Tom Ettaoter mu Seputembara 2012 anazindikira kuti ali ndi chotupa chaubongo. Zinachitika ndendende pamene mwana wawo wamkazi Kelesi adalimbana ndi neuroblastoma. Mtsikanayo nthawi zambiri amachiritsidwa, koma abambo sadza posachedwa. Tom adalemba khanda kalata yotseguka kuti amuuze zonse zomwe sakanatha kunena m'zaka zapitazo. Izi, zikuoneka kuti, kalata yosangalatsa kwambiri komanso yokhudza kwambiri, yomwe bambo wake adalemba nthawi yonse yaukazi.
Wokondedwa Kelly, Pepani kuti sindingayang'ane momwe mukuledzera, ndikufuna izi. Abambo ndi aakazi ambiri ali ndi zaka zambiri zokambirana kunja kwa tebulo la kukhichini, wokhala ndi makapu a khofi m'manja - abambo amaperekanso maso ake. Tilibe nthawi. Sindingathe kukutsogolerani kwa kalasi yoyamba, kukutolani kuyambira tsiku loyamba, kukumbatirani mukakhala ndi mtima wopweteketsa, kuda nkhawa za inu mu mayeso omaliza. Koma motero bambo wanu wachikulire ali pafupi. Ndipo ndimaganiza kuti nditha kukupatsirani maupangiri. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mudzakuthandizani pang'ono. Ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti khansa yanu sidzabweranso ndipo kuti moyo wanu udzakhala wautali, wolemera komanso wokondwa.Sukulu
Onse adzakuwuzani kufunika kophunzira. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mudzagwira ntchito molimbika. Ndinaphunzira bwino, koma kodi zidandithandizanso m'moyo? Osati kwenikweni. Sukulu ndiyofunikiradi, koma yesani ndikusangalala.
Anyamata
Tsopano simukuwona kusiyana kwapadera pakati pa anyamata ndi atsikana, ndinu abwenzi ndi onse motsatana. Koma zidzasintha posachedwa. Mudzaona kuti anyamatawo amanunkhira mopusa komanso molakwika nthawi zambiri. Komano, kale kusekondale, mudzamvetsetsa kuti akhoza kukhala mamailosi okongola. Mukadzakula - ndikhulupirira kuti si posachedwa - mudzakhala ndi zibwenzi. Ndipo sindingathe kulankhula nawo za ulemu ndi zolinga, monga momwe Atate amadalitsira. Nanga nayi Council ya abambo anu ndi. Zimakhala zovuta kufotokoza momwe ziliri - kugwa mchikondi. Koma mudawona momwe mumaseka amayi anu, kukumbatirana, atakhala pa sofa, ndipo izi ndizomwe zimatsalira pomwe maluwa atayamba ndipo mitima imatayika kwinakwake. Ingoyesani kubwereza. Nthawi zonse sankhani anyamata a njonda, ndi ulemu, mwaulemu. TAYEREKEZANI momwe amamwa tiyi m'khichini athu ndikumacheza nafe mwaulemu. Ngati mukuganiza kuti munthuyo akuchita bwino - unapeza mnyamata wabwino. Kalanga ine, tsiku lina mtima wako umasweka. Zimakhala zowawa kwambiri, ndipo zidzawoneka ngati inu kuti ichi ndi mathedwe adziko lapansi. Koma mudzapulumuka, aliyense ali ndi nkhawa. Ngakhale pamene chikondi chidzatha, khalani abwino. Anyamata nawonso ali ndi malingaliro. Ndipo pamapeto, ngati muli ndi bwenzi la mwana wamwamuna yemwe akhala nanu nthawi zovuta kwambiri, pomwe zibwenzi zikadzabwera ndikuchokapo, musamusamalire.Chikwati
Ndimalota, chifukwa ndidzakutsogolera kuguwa ndi kungoganiza kuti maso anga adzadzazidwa ndi misozi ndikadzakupatsani inu amuna anga. Sindingathe kuchita izi, Kelly, ndikhululukireni. Koma ndikuyang'ana panu patsikuli, wokondwa komanso wonyada kotero kuti mwapeza banja labwino.
Mm
Ndikudziwa kuti nthawi zina mudzalumbira ndi amayi anu, makamaka mukalowa m'mabwana. Ingokumbukirani kuti amakukondani ndipo amakufunirani zabwino. Mayi oyenera, pakakhala chisoni, kuthandiza wina ndi mnzake kuti apulumuke nthawi zoopsa zomwe zimabwera. Mukakhala wachinyamata, muganiza kuti anzanu akunena zoona, ndipo amayi alibe. Koma adayesa kuti akuthandizeni inu nonse, ndipo mu moyo wake nthawi zonse amakhala ndi zokonda zanu - kukula kwambiri kuposa bwenzi lanu labwino. Pitani ndi zabwino zake.Banja
Palibe banja lofunikira komanso mfundo zomwe amatiuza. Palibe ayi.
Abwenzi
Chitirani anthu momwe amakuchitirani. Nthawi zonse muzikhala mtunda ndi anthu omwe amakuthandizani. Palibe chowopsa kuposa chofooka.Khrisimasi ndi masiku akubadwa
Kwa Khrisimasi yoyamba popanda ine, ndikufuna kuti mutenge kandulo ndi amayi anga ndikuwaganizira za ine mphindi zochepa. Zikhala zabwino ngati muvina limodzi. Mulumpha ndikugwedeza pops, ngati kuti ndayandikira ndikugwa kuchokera kuseka. Zidzandisangalatsa. Ndipo zidzakhala zabwino, ngati mupita kukayendera makolo anga pambuyo pa Khrisimasi, adzayambanso kukhala kovuta. Ndasiya mphatso kwa masiku anu onse akubadwa. Ndizomvera chisoni kuti sindidzakhala pafupi ndi ine mukawatsegulira. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mumakonda. Zovuta kulingalira za zaka 10, 15 kapena 20. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukondabe kutsimikiza ndi kuvina mozungulira chipindacho pansi pa nyimbo zawo.
Ntchito.
Ndikukumbukira kuti mwandiuza zomwe mukufuna kukhala wankhondo komanso kutsegulira mapulaneti atsopano m'madiresi okongola. Tsopano inu, mukumvetsetsa kale kuti ndizosatheka. Koma, komabe, zinthu zambiri ndizothekadi. Chitani zomwe zimakusangalatsani. Ngati mungachite zomwe mumakonda, moyo udzatsimikizira mwadzidzidzi, mosangalatsa kwambiri. Muyenera kuti musinthe akatswiri angapo musanasankhe. Zilekeni zikhale chomwecho. Moyo ndi wokha, ndipo mwayi ulinso wokha.Makhalidwe
Musaiwale mawu amatsenga - "chonde!" Ndipo zikomo! " Tili ndi amayi anga omwe akuwatsogolera mwa inu, chifukwa ndikofunikiradi ndipo amathandiza pa moyo. Khalani aulemu nthawi zonse, makamaka ndi akulu. Osati anthu oyamba m'mawu. Musaiwale kulemba makalata oyamikika mukalandira mphatso. Ndipo inde, nthabwala za poop ndizabwino, pokhapokha ngati muli ndi zaka zisanu.
Makina
Nthawi zambiri, makolo amaphunzitsa kuyendetsa ana aakazi, ndipo nthawi zambiri amaziipira. Sitingachite bwino monga choncho, koma muyesa kuphunzira momwe mungapangire kuyambira koyambirira - izi zimatsegula dziko lomwe lili patsogolo panu. Inde, ndipo musakuyang'anireni (Pepani, wokondedwa, ndikubera).Yenda
Awa ndi cliché, zowonadi, kuyenda kumeneku kukukulirakulira, koma izi ndi zowona. Yesani kuwona momwe mungathere. Kuyenda. Koma osati pa njinga yamoto, imakhala yowopsa.
Sangalalani
Simumaseka makumi asanu peresenti, nthawi zonse amakhala zana. Ndikukhulupirira kuti nthawi zonse mumasesa mosamala. Sizikupanga nzeru kuyesera kuti tisakhale achisoni ndikachoka. Ndikudziwa kuti zikhala zovuta. Ndipo ndikufuna kukhala pafupi kukukumbatirani ndikumanani. Koma mukukumbukira chimbalangondo chomwe tidagula mu malo ogulitsira? Munati muwasamalira ndikumukumbatira pamene sindingatero. Ili ndi lingaliro labwino.Sulfur zachifundo
Chonde ndiloleni ndilole ndalama zachifundo. Anthu anali wokoma mtima kwambiri kwa ife. Muyenera kukumbukira maulendo athu nthawi zonse ku Disneyland. Ndipo sindidzaiwala kuti anthu angati omwe adapereka ndalama chifukwa cha chithandizo chanu. Okalamba adatumiza zikwangwani ndi ngongole za decirestrist zomwe zimabwera. Anthu adathawa mahatos ndikugawana nawo mitu yawo. Tinatenga ndalama zambiri. Ndipo zonsezi kwa inu. Ndikofunikira kulipira ngongole. Ndipo ntchito zabwino zimalemera moyo.
Kukhala chiputu
Nthawi zonse yeserani. Kuponya ndi kwa otayika. Ndipo khululukiraninso. Ndinalephera zolephera m'moyo wanga, koma sindinasiye. Ndipo inu simutaya mtima, Kelly.Dzikhulupirireni
Ambiri angakuuzeni kuti simungathe kapena ayi. Kusankhira yekha. Mutha? Mukufuna? Zinthu zovuta nthawi zonse zimakhala zoopsa, chifukwa muyenera kusankha ndi malingaliro. Ngati mukufuna china chake - nthawi zonse chimatha, choncho yesani. Ndikuganiza kuti mutha kukwaniritsa zambiri. Ndipo pamapeto ... Zikomo chifukwa chokhala, kelly. Tithokoze chifukwa choyamikira kwambiri m'moyo wanga - pazomwe mumanditcha abambo. Ndiwe mwana wanga, ndipo ichi ndi ulemu waukulu kwa ine. Zikomo - chifukwa ndiwe amene wandiphunzitsa kukhala wachimwemwe komanso wachikondi kuposa munthu wina aliyense padziko lapansi. Sangalalani ndi moyo wanu. Osathamangira. Ndidikila. Ndimakukondani, mwana wanga wamkazi, ndi amayi ako. Abambo.