Anthu awiri akakhala, mitima iwiri yachikondi, kusankha kuyanjana ndi Uzami Greatda, kawirikawiri kwa okwatirana kungaganize za banja zam'tsogolo. Zikuwoneka kuti ubale wabwino umakhala kwamuyaya. Koma ndinandigwiritsa ntchito Mendelssohn, ulendo waukwati umayandikira. Okwatirana amalowa mosasangalatsa komanso osamvetsetseka, otchedwa banja.
Ngati mukufuna kuti ubale wanu uyesedwe ndi moto ndi madzi, nthawi zonse moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, muyenera kukonzekera kumbuyo, sonkhanitsani zidziwitso za anthu omwe amatha kuwononga banja kapena kuchititsa kuti moyo wanu ukhale wosagwirizana. Osayang'ananso ukwati wanu kuti ukhale wolimba. Kalanga ine, monga momwe zimawonetsera, si aliyense amene angathanirane ndi moyo wabanja. Tiyeni tichite ndi zolakwitsa wamba.
Nambala Yolakwika 1. Ngati mukufuna kuti banja lanu lithe, simudzakambirana za banja lanu ndi vuto lanu.
Chifukwa Chomwe Kutaya Nthawi Akukambirana Nkhani Zosasangalatsa. Kupatula apo, zonse zidzakhala ngati mungasankhe. Kuphatikiza apo, mumakhala ndi kulumikizana kwamphamvu kwa telepathic ndi mwamuna wanu wamtsogolo, ndipo malingaliro anu amafanana ndi 99, 9%.
Chifukwa chake, mwina simudzadabwitsidwa mukamamuuza mwamuna watsopano pazolinga zanu kuti mupite kuntchito, ndipo poyankha times yomwe mkazi wake azikhala kunyumba, abereke ana. Ndipo ntchito ndi bizinesi yaimuna. Kapena simukhumudwitsa lingaliro lakuti mukatha kukhala ndi zaka 10 kwa amayi ake kwa amayi ake, apongozi anu okondedwa. Kupatula apo, mwamunayo amakulolani munthu wothandiza.
Chifukwa chake, ngati simukufuna chiwonongeko komanso kunyozedwe, kuchokera mu mndandanda uliwonse, ndipo nchiyani, zomwe zingakhale zosamveka pano, zingakhale zolowererapo, kuti "musagwe.
Nambala Yolakwika 2. Mulibe kulimba mtima mokwanira kuti mupange kukambirana za ndalama. Simukufuna kuwoneka ngati wopanda pake komanso wopanda pake.
Ndi mabanja angati omwe amalumbirira tsiku lililonse ndi ola limodzi chifukwa cha ndalamazo, chifukwa amangomaliza kufunsa funso limeneli nthawi yomweyo. Sankhani inu mutu wankhani ziwiri nthawi yomweyo ndikukhazikitsa momwe aliyense wa inu angaperekere zolinga zofananira, kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zochuluka motani.
Vuto lachitatu 3. Mkazi Wanu si munthu wangwiro kwambiri, chifukwa chake mungalankhule ndi izi, zomwe zakhala zili m'mutu mwanu.
Kuzama kwa mzimu, mumadziona kuti ndinu opanda ungwiro. Mafuta kuposa inu, mwina, sizichitika. Mwina amayi anu okha ndi omwe ndinawalera chozizwitsa chotere. Koma amuna anu amakulabe kwa inu. Dziwani nokha kuti anthu sasintha ndikupumula. Munthu wobwezeretsanso sangakhale womveka, amamveka kuvomereza ndi zovuta. Inde, imabowola m'maloto, osapotoza chubu kuchokera ku mano, ndipo simungapeze sock yachiwiri popanda thandizo lanu. Munakondana ndi munthuyu, zimalandiridwa ndi zolakwa zake, sungani mitsempha ya mbali ziwiri.
Osadzudzula, koma osanenetsa. Nthawi zina kamvekedwe ka munthu akunyoza munthu, kumadzetsa chilichonse motsutsana.
Iwalani mawu oti "madzi amakula." Maubwenzi anu adzakhale mpeni wacundikira.
Iwalani mawu omwe amanyamula chosindikizira "inunso ..." ndipo "simuna ..."
Mwina mwamunayo ayesa kukonza zovuta zina. Sikuti zonse zidzakhala zangwiro, koma zisoti zochokera pa phala likhalamo.
Nambala ya Vuto 4. Ngati mukufuna kugwa ndi makolo anu ena ndi ena, khalani limodzi. Osataya ndalama ndi nthawi kuti mufufuze nyumba za aliyense.
Ambiri a ife, omwe uchimo kubisa, kupeza zabwino zambiri kukhala ndi makolo. Mwachitsanzo, kupulumutsa. Pa ndalama zothandizira, chakudya. Palibenso chifukwa chopereka ndalama zanu kwa amalume a munthu wina kapena azakhali. Ndikwabwino kupita kunyanja kukagula zatsopano kapena zina. Kumbukirani kuti moyo wolumikizana ndi makolo sukulambitsa ukwati.
Komanso. Chotupa. Onani zomwe mungachite. Okwera mtengo, osakwanira, osati ndalama zokwanira? Ngati muli ndi funso kotero, kenako mungoganizani chifukwa chake mwalowa mu mgwirizano, ngati inu mwasiyira ana omwe sangathe kupereka nyumba, ngakhale kuchotsedwa koyamba.
Nambala yolakwika 5. Simumakonda mayi ake ndipo osabisa. Azauni oyipa awa akumakutirani nthawi zonse, kukhumudwitsidwa, komabe, ndikofunikira kutsindika.
Mutu wa apongozi ndi mpongozi wake ndi mpongozi wake ndi wakuya kwambiri. Ndikokwanira kukumbukira kuti sikofunikira kudzikakamiza kukonda apongozi anga. Zopusa amuna amenewo omwe amangoganiza akazi chifukwa chikondi cha amayi awo. Lemekezani apongozi ake. Kapena pangani mawonekedwe a ulemu. Moni ochezeka, athokozeni patchuthi. Osachepera.
Lamulo la Chikhalidwe: Musanyoze mayi a mwamuna wanu, musawoloke. Ngakhale amuna anu akadzifunsa ngati angalimbikitse zokambirana zotere, khalani m'manja mwanu. Cholinga chake ndi chosavuta. Adzakumbukira izi, ndipo kukangana ndi wina kukukumbukirani kuti mudzimve kuti ndinu olakwa. Musalole chida champhamvu champhamvu, chifukwa sikuti onse mabanja onse amayesedwa chifukwa cha mphamvu ya amayi.
Nambala ya Vuto 6. Cholinga chanu chimaperekedwa. Ndinu okwatiwa. Mutha kuchotsa zodzola, ikani pa barbell yomwe mumakonda ndikupanga mtolo wanu womwe mumakonda pamutu panu. Palibe paliponse pomwe akupita.
Dziko lotchuka likuti amuna awo "akukonda maso awo" akuwoneka kuti sanathetsedwe. Tsoka ilo, azimayi ambiri amakhala ndi mwayi kuti ayiyire mawu awa. Palibe amene amakuitanani tsiku lililonse kuvala zidendene kwambiri komanso kuti "azigwiritsa ntchito utoto". Koma ndizosangalatsa kukhulupirira kuti maonekedwe anu sangakhale osatheka. Sadzatsalira. Ndipo kenako kusaka zithunzi zatsopano komanso zithunzi zimayamba.
Zachidziwikire, amatha kuyamba kenako mukakhala abwino. Kufunafuna zinthu zatsopano kungapezeke chifukwa cha kusungulumwa. Zifukwa zake zimakhala zotanganidwa kwambiri. Kungakhale kulakwitsa kudziimba mlandu pachilichonse. Koma ndibwino kudziletsa, kuchotsa chinthu ichi ku zolakwa. Mwa njira, amuna safunikira kupuma. Maganizo a mnzanu mu zolimbitsa thupi amavulaza banja lanu. Yang'anirani mawonekedwe ake.
Nambala Yolakwika 7. Muli ndi mwana, malingaliro anu amakoka chithunzi chokongola: mumadyetsana ndikugona ndikupita mwakachetechete kuti muchite zinthu zanu, mwachitsanzo, pakukumbatirana ndi wokondedwa wanu.
M'malo mwake, anthu ambiri omwe angokwatirana samayembekezera zomwe zichitike m'banjamo mu kubwera kwa cholengedwa chaching'ono. Kutopa, kusagona kosatha, kulibe nthawi yaulere zinthu zosavuta. Zonsezi zidzawapangitsa kukhumudwitsana komwe mumatsanulirana. Chonde dziwani kuti chaka choyamba cha moyo ndi kubwera kwa mwana banja lanu ndikovuta kwambiri. Munthawi imeneyi, mabanja ambiri amapachikidwa m'nyumba. Zinkawoneka kuti chozizwitsa chaching'ono chizigwirizana ndi banja lonse, kuti aliyense alembe, ndi dokotala komerovsky akuti. M'malo mwake, zonse ndizosiyana kwathunthu. Yesani kupulumuka chaka choyamba ichi ndi zotayika zazing'ono kwambiri. Komanso zidzakhala zosavuta.
M'miyala ya banja ili m'miyala ndi miyala yambiri yomwe ingawononge ukwati, kuwononga konse. Ukwati ndi chinthu chovuta kwambiri. Sadzakufunani mphamvu koposa kamodzi, amene sachita mantha kuti atenge nkhondoyi. Osangokhala ndi mnzanu, koma ndi ine. Palibenso chifukwa chosintha munthu, ndikofunikira kuphunzira momwe mungadzisinthe. Ngati mukufuna kuphunzira izi, ukwati wanu sudzakhala wowopsa pansi pamadzi.