Ndi kubadwa kwa mwana, azimayi ambiri amalowa mkati mwawo ndipo sapita kukagwira ntchito, akukhulupirira kuti mwamunayo adzagwira ntchito, abale. Komabe, mwanayo adzabereka, amayamba kupita ku Kindergarten, kenako kusukulu, ndi purcsensiyi ya kholo la kholo likhala lofunikira.
Nthawi zambiri, azimayi amati sagwira ntchito, popeza ali ndi ana, muyenera kuwaponyera, koma kuwapatsa chidwi ndi chisamaliro. Koma ana siofunikira kwambiri komanso ofunikira, makamaka ngati mayi ali nawo maola 24 patsiku. Posachedwa, adzatopa, zomwe zidzayamba kusweka. Kupumula kwa ana ndikofunikira kuti mulowe mu mtundu uwu komanso wopangidwa ndi izi, ndipo mkazi sangakhale kunyumba kwanthawi yayitali, chifukwa amayamba kukhala osalala. Kuphatikiza apo, azimayi ogwira ntchito amabwerera kuntchito, kuti asataye ziyenerezo ndikudzithandiza okha pantchito. Inde, inde, cholinga cha mkazi sikuti kuli konse kuti akhale kunyumba ndikuwiritsa borschi, koma yesetsani kuzindikira zomwe mungathe m'zinthu zonse. Chifukwa chake, mkazi atanena kuti sagwira ntchito, popeza ali ndi ana - ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kusalabadira. Ana amafunika kudyetsa. Gulani zovala zanu, ndipo musaiwale za inu. Palibe amene amatsimikizira kuti mwamuna wake adzathandiza nthawi zonse, chifukwa amatha kuchokapo, ndi kufa. Ndipo choti ndichitire mkazi yemwe sanadzikakamize okha kapena ana awo?
Chinthu china pamene mkazi akuti zimagwira ntchito, chifukwa ali ndi ana.
Sikofunikira kusankha ntchito yomwe imatenga tsiku lonse ndikubwerera kuchokera kumayikomedwera. Chachikulu ndichakuti ntchito imakondweretsa, osakhala cortica.
Muthanso kugwira ntchito kunyumba ngati mukufuna, ndipo musakhale kwa amuna anu pakhosi ndikuganiza kuti moyo wanga wonse upitirire. Makamaka akazi akakhala ndi akulu omwe ali kale ndi achikulire, ndipo amakhalabebe mnyumba. Kodi maasiketi ndi chiyani kuti amve kukhululuka kwake? Inde, ine nsomba si ntchito, chifukwa salandira malipiro.
Kuthamangira ana ndi njira yosavuta kwambiri, ndipo mkaziyo sakunena kuti ali waulesi ndipo safuna kusintha kalikonse m'moyo, poganiza kuti adzakhala pakhosi. Koma muzochitika zotere, mphamvu majerali nthawi zambiri zimachitika pamene mkazi akakakamizidwa kusiya malo otonthoza ndikuyambira chilichonse kuyambira kanda. Ndipo ndizovuta kwambiri, zimabweretsa ma neurosis. Ntchito imafunikira kwa anthu onse, chifukwa popanda iwo amayamba kuchita zamkhutu, ndikuganiza malingaliro achilendo. Ndipo ana sakhala osamala kwambiri.