Sizikhala nkhani aliyense amene amathandizana nawo, mu mzimu womwe umawoneka kuti nthawi zambiri umawapsompsona. Kuchokera pakukhudza kwa milomo yake mpaka kuma tsaya ku French yapamwamba kwambiri ... Koma azimayi ena samamvetsetsa momwe angayang'anire pamphumi.
"Kupsompsona pamphumi pamtunda ukusonyeza chikondi champhamvu," akutero Laures a Filophy Uku si moni kapena zolaula zolaula, kaya ndi mawonekedwe osakonda omwe amapereka china chake mwakuya.Tiyeni tipereke zifukwa 6 zomwe munthu angagwere pamphumi.
1. Banja lili ndi kulumikizana kwambiri
Kupsompsona pamphumi kuchokera kwa wokondedwa kumayankhula za chinthu chosiyana kwathunthu ndi zomwe zimatsekedwa khutu kuchipinda chogona. "Ngakhale kupsompsona milomo kumaloza kukopeka ndi kugonana, kupsompsona pamphumi kumatanthauza ubale wabwino," akufotokoza Steinberg.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake makolo kapena agogo amapsompsona pamphumi - mawonekedwe awa ndikuwonetsa chikondi.
2. Wogwirizana akufuna kupsompsona mzimu
M'malo mwake, pali zokangana zenizeni kuchokera ku mfundo yachilengedwe ya chifukwa chomwe kupsompsona pamphumi pamphumi kumayambitsa kutentha mkati. Kutentha ndi kukakamizidwa kwa milomo ya munthu pamphumi kumapangitsa chidwi cha Prycoidal chomwe chikuwonetsa mankhwala omwe amasangalatsa chisangalalo ndi kukweza m'maganizo. Mnzanu wochita izi modabwitsa akupsompsona malingaliro a wokondedwa, malingaliro omwe adagawana, ndi iye ngati munthu, osati thupi chabe.3. Mkazi osati chabe
Zilibe kanthu, iyi ndi bwenzi lomwe silinawonepo kuchokera ku Kindergarten, kapena munthu watsopano - ngati bambo akupsompsona msungwana pamphumi pake, ungakhale wotsimikiza kuti nthawi yomweyo amamuganizira (ngakhale kwambiri zokongola) thupi. "Kupsompsona pamphumi kukuwonetsa kuti mkazi samangoganiza zongogonana," akutero Steaberg. Ichi ndi njira yachifundo, osati yachiwerewere kuti muphunzitse ndi kulemekeza mkazi wake.
4. Mnzakenso amafunanso kumva chikondi
Bungwe lina likufotokoza bwino za njira zabwino zomwe akufuna kuti apeze, "akufotokoza Steing. Polankhula motero, ngati munthu akupsompsona mkazi pamphumi pake, akuyembekeza kuti ayankhanso chikondi.5. Kukopa kugonana kulibe
Ngati mnzanu akupsompsona pamphumi okha, zingatanthauze kuti kugonana paubwenzi kumatha kutha. Komabe, ndizogwirizana kwambiri ndi zomwe zikuchitika pakati pa onse. Ngati mtsikanayo sakudziwa zomwe zikuchitika mu ubale wake, ndikofunikira kuyesa kulowetsa milomo yake pansi pa kupsompsona ndikuwona zomwe zidzachitike.
Ngati mnzakeyo achotsedwa kapena akuwoneka wopanda chiyembekezo, ndi nthawi yoti mulankhule za zomwe zinachitika. Ndipo zitachitika izi zitatsatiridwa pamphumi pamphumi kuchokera ku Interloor, zitha kutanthauza kuti adawononga nthawiyo, koma safuna zochulukirapo pamayanjano.
6. Mgwirizano "amakondwerera kupambana", akukhulupirira kuti anali mwayi kupeza mkazi wotere
Mukapeza mnzanu wokhala ndi malingaliro ofanana, ndikupambana kwenikweni, pambuyo poti chigonjetso chingawonekere.
Mwina ndichifukwa chake zithunzi ndi memes ndi kupsompsona pamphumi ili ndi zotchuka ku Instagram. "Kuonetsetsa kuti wina akuwonani inu ndipo malingaliro anu ndi amtengo wapatali kwa inu nokha, ndi kupindula kwambiri, ndipo anthu amanyadira kuwonetsa kuti angawonetse kuti angawone.