Kodi mwakula nkhani za Cinderella, chipale choyera ndi kugona? Dulani Moyo Wanu Pofunafuna Chibwenzi Chosangalatsa, Pokhulupirira kuti ali kwinakwake, inde, ndikukhumudwa kuti sawapeza? Osadziimba mlandu - templateyi idatemera katemera kwa zaka zambiri, ndipo tidakhulupirira.
Ngati mukukhulupirirabe nthano zachabe, yang'anani pozungulira: Ndi anthu angati pakati pa odziwa anzanu amakhala limodzi kwa nthawi yayitali komanso mosangalala? Mwinanso sizokwanira, chifukwa nthano sizifanana ndi moyo weniweni, ndipo kuyesako kumapeza imodzi mwa izo sikulephera.Kutsatira njira zabwino kumatha kuwononga ubale wanu. Ndipo chimodzimodzi momwe mungawaphonye anthu omwe mungawapangire ubale wathunthu, kokha chifukwa sakumana ndi malingaliro anu pazabwino. Simudzakhala othokoza kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi inu pafupi, popeza sali ngati kalonga wokongola.
Zikhulupiriro zitatu zokongola zomwe zimakulepheretsani kuti muzikondadi pamenepa.
1. Kufufuza Kalonga
Pitani pahatchi yoyera pafupi ndi a Mr. kapena ungwiro - kodi ndizomwe mukufuna? Musanayankhe kuti "Inde," dzifunseni zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna. Mukufuna chiyani muubwenzi? Kodi mukufuna chiyani m'moyo?
Dzifunseni zomwe ali kwa inu ndi ubale wabwino? Osati kwa wina, ndiye kuti inu. Mwina mumayamikira chidwi chofuna kusangalatsa mnzanu, kapena mukungofuna kuti agawane ndi nyumba zokwawa ndi inu? Onani zomwe mukufuna muubwenzi, osasamala za malingaliro a anthu ena, kenako mudzapeza zomwe mukufuna.
2. Kusaka kwa theka lachiwiri
Ambiri akufuna mzimu wachibale, mapasa auzimu, theka lawo lachiwiri. Kufunafuna theka lachiwiri la Spompoms lingaliro kuti cholinga cha ubalewo ndi kupeza mnzake wangwiro. Koma vuto ndi chiyani: Ngati mukufuna mzimu wabwino, munthu wokwatirana naye, ndipo musazipeze, mudzayamba kudziweruza nokha ndikuganiza kuti china chake chalakwika.Kodi mungatani m'malo mosaka, kodi muyamba kudzifunsa mafunso? Mwachitsanzo, mutha kufunsa mwachitsanzo: "Ndikadakhala kuti ndidali munthu, kodi moyo wanga ungakhale munthu uti?" Kapena: "Ndikadakhala ndi munthu uyu, kodi moyo wanga ungakhale bwanji zaka 5, 10 kapena 20?"
Mukadzifunsa mafunso awa, muyamba kumvetsetsa zomwe moyo wanu udzakhala pafupi ndi zabwino. Tsopano mutha kuyerekeza ndi zomwe mukufuna m'moyo, ndipo ngati zithunzi sizikugwirizana, sizokayikitsa kuti ingakhale chisankho chabwino kwa inu.
3. Mpulumutsi
Mwina simukufuna kalonga pa kavalo woyera - mukudziwa kuti kulibe. Koma kodi mumayesetsa kuchitapo kanthu "opulumutsa"? Kodi lingaliro silingachitike kwa inu "Munthu uyu akuvutika, zikuwoneka kuti, ndingathandize"? Nthawi zambiri anthu amalakwitsa izi akaganiza kuti angathandize munthu akhale bwino - ndiye kuti, kukhala amene ayenera kukhala,.
Ngati mungalumikizane ndi wokondedwa wanu motere, posachedwa idalumikizidwa - pambuyo pake, sindimakonda kumvetsera mwamakhalidwe kapena kuyerekezera munthu. Muyenera kukhala okonzeka kukhala pafupi ndi munthu yemwe muli naye pachibwenzi, osayesa kuyikumbukira mu kukoma kwanu.
Kudzipereka kwa ma template okongola sikukulolani kuti muwone mipata yomwe ili patsogolo panu. Kukhulupirira kuti sikukulepheretsa kuti mupeze zomwe mukufuna. Tulutsani lingaliro la ubale wokongola, musadikire mpaka nthanoyo kuti ikukanthe ndikuyamba kupanga zomwe mukufuna.