LGBT, koma monga banja. Ngati mungayang'ane ndi amayi anga, kapena banja langa, mudzazindikira kuti nditayitanira anthu a A Lesbian osaposa mafani a gulu lapambalo kapena ogwira ntchito yazaumoyo. Matanthauzidwe awa a amayi anga ali owona chimodzimodzi.
Jamie, adakula pansi pa Chicago ndi amayi ake ndi abale ake
Mayi anga ndi omwe anali nawo analeredwa, ndipo ana ake ambiri ndi atsikana okhaokha anali m'moyo wanga, ndimamva ngati ndandiukitsa azimayi ambiri.
Maliko, anakulira ku Pennsylvania ndi Amayi ndi Atate, amene adazindikira kuti Marko adaphunzira ku koleji
Bambo anga ndi gay. M'malo mwake, ndikadalipo pozindikira izi. Nthawi zambiri ndimaganiza kuti bambo anga anali achiwerewere kuyambira chiyambi cha nthawi. Nthawi zonse ndimadziwa kuti sindimathandiza, ndipo zimathandiza. Kuyambira ndili mwana ndinawona kuti Atate wanga amabisa chikazi chake ndendende monga ine, zikuwoneka ngati kuti umayesa kudutsa miyendoyo ndipo osakambirana mukamacheza.
Elizabeti adakula ku Boston ndi Amayi ndi abambo, omwe adazindikira kugonana kwawo kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akaphunzira ku koleji
Anati: "Nthawi yakwana yoti ndikumane ndi chizindikiritso changa," ndipo ndidafunsa kuti: "Ndiwe gay?" Ndipo, zikuwoneka kuti mawu otsatirawa, omwe ndidayamba kale: "Abambo, ndikutsimikiza kuti ndili ndi chidwi kuti ndiwe gay."
John, adakhala ku New England ndi mayi ndi zilema ndi bambo, yemwe adazindikira kuti anali wotsogola pomwe Yohane anali awiri, komanso mnzake wa abambo
Nthawi yoyamba yomwe analankhula ndi mutuwu, pamene Amayi anagula bukuli, "amene amakhala ndi abambo limodzi."
Kumanzere: Moher, adakwera ku New York State yokhala ndi amayi awiri
Kumanja: Lauren, Grew ku Kansas, Missouri, ndi Amayi ndi Abambo, amene adazindikira kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali ndi zaka 7
Mozi : Amayi anga akhala akuyandikana kwambiri, koma, inde, panali gawo lotha achinyamata, ndikadana ndi amayi anga. Tsopano ndi ine - thandizo lenileni, nthawi zonse pafupi. Ndimamukonda.
Laundula : Kwa ine, kudabwitsika kwambiri kuti makolo anga ali odziwika bwino kuposa kuti abambo anga ndi gay. Ndikuganiza kuti ndizabwino kwa mwana wanga wamwamuna, amakula ndi agogo aakazi awiri osadziwa kuti pali china chapadera chokhudza izi. Bambo anga sanalinso agogo aamuna opanda akazi ake, Mwana akukula kwathunthu, ndipo ndi ofanana m'moyo wake monga aphunzitsi.
Vanessa, anakulira ku Virginia ndi amayi ake ndi abambo, yemwe adazindikira kuti anali ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akakhala 28
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Kwa ife ndi mlongo, kumverera kunali kopanda pake kuti tinkagona kwa nthawi yayitali kwambiri kuposa zomwe Atate.
Darnel, adabweretsa ku Mello Park, California, amayi awiri ndi abambo
Ndinganene kuti ndimakhala ndi amuna a Lesbian nthawi zonse komanso ineyo zinali zabwinobwino. Ndili ndi ndikukumbukira bwino, ndikamamvetsera nyimbo pawailesi ndipo ndimazindikira mwadzidzidzi kuti wochita masewerawa amacheza ndi ena.
Mccen, adakhala mu kasupe Lake, Michigan, mu banja la amayi awiri
Anthu adzandifunsa kuti: "Ndi chiyani? Zikuwoneka bwanji? ", Ndipo ndiri, ali anthu omwewo. Alibe zingwe zolankhula kapena mbendera m'nyumba. Timakhala ngati chotopetsa mu lingaliro ili.
Diana, anakulira, New York, ndi amayi ndi bambo, amene anazindikira kuti anali kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akaphunzira ku koleji
Abambo anati ngati ine sindinamuyitane naye kukambirana, akadakhala moyo wanga wonse, akubisalira. Zikuwoneka kuti amaganiza kuti sadzauza wina aliyense.
Lucas, wobweretsera ku Russiona, Florida, bambo ndi amayi osalalika, omwe adazindikira kuti anali ndi zaka 15
Zowona kuti amayi anga ndi a Lesbian, nthawi zonse ndimakhala osavuta kwa ine, chifukwa ndidaleredwa kuti ndatenga anthu onse. Sizinali zachilendo, koma osati tini. Ngati zinthu zitakhala zovuta kwa amayi anga, ngati Amuna a ku Asbiya anali ovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe akungokhalira pano, ndikuganiza kuti ndisamalira kwambiri kulimbana ndi kulimbana kwawo ufulu wa ufulu wake.
Karen, adakulira ku South Oregon ndi abambo ndi amayi ake, omwe adazindikira kuti Alonternament Ampornament pomwe Karen anali makumi awiri
Zochitika m'moyo watsopano ku New York zidandipangira ine. Zinandivuta kufotokoza za izi. Kumene ndidakulira, palibe amene ananena za izi. Koma apa pafupifupi aliyense, yemwe ndimamudziwa naye, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo aliyense amalankhula za izi ndipo zonse ndi zabwino.
Gwero: Thetlantic.com.