Ngakhale chisudzulo chikhala chosangalatsa kwa nthawi yayitali, nthawi zambiri chimakhala ndi nkhawa yayikulu kwa mkazi. Nthawi zambiri, pafupifupi kale, mwamuna wakale amayesa zovuta, koma abale ake ndi abale ake amamuthandiza. Palibe chomwe anganene kuti ngati mkazi ali ndi mwana, moyo wa banja lomwe latsala ukugwa kwambiri.
Ndikhulupirireni ngati mnzanu wasudzulidwa, kuti akufunika thandizo lanu, amafunafuna zana limodzi. Ndipo musanathandize, ndikofunikira kutanthauzira kutsogolo kwa ntchito.
1. Ulamuliro wa mafunso ku "Inde" ndi "Ayi", gwiritsani ntchito pano
Mzimayi nthawi zambiri sangapange zofunsa molondola, chifukwa samamvetsetsa komwe mzerewo uli wamakhalidwe, ndipo ukuopa kudutsa. Zosankha za thandizo zimaperekedwa, muli bwino ndi nkhope. Mutha kumvetsetsa zoti munene "Kudula kwa ine ndiloleni mphindi imodzi, ndimayang'ana pa iye ndipo ndikuwona kuti sindingathe kupirira funso la mnzake "Mwina ndidzabwera, ndikuthandizani mbale, nthawi yomweyo ndimamwa tiyi ndi macheza?" Pa nthawi yopsinjika, mayiyo nthawi zambiri amakhala akuganiza, amakhala ndi kudzidalira ndipo akuopa kuvutitsa ena, ngakhale tikulankhula za chinthu chofunikira.
2. Osayika moyo wanu kuti muthandizire
Ngati bwenzi ndi munthu wabwino, safuna kudzipereka kuchokera kumbali yanu. Ngati zoipa, ndiye kuti simuyenera. Apatseni thandizo kotero kuti kulibe chifukwa cha moyo wanu ndi mphamvu za chidutswa chachikulu. Zachidziwikire, pali zosiyana - ngati, kupatula wina ndi mnzake, mulibe wina woti musadalire aliyense. Nthawi zonse, zonse kapena ziwiri zotsatira pa sabata kapena, ngati bwenzi lili ngati mnzake, kuti afotokozere thandizo lake, nthawi zambiri.
3. Nthawi zambiri mzimayi yemwe ali m'banjamo ayenera kuperekedwa
Ndipo ichi, mwatsoka, si njira imodzi. Ngati mungavomereze kukumana ndikungocheza, khalani okonzeka kuti mudzalankhula, makamaka, pafupifupi pafupifupi kapena kale. Ngakhale mutakumana kuti muzicheza, mumvera chilichonse chokhudza iye. Bwenzi tsopano limadziletsa. Chifukwa chake, tsatirani zowonjezera zomwe mukukwaniritsa komanso kumayambiriro kwazomwe zimatanthauzira (ndipo musabise kwa bwenzi) nthawi yayitali: Kodi ndinu mphindi makumi awiri kwa iye kapena usiku?
4. Pafupifupi zana limodzi amafunika thandizo mogwirizana ndi zomwe kale
Popeza kuti athetse mavuto ake omwe amakhalapo (sonkhanitsani ndikutulutsa masokosi ndi masokosi), chifukwa bwenzi laubwenzi ndi lowopsa kapena lovuta kuwona zinthu izi ndikuzikhudza. Kumaliza kuti apite pafupi ndi bwenzi pakadali pano akamakumana naye. Ndipo iye ayenera. Kupatula apo, ndikofunikira kusankha kapena kukumana kukhothi. Ambiri mwa omwe adachita zoyipa komanso wankhanza sanathe kumenyedwa mkazi ngati pali umboni wina wapafupi. Ngati wakale wa iwo amene a Mboni sasiya, mutha kuthandiza, kubwereketsa amuna anu, m'bale, mzanga kapena woyankha ndi mzati wa mita iwiri. (Ndipo ngati mwa inu magawo awiri opitilira awiri ndi mapewa asternal wamkulu wa Karati, ndipo palibe chonena momwe mungabwererere munthu).
5. Nthawi zambiri mkazi, makamaka ndi mwana, kulikonse sakupita
Osafunsanso momwe adaganiza zothetsa mabanja otere. Mwina mwamunayo adasankha. Mwina amayembekeza kuthandiza abale, ndipo achibale chilichonse chinakhala chovuta. Ngati palibe wamkazi wa atsikana sangathe kutengedwa mosavuta ndikukhazikika kunyumba / mu malo osungira / antllol, mkazi wokhala ndi ana, gawo ". "Visiga" ndi pamene munthu amakhala ndi masiku angapo ochokera kwina, kuthandiza kunyumba kapena ndi ana kuti ayamikire. Ndikwabwino kukhala nawo pa chibwenzi, mosachedwa ndi thumba lamasewera mdzanja limodzi komanso mwana wina wina kuposa kubwerera ku chidole chowopsa. Osachepera azimayi ali ndi chisankho, nthawi zambiri amasankha "maphwando". Ponena za momwe zinthu ziliri, mkazi akakhala ndi nyumba, koma poyambira, ndiye kuti palibe ndalama, mutha kuthandiza ndi abwenzi ena kuti athandize atsikana ena, ndipo pakatha theka la atsikana kuti athandizidwe kupeza ntchito ndi kusuta. tchati chatsopano cha moyo.
6. Inde, amafunika thandizo ndi moyo
Mutha kukhala otsimikiza. Amayi omwe amakonda azimayi omwe amakonda kudwala matenda olimbitsa thupi - posankha chifukwa cha chisudzulo chokha, nthawi zambiri chifukwa chakuti adakwaniritsidwa. Munthu wokhumudwa sangakhale mphamvu zokwanira pa ukhondo woyambitsa ukhondo. Molimbika molimba mtima kuchokera ku: kuphika, kutsuka mbale kapena kugonana, makabatini, kuchuluka kwa mipando ndi zinthu zilizonse zomwe zingabwere m'mutu mwanu.
7. Thandizani ndi mwana
Ngakhale azimayi ambiri amavutika kuzindikira - zimamveka, zimawoneka ngati zonyoza! "Koma ndi mwana akukoka mphamvu zambiri." Mwina bwenzi lili kofunikira kuti wina aziyenda ndi mwana wake wamkazi, pomwe akupita kukhothi kapena kukagula matalala ndi mwana wake wamwamuna pomwe amangogona.
8. Osamupatsa dziko lapansi kuti athe kugwa
Mkazi tsopano ndi wofunika kwambiri nthawi ndi nthawi kuti apite kudziko lalikulu osati chifukwa chazogulitsa kapena satifiketi yamtundu wina. Ndikofunikira kuti iye awone kuti moyo wake sukupindika tsopano ndikungopulumuka ndi mwana. Chifukwa chake, ngati chuma chanu chilola, chokani kunja kuti mupite paki, yang'anani mafilimu, khalani pa malo odyera a netiat, kusewera masewera a board ku Antikafe. Ngakhale bwenzi lanu ndi lokhazikika, likhalabe losavuta.
9. Iwalani nthawi ya zotonthoza za mtunduwo "Usalire"
Ngati angathe, sakanalira. Ndipo tsopano iye akhoza kukhala wopanda manyazi, koma samalimbana nazo. M'malo mwake, tiyeni timvetsetse kuti nthawi ya misozi ili yoyenera ndipo zonse zidzatha.
10. Ingokhalani mbali yake
Motsutsana ndi chibwenzi tsopano, mwina: Mwamuna wakale, abale, omwe adalumikizidwa matope a mfundo za banja la Formage, ndipo ndikofunikira kusunga banja! " Ndi dziko lankhanza, lomwe ndi, komwe lidzatenga ndalama zothandizira ndalama ndi mfuti ndi mkaka chakudya cham'mawa. Mukufuna iye pambuyo pake, ngakhale ngati mulibe kalikonse. Choonadi.