Zokhudza ubale wa apongozi ndi apongozi ake zimapangidwa ndi nyimbo, akuwombera nyimbo komanso kulemba anecdotes, omwe ndi nyenyezi okhawo samakhala osavuta. Vuto Lamuyaya ndi "apongozi osaneneka" akupitilirabe. Kodi ndizotheka kuthetsa kusamvana kosatha? Zoona! Chinthu chachikulu ndikusankha njira zoyenera ndikutsatira malamulo angapo.
Malamulo awiri akulu a mpongozi onse
Lamulo nambala 1Choyambirira kumvetsetsa apongozi ake ndikuti apongozi ake alengeza nkhondoyi kwa iye, koma malo omwe amawatenga mumtima mwa mwana wake wokondedwa. Posachedwa, anali mayi yemwe anali mkazi wamkulu m'moyo wa mwana wake wamwamuna, ndipo tsopano ndi wopusa wopusa - mkazi. Chifukwa chake, simuyenera kuyesa kubweza amayi omwe mumawakonda, ndikokwanira kukhalabe mkazi wake wachikondi.
Lamulo nambala 2.
Ndikofunikabe kukumbukira madandaulo athu ndi mwamuna wake kwa amake, pazomwe akunena, zimapangitsa chilichonse kuti chitsogoleredwe chake - zonsezi zimawononga ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu. Inde, ali mwana kale komanso wokonda kudziyimira pawokha, koma amayi kwa iye nthawi zonse amakhala oyandikira kwambiri komanso osavomerezeka omwe saloledwa kuti amupatse aliyense.
Ulamuliro womwewo umagwira ntchito mbali ina - kulimbikitsidwa ndikupanga ubale ndi apongozi ake, zonse zidzachitika ndi wokondedwa wake. Mwina salankhula za izi, koma amakhalanso wosasangalatsa kuyang'ana zotchinga zanu.
Apongozi agolide
Kodi mukuganiza kuti izi zimangofanana ndi chilengedwe chofanana? Ndipo izi sichoncho! Zochitika zoterezi ndizotheka pazinthu zina, mwachitsanzo, ngati: • Mukukhala pansi padenga zosiyanasiyana. Uko nkulondola pamene banja latsopano limasunthira malo ena amoyo, si mwayi wotere nthawi zonse. Kupanda kutero, kukangana kosalekeza kumatetezedwa. Mavuto awiri kukhitchini nawonso ali. Kukoma mtima, zizolowezi, njira zophika, njira yoyeretsa komanso zochulukirapo - zonsezi zikuyesanso kuphunzitsa "zolondola", zomwe mwachilengedwe sizigwirizana komaliza. Koma tsoka, liyenera kusungidwa pano, kapena yesani kumanga zokambirana ndi kumwetulira kosangalatsa.
• Kuphatikiza kwa amuna anu m'banjamo muli ana ena. Inde, inde, ngati pali wina, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi kwambiri. Mukatero 'simusankha "Mwana yekhayo, ndipo apongozi ake adzakhala munthu amene angataye chikondi chonse ndi chisamaliro chonse.
• bizinesi yamalamulo komanso munthu wotanganidwa kwambiri. Zoyenera, ngati ali ndi bizinesi yake kapena ndiyabwino kwambiri, yomwe amakhala olemedwa nthawi zonse. Pankhaniyi, iye sangakhale ndi nthawi yokwanira kuti akwere mu banja lanu ndikupanga zinthu.
Koma zonse ndi zosiyana ndi zonse: • Mumakhala ndi apongozi anga. • Mwamuna wanu ndi mwana m'modzi m'banjamo. • Mwana wanu wovuta kwambiri kapena wofunitsitsa kwambiri. • Amayi achikondi adakwera ndikumukweza yekha, akugwira ntchito pa 5 ntchito. • Amayi a penshoni komanso mfulu kwathunthu, popanda zosangalatsa zilizonse.
Zinthu zambiri ndi zanu, zolimba zidzakhala zogwirizana, koma palibe nthawi zopanda chiyembekezo!
Momwe Mungagwiritsire Ntchito Ndi Apongozi
Ulemu ndi chida cholimba. Musachitike pazolongosoka, zomwe zitha kuchotsedwa kwa apongozi awo.
Musayankhe mwachipongwe, yesani kukhala osamala nthawi zonse komanso aulemu. Ngati kulowa kwa kulowa kwa kulowa udzakhala kokhazikika komanso kosaganizira, makamaka, izi zindikirani amuna anu, sizokayikitsa kuti adzakhala chete ndi kuti adzangokhala chete ndi amayi ake.
Yesani kupeza china chofanana pakati panu.
Chifukwa cha kusiyana pakati pa mibadwoyo, sikophweka, koma siyikhala yosafunikira. Mwinanso amakonda masewera, kapena amakonda kupita kukagula? Kapena mwina amakonda kuphika?
Yesani kugawanitsa chidwi chake, mufunseni mafunso pamutu womwe ali katswiri. Itanani ku sinema kapena zisudzo ndi kutenga nawo mbali kwa okonda ake, pitani ku Salon kapena spa palimodzi. Kupatula apo, ngakhale kuti ndi kuti ndi apongozi anu - choyamba ndi mkazi yemwe ali ndi chidwi ndi zilakolako zake.
Osadandaula za okondedwa ake kwa amayi ake
Amuna nthawi zambiri amalekerera zovala za akazi, ndipo azimayi awiri omwe amakonda kuchita nawo izi, palibe chomwe anganene. Pamene mbali ina ya mkazi, koma kwa mayi wina, ndizovuta kuti iye avomereze mbali ya winawake, chifukwa njira zonsezi zikutaya. Ndipo ngakhale iye yekha akadzilola kukhala ndi mawu osasinthika kwa mayi, izi sizitanthauza kuti zovomerezeka ndi inu.
Kuphatikiza apo, ndizosatheka kuyika okondedwa anu musanasankhe "kapena ine, kapena iye" - akazi akhoza kukhala ambiri, ndipo amayi ndi amodzi - kusankha kwake ndikowoneka. Ndipo pofuna kusanja ubalewu ndi apongozi ake ndipo osakhazikitsa njira yophulika - ngakhale mutakhala padera - nthawi zina mumangoyankhula, nthawi zina amalankhula, za thanzi lake, za thanzi lake, adzakhala zabwino.
Ndiroleni ndimvetsetse apongozi ake kuti akufunika
Apongozi ndiovuta kwambiri kuti mnyamata wokondedwa, amene adakulerera ndi chikondi ndi kusamalira nthawi yayitali, amamusiya. Mpaka pano, adapita kwa iye ndikumuwona kufunika kwake. Ndipo tsopano iye amadziona kuti amasiyidwa komanso osafunikira, chifukwa mavuto amayamba.
Mutha kusintha zotsatira zakuthwa nokha - nkhawa yanu. Pali mafoni onse omwewo ndi kulumikizana, amafunsa nthawi zina kukuthandizani ndi china chake, amvetsetse kuti akadali munthu woyenera. Zowona kuti za inu muonekere, zidzakhala zabwino kwa iye. Osayesa kulumikizana ndi munthu wotsutsana ndi apongozi ake
Ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwa momwe ndimafunira izi, ndizosatheka kuchita izi. Zinthu ngati izi sizimasiyana mu kukhazikika ndipo nthawi ina zinthu zingakutembenukire. Nthawi zina, mungakambirane ndi loto, mwachitsanzo, apongozi a Rusyalahni, koma osapita patali kwambiri. Bwezeretsani mbiri pambuyo pa kuwonekera kotere ndikukhazikitsa ubalewo ndikosatheka.
Osayang'ana paubwenzi ndi kusinthasintha kwa apongozi ake
Ndi mkazi uti yemwe samakonda zoyamikiridwa? Ndipo mawu abwino atachokera kwa mpongozi apongozi - ndizosangalatsa. Zachidziwikire, simuyenera kutamandira chilichonse nthawi zambiri, mwanjira ina imawoneka ngati latcheru, ndipo palibe amene amakonda. Nkhani yaukadaulo wa mpongozi wake - nthawi zina amavomereza kupanda ungwiro kwawo komanso kulamulira kwa apongozi. Inde, zitha kukhala zosasangalatsa komanso zolimba - zotsatira za zodabwitsazi.
Osasokoneza ana
Amayi ambiri akuyesera kugwiritsa ntchito zida zolemera ndikuyamba kupusitsa ana - adayika katswiri wake pakulankhulana ndi agogo ake, adawatsutsa, etc. Kumbukirani unani wanu ndi apongozi ndi chinthu chimodzi, muli ndi anthu ake ena. Kwa ana, iye ndi agogo awo, ndi omwe sianganene kuti achikulire sangathe kuimba mlandu. Upangiri waukuluwu uthandiza kwambiri apongozi ake ndikumvetsetsa zolinga za machitidwe ake.
Monga lamulo, zovuta zazikulu kwambiri zimachitika pakuyamba kwa moyo wabanja. Popita nthawi, anthu akamazolowerana wina ndi mnzake, zimavutikira ndi mikhalidwe ya aliyense, maubale amayamba kusintha. Ndipo kumbukirani, kusankha kupanga lingaliro loti mukwatire wokondedwa, mumalandira okha abale ake onse.