Maubale muawiri sakhala osalala - ngakhale awiriawiri ali mu nthawi yamvula ndi kugwa. Komanso, chifukwa izi sizimafunikira nthawi zonse. Pazomera, banjali limasankha kugawana mbali kuti asayang'ane wina ndi mnzake, koma undewu ukangochitika, mukukumbukira nthawi zosangalatsa komanso ubale wakale womwe ndikufuna kuyambiranso. Koma kodi ndizoyenera kuchita izi?
Mwachisawawa, amakhulupirira kuti azimayi ndi omwe amaganiza bwino komanso okhumudwa kotero kuti amaphunzitsidwa bwino kwambiri m'Chikwatibwi. Koma amuna amakonda kwambiri izi, posiyana kwambiri zomwe amawonetseratu zomwe saziwoneka.
Pakapita kanthawi, aliyense mwa omwe atenga nawo mbali amaganiza kuti ayambiranso maubwenzi. Ndipo ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri chilengedwe chimayesera kuti chiletse mbali yofananayo, bumwani yokha imatha kutengeka ndi zomwe adataya.
Pazovuta kwambiri, anthu amafunsa thandizo kwa akatswiri azamankhwala, koma izi, mwatsoka, sizimangopereka zotsatira zoyembekezeredwa. Chifukwa chake, kuti musataye nthawi ya munthu wina ndi mnzake musanayesere kupereka mwayi wachiwiri paubwenzi, tengani masitepe angapo:
• Ganizirani zomwe zinayambitsa chibwenzicho. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti awiriwo amabwera chifukwa cha zamkhutu pang'ono, kumangoganiza. Ndipo pankhaniyi, zosavuta kubwezeretsa ubalewo. Ndipo zinthu sizili choncho, ngati chifukwa cholekanitsa chinali chopepuka.
• Ngati mungaganize zoyambiranso maubale, ndiye kuti mukhale okonzekera kuti muyenera kuiwala chilichonse choyipa chomwe chinali pakati panu m'mbuyomu. Ngati kuyambira tsamba latsopano, kunyozedwa ndi mnzanga wakale - kumangowonjezera mavuto. Kumbukirani, kuchokera pa pepala loyera - zikutanthauza kuti ndi pepala loyera.
• Kukonzanso ubale wapatsopano, ndikofunikira kuti muphunzire kungoyankhula nokha, koma mverani mosamala ndikumva mnzanuyo.
• Akatswiri amisala amalangizidwa kuti asakhale aulesi ndikubwereza mnzake kuti abwereze zomwe mukufuna kufotokoza. Nthawi zambiri pamakhala munthu samamvetsa kuti vuto ndi chiyani, ndipo chifukwa chake mkangano ndi zochititsa mantha zidachitika, zomwe zidapangitsa kuti pakhale kusiyana. • Ndipo kumbukirani, ngati munthu ali weniweni komanso theka lanu, muyenera kukhala ndi ntchito yayikulu kuti muyambenso kuyanjana kale.