Sizotheka nthawi zonse kuyambira nthawi yoyamba kupeza wokwatirana naye. Nthawi zina chidwi chimatipangitsa kuzindikira zinthu zodziwikiratu zomwe zitha kunena kuti ubale wanu ufika kumapeto. Tiyeni timvetse momwe mungamvetsetse kuti kulumikizana kwa mnzanu sikungatenge nthawi yayitali kuyimitsa ubale wanu poyambira.
1. Amawononga nthawi yochulukirapo ndi abwenzi ake.
Ngati wachinyamata wanu akufuna kukhala kumapeto kwa sabata ndi tchuthi mwa anzanu, ndipo mumangokutchulani pomwe imatopa ndipo palibe chomwe muyenera kuchita. Mwamuna yemwe amakonda kukhala ndi nthawi popanda inu sanakonzekere kukhala pachibwenzi. Muli ndi iye - zosangalatsa kwakanthawi.2. Palibe chomwe mungayankhule.
Ngati simupeza onse omwe amalankhula, ndiye kuti muli ndi mavuto ena. Kugonana ndi, kumene, ntchito yokondwa, koma adakubweretserani. Kodi mungakhale bwanji limodzi ngati mulibe choti munganene kwa wina ndi mnzake, kupatula mawu ena achizolowezi?
3. Mumakonda zinthu zosiyana kwathunthu.
Ndikosavuta kumanga ubale ndi munthu ngati muli ndi zosangalatsa zina ndi iye. Mwachitsanzo, mumakonda kusewera, ndipo amakonda kuonera TV. Njira ina: Mumakonda zaluso zamakono, ndipo sangathe kuyitanitsa wojambula wamakono. Kodi mungakhale bwanji limodzi? Kodi mukambirana chiyani? Kodi pali wambanda pakati panu? Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti palibe chilichonse chofala pakati panu, ndiye kuti mwina mungachite cholakwika posankha mnzake.4. Sakudziwitsani kuti ndinu achibale.
Ngati bambo wanu sangathe kudziwana ndi makolo ake, ndiye kuti simukhala muofesi ya registry (ngati mupita nonse). Palibe amene akufuna kukwiyitsa abale awo, kutsogolera nyumbayo mtsikana yemwe ali nawo motalika.
5. Sakhala m'mawa m'nyumba mwanu.
Ngati munthu sakhala pabedi lanu mpaka m'mawa, alibe chakudya cham'mawa ndipo sakukusangalatsani, ndiye kuti uku ndi chizindikiro chokhulupirika chakuti m'gawo lanu samva kuti ali ndi chishalo, safuna kuti amve.6. Zimafunikira kuti musinthe.
Mwamuna amene akufuna kuti musinthe zizolowezi zanu, adasiya vidiyo ndi atsikana, adayamba kuvala monga anganene ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi iliyonse poyeretsa mtsikana wamakono. Amuna omwewo amakula ndi akazi achikondi ndi agogo omwe anakana chifukwa cha Mwana wake wokondedwa ndi mdzukulu wake kuzinthu zonse zomwe zinali zofunika. Simukufuna kusiya moyo wanu? Ndipo ambiri, kodi ndingasinthe bwanji wokondedwa wanu? Munthu amafunika kukonda zophophonya zonse ndi zabwino zake zonse, ndipo ngati munthu wanu sakuyenerane ndi inu, ndiye lingalirani ngati amakukondani kwambiri.
7. Mukukumbukira zakale.
Chifukwa chiyani mwasankha munthu uyu? Anali wa Galantan, waulemu komanso wachikondi kumayambiriro kwa maubale? Ndipo tsopano? Kodi wosankhidwa wanu ndi amene amakhala nthawi yayitali mu garaja kapena asanakhale ndi chisoni? Ndikhulupirireni, ngakhale mutayesetsa bwanji, simungathe kusintha kalikonse. Komanso, mwina, zidzakhala zoyipa kwambiri. Mukuyembekezera imvi, kukhumudwa ndi kutchinjiriza kosalekeza. Ndikwabwino kugawa tsopano ndikukumbukira ndi chisoni chosangalatsa ku chiyanjano chanu, kuposa kukhala ndi munthu yemwe samayesa kuti moyo wanu ukhale wabwino.8. Salankhula nanu za tsogolo.
Ngati mnyamata wanu safuna kukonzekera tchuthi chogawidwa nanu komanso munjira iliyonse kuti musayankhule zamtsogolo, ndiye kuti muyenera kuganiza. Mwamuna uyu safuna kumanga ubale wautali ndi inu. Ndizotheka kuti kuwonjezera kwa inu, ali ndi atsikana angapo, ndipo sanaganizirepo, kusiya kusankha kwake.
9. Zikuwoneka kuti simudziwa chilichonse.
Simukudziwa bwino abwenzi ake, simukudziwa zomwe amakonda komanso zomwe zimakonda mabungwe amtundu wanji? Kodi munthu wanu sadzagawana nanu zomwe zimamukhudza ndi zomwe akumana nazo? Simuli munthu amene angafune kukhala moyo wake wonse. Ndikwabwino osayesa kuphunzira kwambiri wokondedwa wanu, koma kusiya mayanjano amenewo mwachangu mpaka sikovuta.