Mzimayi akangofika mu msinkhu winawake kapena kukwatiwa, anthuwo amayesa kuti ntchito yake imupangitse dzenje pamutu pake "bwino, ndipo mudzabereka mwana?" Tatenga zizindikilo 10 kuti zimayamba kale. Mutha kupeza banja - Tumizani Molimba Mtima!
Mumawerenga zolemba zomwe zalembedwa "zomwe mayi wachichepere pobadwa kwa mwana amachotsedwa
Ndipo simupeza mphamvu zolingalira motsutsana ndi zoopsa zonsezi. Mumamvera chisoni zonse: Thupi lanu, nthawi yaulere, mowa, maphwando, oyenda, ndipo zonse zomwe mungachite popanda kuganiza kuti ndinu oyang'anira wina, wopanda chitetezo.Kodi igawana bwanji maswiti omaliza m'bokosi? Ndipo ngati mwana wamkazi akukula ndikupita kukayeza (ndikuphwanya!) Nsapato zomwe mumakonda? Ndipo ngati Mwanayo akukula ndi kupita kwa mkazi wina ?! Chabwino, ayi, simunalembetse!
Ndinu nokha
Gwirizanani - kuti mubereke mwana, munthu safunikira kwenikweni. Ndipo ambiri, amakhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kubereka yekha, chifukwa sakhala chilichonse kwa mwana wanu. Inde sipadzakhala ayi. Koma poyamba mwana ndi nkhani yokhudza kupitiliza kwamtundu wa inu ndi munthu wanu. Za chikondi chomwe chimafunikira chowonjezera chowonjezera. Kuphatikiza apo, mzimayi panthawi yoyembekezera komanso zaka zoyambirira za moyo wa mwanayo amakhala wopanda nkhawa. Zachidziwikire, mutha kuthana ndi chilichonse (simukuwotcha apa? Akavalo sadzalumpha?), Koma ndibwino kuti pakhale munthu amene amathandizira kapena ngakhale kugawa ntchitoyo ndi inu.
Mukukopa abale
Kutsogola, m'malingaliro awo, malingaliro osawoneka ngati "simukumvetsa chikondi chenicheni ndi chisangalalo chenicheni!", "Mukukhala mu moyo wopanda pake!", Ndipo ndani angakupatseni kapu yamadzi mu ukalamba ?! " etc. Mumakana mwamphamvu ndipo mumaganiza kale kuti muberebe. Monga machitidwe akuwonetsera, kukhumba kuphatikizidwa kumbuyo kwa mzere womwe uli kumbuyo kwa kubadwa kwa mwana, kotero ngati zokambirana izi zikukukwiyitsani, pezani paddleyo ndipo zonse zimvereni chisoni pamutu panu. Simuyenera kupirira kusasamala zokhudza moyo wanu wapadera komanso wapadera. Inu, pamapeto, munthu wamoyo, osalankhula zokhumba.Muli ndi zosakwana 18.
Zachidziwikire, apa ku Russia zonse zili pafupi - m'badwo wa chilolezo chochokera kwa ife kuyambira zaka 16 - koma, kukhala woona mtima, zaka 18 ndizabwino, kuti ndichisoni kuti ndi nthawi ya ma diape, zotupa ndi poop. Mukudzaza mphamvu ndi mphamvu, mutha kutsikirani kwa Elikani imodzi ndipo nthawi zambiri ikapita ku Antarctica kuti athandize ma penguin. Zachidziwikire, pali atsikana omwe kale mwa 14 adapanga dongosolo lomveka bwino, kuphatikizapo mwamuna wake, ana ndi mwana wa bulldog mu nthawi mpaka 21, koma ndibwino kuganiza bwino. Pali zinthu ngati izi: Ana ndi nthawi zonse.
Ana ndi a Lyalkali
Mukutsimikiza ndipo mukudziwa bwino zomwe mwana wanu adzaonekera, aliyense pozungulira adzadzipanga okha nthawi yomweyo, ndikukwatula pozungulira mu cltragne! Mumalandira m'manja mwanu, azimwetulira! Ndipo mupita mtsogolo kokongola, komwe mungadule zithunzi zoseketsa ku Instagram, lembani zokoma za momwe muliri wokondwa, ndipo mwanayo adzamwetulira pakamwa lonse ndikuwonetsa mngelo. Dorusha, Phunzirani Masast. Choyamba, kutenga pakati ndi kubereka ndi kupsinjika kwakukulu kwa thupi (komanso magazi ndi magazi, matumbo, owona, mwana ameneyo amadya, amagona, ma keke ndi mafure. Chilichonse. Chachitatu, simugona mokwanira. Palikali, wachisanu, wachisanu ndi chimodzi ndi zana, kotero ndiponya zithunzi za idyllic pamutu pamutu, ndipo, ndi Khristu, zimakuletsani mawu osapembedza "LYABA". Mkulu wathu wamkati mwa ziweto amamenya mutu wake kukhoma.Mumapanga ntchito
Kuphatikiza ntchito ndi ana ndizovuta, koma mutha. Koma milandu yonseyi imafuna kuzunzika kwadzidzidzi, zosungidwa ndi zozunzidwa. Chifukwa chake musawonekere ngati malingaliro okhudzana ndi "fano lachibadwa, komanso inu za ntchito!" - Mungokhala ndi ufulu wosankha zofunika kwa inu. Ndi mankhwala, ndi njira, sikoyeneranso. Mwachitsanzo, wojambula wodziwika Annovie Leibovitz anabereka mwana woyamba pa 50, ndipo amadzimva ngati akatswiri, ndipo amamva bwino.
Simukufuna ana pano
Simukufuna. Kapena mukufuna, koma osati pano. Ndipo mwakwanitsa!Simunakonzekere kusintha
Komanso, kusintha mbali zonse zakunja ndi zamkati. Simunakonzekere kukhala osatetezeka komanso odalira, mumabwera chifukwa cha zomwe mungaganizire zolakwitsa, mumaopa kuti mukhale paubwenzi ndi iye. Kapenanso mwina mukuda nkhawa ndi nthawi ya chikondi kuti munalota za moyo wanga wonse, ndipo palibe kufuna kulola mwanayo kuti akhale weniweni, zomwe sizikupotoza, moyo wanga wonse umayika pansi ndi chivomerezi m'misewu 10 pa kukula kwachuma. Kukhazikika kumakhala kokongola, kuphatikizapo chifukwa posachedwa idzakhala yotopetsa kenako mutha kuganiza zosintha.
Mukuopa
Malinga ndi kuchuluka kwa mantha amilankhulidwe, azimayi omwe angakhale omwe amakumana nawo kwa iwo omwe akhala akulemba ndi khomo lotseguka zaka 40, chifukwa chowopsa. Mantha akulu, akuda nkhawa ngati mayi angakhale mayi wabwino kapena akupulumuka "Amayi Amuyayawa, kodi ukuchita chiyani ndi mwana wanu ?!". Kuphatikiza apo, bwanji ngati inu ndi amuna anu simungathe kupereka mwana ndi zonse zofunika? M'masiku athu ovuta, Babeshkin, mfundo yokhudza mbedza ndi mapapu imagwira ntchito molakwika! Kodi mungatani ngati mukukula ndipo mwamunayo akuponyerani, kodi simukhala nokha ndi mwana wanu ndi amphaka asanu ndi atatu? Kapena udzakhala ngati mayi ndi ichi "Ndaika moyo wanga wonse pa iwe, koma mbadwa !!". Mantha oterewa amatha kukhala ndi neurosis kwathunthu pogwera nthaka yachonde chifukwa cha kuvutika maganizo pambuyo pake. Chifukwa chake, mwina, ndibwino kuyang'ana pa iwo poyamba, kenako ndikuganiza za ana.Ndinu opambana mwana
Simunawerewere zidole za ana, simunakhalepo ndi chidwi ndi ana a anthu ena, mukufuna kukhalabe ndi chisangalalo chanu ndi wokondedwa wanu ndipo simukufuna kukhala pachinthu china. Chofunika kwambiri, muli ndi zotsutsa zolimba za kubereka konse. Mwina pakapita nthawi udindo wanu usintha, koma mukapanda kuganiza za izi, koma mukukhala lero. Ndipo ndi zolondola! Palibe chomwe chingafunikire kuchita chilichonse, ndipo koposa zonse yesani zinthu zazikulu ngati kubereka. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuzindikira pakapita nthawi, mudzakhalabe zibwenzi pamapeto pake kapena nthawi ina mudzapha njira ya mayi. Koma pano mutha kuthana ndi inu: moyo wanu ndi chisankho chanu.