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1 Lamulo Lokopa
Lamulo lokopa limanena kuti zokopa zoterezi, ndi mphamvu zomwe zimasiyanitsana wina ndi mnzake, bwerani pafupi. M'masiku ambiri oyamba, anthu ali mu chiyembekezo choyembekezera, chosangalatsa, ndipo mphamvu yachisangalalo ndi yokongola komanso yokopa. Koma munthu akayamba kuchitira mnzake ngati "njira" yothetsera mavuto ake, zonse zimayamba kukula kwambiri.Kuti mugwiritse ntchito lamulo lokopa zofuna zanu, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti chinali chiyani - kukondana ndi wokondedwa wanu, ndipo yesani kuti musayiwale malingaliro awa.
Malamulo awiri a Malamulo
Munthu akamakumana ndi mnzake yemwe angathe kukhala naye, ali ndi chidwi chodziwa mtundu wa mtundu wamtunduwu. Onsewa akugawana zambiri za iwo eni popanda ziweruzo ndi zomwe akuyembekezera. Komabe, chifukwa moyo wa anthu onsewa umasokonekera kwambiri, kusintha kwa zinthu zachilengedwe kumasintha komwe kumathandizanso poyankha chifukwa chokana china chake kapena zolakalaka za mnzake.
Kuti mugwiritse ntchito chilolezo cha Lamulo m'maganizo anu, ndikofunikira kuzindikira kuti munthu aliyense apitilizabe kukhala munthu, ngakhale atagwirizana. Ndikofunikira kulola ndikulimbikitsa kukula kwa wokondedwa wanu, osalimbana ndi izi kapena kuseketsa. Kukhalapo kwa madera atsopano achidwi kumasunga ubale "watsopano" komanso mwachisangalalo.
3 Lamulo la Kuchulukana ndi Kuchuluka
Lamulo lokwanira ndi kuchuluka kwake kumathandizira kumvetsetsa kuti njira yokhayo yopezera zomwe ndikufuna ndikuyamikira kale zomwe zili pamenepo, popanda kuyang'ana pakalibe china. Kuthokoza kudzalipira zana.Kumayambiriro kwa ubalewo, mukayang'ana zabwino zokhazokha mwa mnzanu, ndizosavuta kugwirizanitsa zoyamika, komanso moona mtima. Koma popita nthawi, mukazindikira za kupanda ungwiro komanso zovuta zonse za wokondedwa, muyenera kuchita zojambulazo za kuwunika koyenera.
Muyenera kuyamikirira mnzanu zonse zomwe mumamukonda, poyankha chikondi chonse pakati pa onse komanso kulimbikitsa chikondi ichi kukula.
4 Lamulo la Chipango Chopachika
Lamulo la chilengedwe chonselo limakhazikitsidwa ndi kumvetsetsa zomwe mumatsogolera mphamvu zanu. Nthawi zambiri maubale amakhala okhwima komanso okhazikika, mumayamba kumva kuti "inafika" kopita "koma osafunikiranso kuyesetsa kulikonse. Ichi ndi cholakwika chachikulu kwambiri.
M'choonadi, banja limakhala nthawi zonse limadzipangira ndipo limacheza ndi ubale wake. Kupatula apo, anthu amakhala ndi moyo mosalekeza. Ndipo ngati mukuchita mwadzidzidzi musachirike kukula uku, mutha kubweretsa chibwenzicho ndi imfa yawo.
Kuti mugwiritse ntchito lamulo la chilengedwe kuti mulimbikitse chikondi, ndikofunikira kuiganizira ngati ntchito yokhazikika panjirayi. Nthawi ndi nthawi, ndikofunikira kuti muzikhudzidwa kwambiri ndi mphamvu zomwe zimathandizira kukula kwa maubale, ndikuyesetsa kuchita izi.
5 Lamulo la Zowopsa
Kutsatira lamulo lachiwerewere sikutanthauza kuti ndikofunikira "kutseka" kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wake, kuti azitalikira kapena kuletsa kuwonongeka kwake kapena kukondera. Izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kumasula maubwenzi ndi cholemetsa chodalirika komanso ziyembekezo zapamwamba kwambiri.Kuyesa kuwongolera machitidwe a wina ndi njira yachangu kwambiri yosungira ubale uliwonse. Mukachotsa zotsatira zina zomwe mukuyembekezera kuchokera kwa mnzanu, simudzakulitsa zonse zokwaniritsa zotsatira zake, koma zosiyana.
Kuti mugwiritse ntchito lamulo la kuchuluka kwa ubale wanu, muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti onse ali ndi zokonda zawo.
6 Kungakhale Koyera
Lamulo lapadziko lonse litha kuthandiza kutsegula malingaliro ndi mtima wanu kuti ubwenzi ukhale.
Popita nthawi, ndizotheka kuyamba kuchitira ndi wokondedwa wanu kuti anali m'mbuyomu, koma zimabweretsa monotony ndikuletsa zoletsa zomwe zimapezeka pamayanjano.
Kuti mugwiritse ntchito lamulo la mwayi wokwanira, muyenera kuganizira tsiku lililonse ndi wokondedwa wanu ngati chiyambi cha nkhani yatsopano yosangalatsa, yomwe siyinali yocheperako. Pitani kumalo atsopano. Onani makanema atsopano (ndi osiyanasiyana). Nthawi zonse zimadzidziwitsa zokhazokha ndipo zimazindikira zomwe siziwoneka kale za munthu amene amakonda.
Malamulo a Polar
Lamulo la Polarity limathandiza kumvetsetsa kuti munthu aliyense, aliyense mkhalidwe uliwonse ndi mbali iliyonse ya moyo pali mbali ziwiri. Onse ndi onse ali ndi mbali zabwino komanso zosayenera.
Muyenera kupanga kabuku kakang'ono kapena magazini kuti mupange mndandanda wazigawo zabwino kwambiri za wokondedwa wanu, komanso kuuza nthawi ndi nthawi.