Chikondi ndi kumverera kodabwitsa komwe kumalumikiza awiri omwe kale anali osadziwika omwe amalemekeza ulemu, kukonda komanso momwe akumvera. Koma kumverera kumeneku kungakhale kosiyana kwathunthu ngati munthu amene mumamukonda sakukonda. Chikondi chimatha kukhala chovuta kwambiri munthu amene amakonda kwenikweni sakwaniritsa zoterezi.
Timapereka zizindikiro zomwe zingathandize kumvetsetsa momwe mnzake aliri kwa inu. Ngati zitanga zosachepera zitatu, pali nkhani zoipa - ubalewo sunathe.1. Kuyankhulana nthawi zonse kumayambira mbali imodzi
TAYEREKEZANI - wina wochokera kwa ochita nawo nthawi zonse amalemba kapena kuyimba kaye. Iye ndi yekhayo amene amagwira ntchito zoyesayesa zonse mu maubale ndipo amakhala mapulani ena. Ndipo ngati izi sizinachitike, ndiye kuti mnzake amangokumba mwakachetechete mu foni yake. Ili iyenera kukhala chizindikiro choyamba kuti musiye chibwenzicho, mpaka litachedwa kwambiri ndipo chilichonse sichikhala choyipa.
2. Mwiniwake nthawi zonse amakonda abwenzi anu kwa inu
Mutha kucheza ndi anzanu, koma palibe chifukwa chilichonse sichinganyalanyaze bwenzi lanu / anyamata. Ngati mnzanuyo amanga mapulani omwe simukulowa, zikutanthauza kuti sakufuna kucheza nanu, zilibe kanthu momwe mungafunire kuti mukhulupirire. Ndipo mukamalankhula izi, amayamba kukuitanirani " kung'ung'udza "kapena kunyalanyaza mawu awa. Ndipo akupitilizabe kukulitsa mapulani ndi abwenzi, "mwangozi" kuyiwala kukuyimbirani. Ndipo wina akadali sanamvetsetse kuti thanzi choterocho, zimaphulika.3. Nthawi zonse pepani popanda kusowa
Ngati mumakonda munthu, simumukakamiza kuti mumve bwino ndi kutenga mbali zabwino ndi zoyipa. Koma pamene mnzake samva ngati izi, adzakupangitsani kukhala wolakwa ngati simunachitepo zolakwika. Pokhudzana ndi awiri, awiriawiri amathandizana wina ndi mnzake munthawi zovuta, ndipo osafooketsa wina ndi mnzake. Ndikofunikira kuti tibweretse zopepesa pokhapokha zitachitikadi cholakwika, osati chifukwa choti mnzakeyo sanakhutire. Ayenera kusunga theka lake pamene china chake chalakwika ndi iye, osadzudzula pa chilichonse.
4. Mnzanuyo sakuphatikizana nanu m'malingaliro anu amtsogolo.
Zisankho zophatikiza zimatengedwa nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zonse mumaganizira za tsogolo, kukumbukira mnzanu wa mtima. Chifukwa chake, nthawi yotsatira, pamene mnzakeyo akuiwala kutchula china chofunikira pa tsogolo lake, mwina sichofunikira kwa iye.5. Wogwira nawo ntchito sakhala ndi nkhawa
Ngati mukugwirizana mogwirizana ndi wokondedwa, mnzanuyo adzakhala ndi zomwe mumachita komanso mukufuna. Ngati munthu ali pachibwenzi, adzadandaula moona mtima ndipo adzada nkhawa ndi chikondi chake, komanso amakonda zomwe amachita tsiku lililonse. Koma ngati izi sizichitika, ndi nthawi yoti mupite paubwenzi. Ngati wina amakondadi, adzanenanso kudzera mu manja ndi machitidwe ake. Chifukwa chake, simuyenera kuchititsidwa khungu ndi chikondi chanu osazindikira zizindikilo zomwe takambirana pamwambapa. Zizindikiro izi zimatha kuthandiza mpaka kufika mochedwa, ndipo pamapeto pake zimakhala zopweteka kwambiri.