Kuyesera kukhazikitsa moyo, amayi nthawi zambiri amakwanira maupangiri amenewo - amayesa kugwirizira munthu pafupi nawo, omwe sayenera kuyendetsa wina, kapena kuyendetsa wina yemwe angapeze chisangalalo chachikulu kwambiri chachikazi. Kuzindikira zolakwika, mwatsoka, kumabwera mochedwa kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zina sikubwera konse. Pofuna kuti musawononge moyo wanu, ndi bwino kunena zoona zitatu za abambo musanapite patsogolo.
Sizingatheke kuti mudzikakamize
Popeza anali kukonda munthu wopanda kubwezeretsa, ndizovuta kwambiri kuvomereza kuti sizotheka kuthana ndi kumverera kwake. Chifukwa chake, mphamvu zambiri ndi nthawi zinasakazidwa pa zomwe sangakwanitse.Ndipo ngati osankhidwa akadapambana kuti agonjetse, ndiye kuti mkazi wofooka kuchokera kunkhondo adzakhumudwitsa kwambiri, chifukwa Bweretsani, mosawerengeka, osayembekezeka, sadzapita. Munthu wogonjetsedwa sangasonyeze chikondi ndi kusamala monga angachite mogwirizana ndi dona wokondedwa wake.
Dodi lamphamvu lidapangidwa m'njira yoti, kokha, iwo amachititsa chidwi chowoneka cha mkazi. Ndipo ngati sakumana ndi zinthu zokongola zake, sadzatha kukondana. Ngati mkazi yemwe sangakhale mu kukoma kwa amuna adzayamba kulola zinthu Zake zachinsinsi, ndiye kuti kuchuluka kwake kotero kuti angadalire chikondi kumbali Yake. Amatha kumukonda monga munthu, koma osati ngati mayi wabwino kwambiri.
Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa chowonadi chake - munthu amatha kumangirizidwa, mpangeni kuti azidzikonda ngati munthu (ngati Mlongo / Bwenzi Labwino), koma ndimupangitse kuti akhale ndi malingaliro a mtima - ndizosatheka. Izi ndi zathengo, chilengedwe - zothana ndi izi sizowoneka zopanda nzeru. Ngakhale mutasangalala ndi kukula kwa 36, simulowa nawo, ngati muli ndi 39 - chinthu chomwecho mu maubale.
Aliyense akuwonetsa chikondi chake momwe angathere ndipo amadziwa
Kulakwitsa kwina kwakukulu kwa akazi - kuwunika mphamvu ya amuna achikondi, kutengera malingaliro awo pazomwe zimakhudza mfundo zachikondi. Kugonana kulikonse kumakhala ndi masomphenya ake okondera, momwe angawonetsere malingaliro awo. Ngati kapangidwe ka mdaniyo sikugwirizana ndi momwe mayiyo akuganizira - chigamulocho chimabadwa m'mutu mwake - "sakonda."
Musayembekezere kuchokera kwa munthu wachikondi pomwe sangakwanitse - munthu aliyense amakhala ndi kumvetsetsa kwake chikondi konse. Chikondi chimatha kufananizidwa ndi talente - winawake amatenga zokongola, wina amapanga ndakatulo yodabwitsa, ina - wolemba mphatso. Komanso ndi malingaliro - munthu wina amakonda amatenga kuti ayandikire ndipo munthuyo amatembenuka ku Romeo, ndipo wina amasunga mutu "wozizira." Kuwonetsedwa kwachikondi kumatengeranso malingaliro a munthu ndi zinthu zina zambiri.
Chifukwa chake, musanawunike mlingo wachikondi wa amuna modzidalira, ndikofunikira kudziwa mawonekedwe ndi mkwiyo wake. Ngati osankhidwa ali osagwira ntchito, ndiye kuti simuyenera kudikirira kuti uziimbe pandenade pansi pazenera, kumira duwa ndikupereka nyenyezi kuchokera kumwamba. Koma sizitanthauza kuti sakonda. Ngati mukufuna munthu, ndipo ali pafupi ndi inu, ingodzivomerani nokha ndi momwe amakhalira ndi kukonda.
Choyamba Chikondani Nokha
Ngati simukufuna kudzikonda nokha, palibe amene angakukondeni momwe angafunire. Mkazi aliyense ayenera kudzilemekeza, ndipo pokhapokha pokhapokha atakhala kuti munthu watanthauzo. Pansi mwamphamvu amalimbikitsa "nyenyezi", ndipo ngati mayiyo sakudziwa zokongola, ndizokongola bwanji, ndiye kuti sangazindikire ndi munthu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti samamuzindikira kwathunthu.
Mkazi wosakondedwa - wotayika. Iyi si munthu wokongola kwambiri, ndipo wozunzidwayo sangathe kulankhulana ndi ena ofanana. Poyamba, amaika munthu pamtunda, womwe unali wolakwitsa kwambiri. Ndipo amuna nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito izi, komanso kutali ndi mkazi.